i always remember a poster like xenia who was advicing a poster who was a wealthy sahm who had just discovered her dh was having an affair. The xenias jumped in saying how this was just so typical and then adviced her to slowly squirrel some money away without him noticing before calling in the lawyers. The poor poster after a few days announced she was back with her dh, newly pregnant and all forgiven. Very mumsnet indeed.
The xenia like posters are basically the super mums, have it all women", no? super job, salay, kids,schools, holidays, house, etc. But behind this super everything facade, there is the shit you find in eveybody's house. I don't think of them as feminists, because feminisms is about choosing what you want to do, and they crap on other women choices. Amen too! All the kids are screaming,better go.