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Masturbation around sleeping child

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123anon · 04/06/2024 23:37

I’m really sorry if my title offends anyone. I don’t know where else to turn.

I sleep on the sofa most nights and my now ex partner sleeps upstairs with our 2 year old daughter in the same bed. I found evidence of him masturbating in the same bed as her….. he’s admitted to doing it more than once. It just doesn’t sit right with me and I feel physically sick. I made him leave there and then and he hasn’t been back since. His family are taking his side and calling me a Psycho. In their opinion he’s done wrong but not enough for me to cut contact. Can I please have other parent’s opinions and advice also if possible legal advice. I feel sick to my stomach.

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HettieBettyBoo · 12/08/2024 22:20

HolyZarquonsSingingSeals · 06/06/2024 12:16

I hope the squeamish on this thread don’t ever plan to take a caravan holiday with their kids.

I’m sure people can abstain from sex for a few nights rather than have sex in the same room as their children if you mean a touring van. A large static is a different matter as they normally have separate rooms.

Like others I’m shocked at the amount of people who think it’s ok to masturbate while in the same bed as a 2 year old. Go to the toilet FFS.

Begsthequestion · 22/08/2024 09:44

No wonder so much sexual abuse goes unchecked with the terrible boundaries and excuses made on here. Truly disgusting.

LoyalMember · 23/08/2024 11:36

Jesus F#cking Christ...😳 Wanking next to a sleeping toddler...?😮 What a repulsive, seedy, reprehensible scumbag.

Begsthequestion · 23/08/2024 14:16

Utterlyb · 05/06/2024 17:28

It’s ready difficult one- I personally was never able to have any sort of intimacy when my babies slept on the same room as us but from what I understand, there are many women on here who do co-sleep with their kids and so I presume they must have sex in the same bed or at least the same room. In countries where families live in 1 room this must happen all of the time so I think it’s possibly something that brits would go eurrgghh about but it can’t be uncommon.

Even if this were true - do you think jerking off to porn while sharing a bed with a toddler is the same thing?

Because it really isn't.

Tryingtomakesenseofit2024 · 24/08/2024 04:21

Can you give us an update on this OP?

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