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Anyone due February 2005?

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footstep · 08/06/2004 13:07

Blimey. I've been lurking around mumsnet for a few months while ttc, but have only posted a couple of times. Didn't expect to be the one starting this thread!

Got a BFP yesterday (in the loo at work - classy!) and another one this morning.

According to fertility friend the due date is 9th feb.

It'll be our first, and we're both a bit shell-shocked. But happy, I think!

Is anyone else due in feb? I could really do with someone to compare notes with. I'm dying to tell my friends and family, but feel that we should leave it a few weeks, really..

Anyway ? hello everybody!

footstep
x

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keepingquietatthemoment · 08/06/2004 13:15

Blimey from me too. Did a test yesterday and have due date of Feb 13. Like you, am not saying anything to people for a while yet. Mixture of excitement and what the hell have I done.

footstep · 08/06/2004 13:27

Hello keepingquiet (I hope you don't mind the abbreviation)

Congratulations!

How are you feeling? Any symptoms? How does your dh/dp feel about it?

I know what you mean about the mix of emotions. It seemed like quite a nice idea in abstract, but I'm absolutely petrified now. Poor dh is torn between being delighted and total panic.

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Schmozer · 08/06/2004 13:29

Many congratulations to you both!

(Just popped in from the January thread.)

beansprout · 08/06/2004 13:33

Oh fab! I love a new "due" thread! Congratulations to you both!!
Hope you are both feeling ok.

smellymelly · 08/06/2004 13:41

Fantastic - about time we got a Feb 05 thread..

Congratulations to you both, and to the rest that will hopefully join soon..

(I'm also from the Jan thread)

Tinker · 08/06/2004 13:53

Oh bugger it, I'll have to come clean, can't keep with changing names! I'm keeping quite.

Thanks for good wishes everyone.

footstep - think we're both happy but in a bit of a state of shock. This has happened on 2nd month of ttc and since I'm an old bird of 39 thought it might take a bit longer. He called me a freak .

Symptoms so far seem to be extreme weepiness and nostalgia. Thought I felt sick before but since I didn't yesterday when I didn't know, reckon it's psychosomatic.

Still think I'm making this up a bit. How are you feeling? Symtoms?

I might not post on here too much for a bit - feels a bit too early, still think anything might happen - hope that doesn't sound morbid. But I will be reading it.

Tinker · 08/06/2004 13:53

keepingquiet even!

Janh · 08/06/2004 13:55

I just had to count on my fingers when I saw Feb in the heading! Congratulations to all of you - Tinker, what an adventure! XXX

pamina3 · 08/06/2004 16:19

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bluestar · 08/06/2004 16:22

Congrats Tinker & Footstep - knew someone would start this thread sooner or later. Best of luck x

Azure · 08/06/2004 16:34

Many congratulations!

footstep · 08/06/2004 17:20

Thanks for the congrats everyone

I know what you mean Tinker. It is very early days - I'm trying to keep the risks in perspective etc (grimly trawling the web for miscarriage stats this morning). But I feel that if i'm going to hold off telling my friends and family then I'm going to have to vent somewhere..

This doesn't seem real at all. I did the extra test this morning because I wasn't convinced I hadn't done something wrong yesterday. Two blue lines though.. I'm really scared, to be honest. I have so many 'what if..?'s running through my head. In some ways its not good timing, and I'm worried about the effect it'll have on dh and our relationship. I like my life how it is! argh!

On the other hand - the symptoms seem real enough! When people say 'breast tenderness' this is not what i imagined. It feels like my boobs have been filled with hot gravel. I had an ice pack on them last night - is this normal at 4weeks? It surely can't get worse?

Have just had an email from dh about tax credit entitlement - awwww - he's being all bread-winner-y - how sweet!

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Tinker · 08/06/2004 17:21

Knew I'd come back to this. Thanks again everyone.

pamina - yes, think that's why I'm weepy with nostalgia

Tinker · 08/06/2004 17:23

footstep - yes, know what you mean, had to keep re-reading the instructions - and this isn't my first.

Tinker · 09/06/2004 12:07

How are you feeling today footstep?

footstep · 09/06/2004 13:49

feeling ok this morning, thanks Tinker. Had big cry/panic with dh last night which has left us both feeling much better.

I can't stop bursting into tears though - was watching 'No going back' last night and blubbed away because the family had to give a lost puppy back ot its owners. boo-hoo!

How are you?

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hana · 09/06/2004 14:12

Wow! A Feb 05 thread already! Congrats to everyone! I'm 11 weeks pregnant now, think I'm just coming out of the morning sickness/tiredness bit.......hope it goes quickly for everyone!!

Tinker · 09/06/2004 15:09

Hi footstep - yes much crying and panicking too on my part. Felt my life was just getting easier - money problems easing, daughter is 7 now so good at occupying herself, can afford holidays etc and now that's going to all go on hold for a few years. But I knew that already! Just fear of the unknown I guess - or the known

WideWebWitch · 09/06/2004 16:20

Tinks my love, just popped in here to say congratulations. I know those feelings - with an older one life is just getting easier etc but it is still fab having a baby again, ime it's 10 times easier the second time around. And you won't be on your own this time and your daughter will love having a sibling, so just wanted to say don't panic, it'll be OK if my experience is anything to go by How lovely! Ah, Feb 13th was my Dad's birthday. Maybe you'll have a valentines day baby?

Tinker · 09/06/2004 16:41

Cheers www

suedonim · 09/06/2004 19:52

Tinker, you rascal, keeping your news hidden away in here!! Congratulations. IKWYM about life getting easier after 7yrs but don't worry - I've done it with 8 and 9yr gaps and it works just fine. Take care.

Tinker · 09/06/2004 19:58

Thanks sue. That's reassuring about the age gap, not that I could have done much about reducing it. Hoping it'll mean less siblng rivalry. Still feels unreal though.

cuppy · 09/06/2004 20:29

Hi everyone - just popped in to say CONGRATULATIONS to you all! I had a Feb 04 baby and I'm sooooooooooo jealous!

Wishing you all healthy, happy pregnancies

Love Cuppy xx

Twink · 09/06/2004 21:04

Congrats Tinker ! Scarey too though I guess.

Looks like it'll be Mumsnet's 10 year reunion bash by the time we manage another lunch

bunny2 · 09/06/2004 21:07

Hooray, I've been waiting for this one to start!

Congratulations to all here