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IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022

357 replies

Girlwholifts · 20/09/2022 16:09

Hi everyone.

I wanted to start a thread for anyone going through an IVF round in the next few weeks. I am currently on my third round of ICSI after a MMC at 9weeks on cycle 1 and a BFN on cycle 2. Third time lucky, I hope!

IVF can feel like a very lonely place sometimes so it's nice to have somewhere to vent and get advice 🙂

OP posts:
Zik · 25/10/2022 18:13

Hello everyone
After testing negative 8dp5dt I gave up and even stopped the progesterone suppositories.
Yesterday was OTD and I refused to test or go to the clinic.i summoned courage today to do a blood test and it came out POSITIVE.i didn't believe the result and did an urine test and it also came out POSITIVE.
Indeed WHAT GOD CANNOT DO DOES NOT EXIST!!!!

APSR · 25/10/2022 18:15

@Zik Congratulations

bathbombaholic · 25/10/2022 18:34

@Zik congratulations! That's wonderful news! 🥳🥳X

Just an update from me- My period has started today so I'm out 😫 didn't even get to OTD.
Was spotting brown blood since 8dpt and today (10dpt) it turned red and heavy and period pains are out in full force 😵‍💫

Wishing all the luck in the world to those who have been successful and those who are yet to complete their cycles. Thank you for all being there when I had questions or just needed to speak to people going through the same xx

countrypunk · 25/10/2022 19:12

Yay @Zik! Wonderful news!

Sorry to read your update @bathbombaholic. Hope you're OK and being kind to yourself. x

Spin101 · 25/10/2022 20:10

@bathbombaholic @Tonim86 thank you for the reassurance x

Sezzza · 25/10/2022 20:34

Hi all, I hope you don’t mind me joining. I have been following you all from the start of your journeys which has been super helpful!

I had my EC yesterday and they retrieved 5 eggs, 4 of which have fertilised over night. I was wondering if anyone could please give me some insight as to how they decide either a 3 day or 5 day transfer?

Trying so hard to stay relaxed about the whole process but it’s almost impossible.

@Zik a massive congratulations. How amazing for you!!

@bathbombaholic i am so sorry. Take care of yourself xx

Tonim86 · 25/10/2022 20:56

@Sezzza welcome hope everything goes ok for you 🤞

@bathbombaholic oh I'm so sorry do you still test or have you already? This process is so hard 😢

@Zik omg 😳 congratulations 🎉 what a massive shock that must of been hope everything goes ok

Spin101 · 26/10/2022 07:59

@Sezzza if you forward to the right part in these two podcasts (don’t bother listening to the rest) I think they explain it quite well. It’s to do with how the cells split from what I understand.

26 mins in from this one
podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/big-fat-negative-ttc-fertility-infertility-and-ivf/id1431698726?i=1000436846061

And I think all of this one podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/big-fat-negative-ttc-fertility-infertility-and-ivf/id1431698726?i=1000551101770

Sezzza · 26/10/2022 09:52

@Spin101 thank you so much. I will have a listen to them both.

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bathbombaholic · 26/10/2022 10:38

@Tonim86 I still had to test this morning as even though it was obvious it was over, the clinic need a negative test as part of the protocol.

Thank you all for you kind comments- I will still be on here from time to time to see all of your updates and my fingers and toes are crossed for all of you going through this x

Achaps · 26/10/2022 21:07

@bathbombaholic i am so sorry to hear this :( feel like I’ve gone though the journey with you! All the best for your next steps!
@Zik congratulations 🎉 🙏

bathbombaholic · 27/10/2022 19:24

@Achaps ❤️ will keep popping on to see your updates

Nobabyyet20 · 28/10/2022 21:43

Hope your all okay. Thank you for all the messages about my OHSS I’m feeling a lot better. Just a waiting game now until transfer.

congratulations @Zik reallh pleased for you.

we ended up with 4 embryos and tonight at a family birthday meal I’d brought a card for my sister in law and my husband signed it, I had no idea until I saw the card that he had signed it from us, our cat and all 4 embryos. I wept in that restaurant! I don’t think he’ll ever know how much that meant to me but said he just did it out of extinct. I don’t know about anyone else but as it’s me going through the majority of the physical stuff sometimes and I hate that this happens I almost forget that he’s going through it to. It’s so lovely he’s so invested but feels like a lot of responsibility also. I want nothing more than to give him a child.

sending so much baby dust to you all. This thread has been my saving grace throughout
thia first bit of my cycle. I might not be as active whilst I wait for my transfer but I will check in as much as I remember hahaha.

thank you ❤️

bathbombaholic · 29/10/2022 11:25

@Nobabyyet20 this is so sweet and yes it's very important we remember that. Since our cycle was unsuccessful I have never seen DP cry so much and it's breaking my heart. For the last 3 years of us trying he has always been strong and this has broken him. Very easy for us to forget they are going through it as well 😔 I feel so guilty.

I hope you're ok and recovering well. Wishing you all the best for your transfer when the time comes x

Nobabyyet20 · 29/10/2022 19:29

@bathbombaholic im so sorry. It’s such a difficult journey. Never ending ups and downs. Sending you so much hope and best wishes for the future.

I’m okay, quite literally a waiting game now. But keeping busy x

countrypunk · 02/11/2022 08:29

Hello everyone, just checking in. Hope you're all doing OK.

I had my baseline scan last night and am starting ovitrelle this evening. I've had a lot of unpleasant side effects with the buserelin and the nurse told me the ovitrelle will balance things out and I'll feel better in a few days. I thought I'd share that in case anyone else is going through the same. There's light at the end of the tunnel 🌞

Take care all.

Spink2022 · 02/11/2022 11:56

Hi all

I am 9dp5dt now. OTD is Friday so nearly there. Had a bit of pink discharge yesterday on my progesterone applicator but that has disappeared. I was worried it was AF because she is due today. Just a couple more days to wait!

best of luck with the process @countrypunk! ❤️

countrypunk · 02/11/2022 12:16

Thanks @Spink2022

I'll be thinking of you on Friday.

bathbombaholic · 02/11/2022 13:15

@Spink2022 wishing you all the luck in the world! X

Spink2022 · 04/11/2022 06:05

Thank you for all of your wishes!

I’ve been waiting all night to test. Held off until 5:40am! But got a very faint BFP on their hcg test and a darker one on FRER!!!!!!!!!!!! I just burst out crying 😭 I’m going to test again in 2 days to see if it gets darker. Do you think my lines are dark enough? I don’t get a beta at my clinic.

IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022
IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022
Spink2022 · 04/11/2022 06:57

pics of my tests now they’re dry. Original pics taken exactly 3 mins after the test.

IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022
IVF cycle Sept/Oct 2022
Tonim86 · 04/11/2022 09:09

@Spink2022 lines looks great to me congratulations 🥳 hoping your doing well and well done for making it to OTD that's impressive x

bathbombaholic · 04/11/2022 09:22

@Spink2022 yayyyyy congratulations! Defo looks very positive to me and well done making it to OTD!! 🥳🥳🥳

Spink2022 · 04/11/2022 09:24

Thank you!!!! Glad you think they’re strong positives!

how’s everyone else doing?