How long do you give it before you realise they are not as ready as you hoped and put them back in nappies?
Dd2 is 22mths (mil keeps saying she should be trained by now) I don't know if mil is right and i am being lazy or if i'm right and dd2 isn't ready.
She tells me when she's wet and lies on the mat when she wants changing, i did sit her on the toilet at toddler group today because she asked but she didnt do anything, she asks for the potty but never actually does anything on it (well she did twice when we first started casually trying her on it before her bath to get her used to it)
It would be nice if she was trained, my version of trained is that she asks for the potty/ toilet everytime or at least most of the time. Also once they are in pants all day without accidents is that when you do it at night too or do you do the whole lot together? silly questions i know but dd1 was very late starting and was old enough to pick it up very quickly once she was ready but dd2 is half the age dd1 was iyswim but theres a big age gap, hence my cluelessness!