Firststar (and anyone else who said they would contribute to flowers) I wouldn't worry about sending me money for the flowers. I don't know how many people would want to, but there seem to be quite a few and it would be silly to send £1 each and if I ended up with too much money, I wouldn't know how to re-distribute it. I just wanted the people who had expressed an interest in sending the flowers to know that they had been arranged.
But thanks for the offer!