November 2024 Babies- Part 2!

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Hi all,

New thread for those of us expecting babies in November 2024.

Welcome!

@waryandbored please do! Could you please put something in the first post about 'Ask if you want the Facebook link' in case of any newcomers? No point linking the actual group in the post as it'll expire after a few days. Can't believe we're at part 3 already!

And definitely post the link to the new thread here too 😊

Thanks for your kind words @waryandbored @Starrysky812 @Shroedy the waiting & not knowing is horrific.
@Jenroxy5 how are you doing today xx

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5045224-november-2024-babies-thread-3

I’ve been resting lots in bed this afternoon. The bleeding has lightly stopped but comes and goes like stringy discharge but definitely more red is yours on and off or constant the cramping has stopped with some meds but k just hate this feeling

I feel exactly the same way! At my worst I actually regret what I’ve done which sounds awful 🤦🏼‍♀️ of course I don’t really, but I’ve already had the “I’m not doing this again” thought! 🙈

That's it. "What have I done to myself?" and then the guilt. I partly hoped my scan might show twins so I'd be "off the hook" for a second pregnancy - even though twins is a whole other ball game.

Thoughts of being one and done... the "two kids makes a family" is so very ingrained and I really didn't appreciate how deep that goes. I'm trying to hold off on a final decision until I'm out the other side, holding baby. But from here... hell no.

@Meatballsandpasta I'll be honest, part of my fear of MC is because I keep thinking "I don't want to have to go through all this again from the beginning" and I've got off very easily compared to most! It's very hard but it can't last forever.

I’m with you. Doing it again and this time it’s soooo much harder!
the nausea is on another level

feeling like I’m letting my toddler down rn too!

Me too. Mine has stopped and I’m just getting some brown when I wipe, however my lower back is still sore and my sickness has pretty much completely gone, feel like there’s only one way it’s going.
did you say your scan was weds? If you’re up to it do let us know how you get on, I’m praying for you too.

feel like I’m pissing on this threads chips so I’m going to bow out now and wish you all the best with your pregnancies 🩷 x

Good luck @CadoAvo and to anyone else having scans or calling EPU today. Very best wishes to all ❤️

I’ve been having bad cramps all afternoon and now getting red blood, not loads but more than spotting - I’ve had a bath and could see it. I’m supposed to be going on holiday tomorrow for a few days and currently at a hotel by the airport so don’t really have an option of going for a scan, I’ll get one when I am back. Has anyone else had this (currently I’m 9 weeks) and been for a scan and if so how did it turn out

@Jellybelly888 are you still in this thread? Wish I knew how to private message you I'm sorry what you are going through , sending love

I've just had my medical management surgery under local anaesthetic this morning! As I lost mine at 6 weeks (found out at 8 week scan)....
Here to answer any questions or just be here for support , going through it together xx

PS. I don't know how to private message on here!! unsure if you were on the fb group I was the one who originally set it up but have since left it.... but if you remember my name on there then add me/message

Hope you're both doing ok @omghavingababy @Jellybelly888 and thinking of you too @CadoAvo. It's just so unfair and I am so sorry xxx

I think we're all mostly over here now: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/pregnancy/5045224-november-2024-babies-thread-3

I’ve sent you a private message xx check at the top where the little person icon is xx

@MelMarriottAppleyard has your research participant request been approved by @MNHQ? I have reported your post to flag it to them.