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To be angry at his abortion request?

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Breevandercamp1750 · 22/08/2011 18:02

I'll keep this brief but a few months ago we discovered that I was pregnant again. We already have 3 DCs, youngest is almost 9 months. He was over the moon about new arrival but in the last few days has changed his mind. I'm 18 weeks now and really don't want an abortion.

I don't understand his issue, we live in a large house with spare bedrooms and can easily afford it.

I just don't understand. I feel so empty.

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Thumbwitch · 13/09/2011 15:23

Bree - he's a shit of the first order. Glad you're getting things sorted and I hope you do royally screw him over after the crap he's dished out to you!
Brave, strong woman - have a scream every now and then when you need to, that's what we're here for :)

mathanxiety · 13/09/2011 15:27

Great news Bree. You sound like someone with a massive weight off her back. Keep on looking after yourself now.

So gobsmackingly stunning that someone could turn his back on so much and in such a brutal way for whatever it was that that affair meant to him.

Well done for making the arrangements with the sol and accountant.

SnakeOnCrack · 13/09/2011 15:45

I'm so glad you're ok, and a girl! Congratulations.

I have been reading this thread with interest. You're doing so well, such a brave lady, well done!

ColdSancerre · 13/09/2011 15:53

Wonderful Bree I'm glad all is fine with your DD. I lurk and read this and think you're amazing.

Onemorning · 13/09/2011 15:55

Bree, what great news about your DD.

You are setting her and your other DC a terrific example of strength under fire. You are incredibly brave.

TheOriginalFAB · 13/09/2011 16:37

FAbulous news, a lovely girl Smile.

Was this a routine 20 week scan or an extra one?

bananamam · 13/09/2011 17:14

Grinthat's great bree!

heleninahandcart · 13/09/2011 18:10

A little girl Grin

ilovesprouts · 13/09/2011 18:47

awwh Grin

Flisspaps · 13/09/2011 18:54

Bree - Grin for you. So pleased that you and DD are well. It seems that 'seeing' her has brought your fighting spirit back, fabulous :)

PfftTheMagicDraco · 13/09/2011 19:14

Oh Bree, so pleased for you Smile

catclarks · 13/09/2011 20:21

Have just read the thread. Can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Delighted about your news today. Look after yourself and all your DCs Smile

WhoWhoWhoWho · 13/09/2011 20:58

Aaw a little girl! Envy

Pleased you and baby are doing well bree and that dcs are settling into school. You are doing amazingly well, and you sound like your scan today has given you a boost which is lovely. Smile

HerHissyness · 13/09/2011 22:22

Aww, how lovely! a girl! fantastic!

You are so strong love! you are an inspiration!

beautifulswan · 14/09/2011 13:20

Have read all thread, congrats Bree, a beautiful baby girl! xxx

DharmaBumpkin · 17/11/2011 21:32

Bree I think of you often and wonder how things are for you... How are you doing?

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