Hi all,
I had my FET on tuesday, our one and only embryo (d3) - OTD is 21st March.
Struggling to be positive currently. We have male factor issues, as well as polycystic ovaries. Had plenty of eggs collected - 25, 17 mature and 11 fertilised, which we were really happy with, plan was a freeze all cycle due to OHSS risk.
I expected to get a 'few' in the freezer. One was frozen on day 3, but then the rest of them failed to developed further. All fragmenting before day 5.
Seems likely an egg quality issue as most were slow to develop/poor grades. Our transferred one was an 8 cell, grade 2. We had 2 or 3 others that were grade 2, and 6-8 cells, rest were g3-4 and lower cell numbers.
So whilst the embryo we had transferred was one of our 'best' I'm just feeling really despondent as well like what is the point, we are just wasting time, money, and emotional energy as I just don't see how it can work when all the others did so poorly.
I've been trying and failing to keep myself distracted the last couple of days, back at work tomorrow and saturday which will probably be a better distraction than being at home!
Good luck to everyone else who has had/is having an ET this month. xx