' babe, even my 7 year old thinks your sexi' internet dating - part 3.

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you alright papa smurf? Not like you to have one word answers :) x

Watch - squeeee he sounds great. I hope you have an amazing night!

Morning :)

Just had a message on OKCupid asking me for my msn/skype addy, from someone who admits to looking for casual sex on his profile This is a younger man (early 20s) too.

Time

I wonder if its the same guy that I got Chaotic. Think mine was on POF asking to chat/ meet up but he was only looking for an intimate encounter.

This one's from Preston and naked from the waist up. Needless to say I've deleted the message and hidden him.

I keep getting replies now from the guys that I have sent a sarcastic reply to and said NO. THinking there is something in this negative response thing

Just checking in with a quick hello. Bloody work [grumble grumble]

Time oh dear I can only imagine. Will have a look later!

Poppa you ok love?

Watch he sounds better all the time :o

Lubey just in case you don't get the time, he says he is 'differant to other men' and his photo's are of his legs, donned in fishnet tights and heels! Oh and a couple of him in a dress.

Whats his user id time

lubey The user id is 'a differant guy'...very appropriate

Ahh, forgot I deleted my smooch profile

Oh, fuckl sorry that should say zany

He sounds swoonerific Watch I love metal guys, nom nom nom!

I saw the 'a differant (sic) guy' profile...my legs look better in fishnets AND those shoes? C'mon, if you're going to be a cross dresser, at least put the fucking effort in and not look like Les Dawson.

I had a cross dresser contact me on OKCupid asking about my boots and how I had excellent taste, I felt validated tbh ha

he does, i hope it goes ok. Or at least its fun. Im all a bit excited. Which means tomorrow, if its gone wrong ill probably need some kind of pep talk.
Bugger, im all nervous. Can somone tell me to get a grip?

I cant look at that profile as im at work...:(

Its good that you feel excited Watch. If you weren't bothered then you would be getting cold feet about going and coming on here to say that next time you will only go on a date if you feel excited . I very rarely get nervous before a date, unless I know that I fancy/like them before hand after either talking to them loads or swooning looking at there pictures.

hmm. i dont tend to get excited either. i was excited about mr shag fest though. but that was justified!!! lol

I dont like feeling nervous. feels like too many expectations. And self doubt starts creaping in.
which is more than annoying.

Yeahhh watch it's good that you're excited :o

I quite like crossdressers sometimes. I had an ex that did it and I got out my make up and re-did him. It was a lovely and intimate experience and relationship... which ended for other reasons. Mr 'differant' aka Les Dawson legs however... nooooo. Just NOOOO! :o

Lubey off topic I know but please, can you tell me how you manage to get such a high score on bejewelled blitz. Pretty please. Tips?

Ohhh... be excited to meet him by all means but ditch the expectations. Don't be too starstruck with all the rock band stuff. He's just a bloke, and one that admits he isn't good at relationships. Let that keep your grounded. Just have a nice date with a good guy and see what happens after then. You'll be fine I'm sure and have a great time :o

Hahah!! Time Now that would be telling... no not really it's just practice, do it loads without using any boosts, then gradually add them in to your gameplay but regularly play without any to make it more difficult on you. Then you are better at it when you DO use the 'boosts' and find what combination of them works for you. I got good at it when I was playing tons and tons to try and beat a friend of mine.

Thank you lubey I shall give your game plan a go!

The only date I've been super excited for, and slightly nervous, was Heathcliff last friday because we'd had such great chemistry online that I was worried it wouldn't work offline...but it has.

I love getting that excited feeling!! Don't let the self doubts cloud that delicious feeling, remember, he's probably feeling a little anxious himself regardless of his 'rock star' ways, I'm dying to find out how it goes, update us asap!

Umm, hello ladies, please may I join you?
I have trawled the other 2 threads with a big smile on my face.
I started ID a few weeks ago & have found your advice & experiences really handy - it is a vipers nest out there!
I am treading gently and have a few people that I am messaging....
I will not be able to be on loads, but I will try & keep up with al the news.
Thanks for a fab thread, I hope that I will be able to post some of my experiences in the not too distant future :-)

Hello wrigglytummy!

Penguin yeah... I was massively in love with him before I found out though about three months in so that probably made me more receptive to the idea. And he was damned hot. And didn't have the urge to 'dress' often. All factors I think.