No ejaculations and runs off in the morning

[Thomcat]

That's the crux of the problem.

My bestest, oldest, dearest friend has started seeing a guy, 38 yrs old, and has so far enjoyed about a month of his company.

However there seems to be a few problems.

1. When he stays over, which is alot, every weekend so far and during the week, he wakes up & opens his eyes and within 15 minutes he's out of the door saying he'll be back in an hur or so, and he is, but why the running off.

2. They have had sex a fair amount. Possibly not quite as much as they could/should be having in the first heady days of a relationship, but an ok amount. He gets an erection but so far, in over a month, he hasn't come. She has, that's all fine, but he hasn't.

We know he likes a beer, probably a bit too much.
QUESTION: If he gets an erection but doesn't ejaculate is that a drink related problem, or not?
QUESTION: What else could be causing the lack of ejaculation?
FACT : He gets an erection but it's not like he's just such a stud he can go for hours and not come. I think, from what I know, he gets one but it doesn't last for that long.

I'm not sure what else to tell you, so ask away and I'll do my best to answer / find out.

Any ideas about this ejaculation thing and also any ideas about what she should do about his running off every morning for an hour? Is that related to the sex thing do you think, is he leaving before she gets a chance to get saucy with him?

Off to make Lottie lunch, be back to see if any of you wise women have any clues.

TC x

how wolfman and goatman got in there I do not know, this thread is v funny!

obsessive cleaner! you forgot the ocd!

I suppose it might take a wolfman an hour to have a w*nk with hairy hands

I really honestly would just say 'WHERE ARE YOU GOING??!' point blank!

Hi Sophable

Did your friend know when she gave you full permission to ask about this quite what she was letting herself in for, TC?!

i agree... tbh might have asked that first time....whoever was asking about rain earlier on, we are getting it in a big way in london now...

sorry, i'd have asked where are you going///

Baker? Needs to get first batch in oven?
Lollipop man?

window cleaner?

Your friend's breakfast inadequacy? He goes off to have enormous greasy fry up in a transport caff which he conceals from your friend and then gets back and eats a decorous croissant as if that's all he wants for breakfast? Has she thought of getting in some sausages?

Haven't read any of your posts yet, going to do that now, but I'm scared!
What have you lot been saying while I've been gone???!!!

• but a hesitant, scared one!

maybe she needs to get a mobile phone with this in it.

wife in Australia - he phones her in the evening, their time?

i think you'll find the reason right here

That's it! Goes to phone wife in Oz, transforms into bat in phone box!

goes to check up on his children that he left alone all night?

Batman?

Other superhero?

of course - no other explanation fits so perfectly

You can tell it's late.

Does a 1 hour shift for Directory Enquiries?

its 12.30 here - and I am getting up at 4.15

goes to feed his pet cat/ dog / tarantula / tank of pirhanas?