The boiled water thing must be what we did with DD too as we didn't have a sterilizer.
Seth grabs the cats when they sit on the sofa, they're much better with him than they were/are DD. They're terrified of her. I also just wipe any fur off his hands so he doesn't eat it. I strongly believe some germs are good. the ones in our house anyway. Not so keen on other people's germs :o
Other cat news, we found out one of ours has kidney failure, he's about 13. The et says he's living on borrowed time, but we've git some tablets to improve his last few months. It's sad, but I'm glad we've got some answers. He's been weeing everywhere and it was driving me spare, not just on the floor, but on piles of clothes, in Seth's bumbo and bouncy chair, in the box where we keep our shoes, I binned loads of them then soaked the others in flash & vinegar then washed them.
Thankfully we bought a calming pet plugin and that, plus the tablets seems to have stopped him weeing inside... well for the 3 days we've had them, but he was doing it every day.
Sorry rubbish at thread titles.