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IVF Dec 2020-Jan 2021-anyone joining me?

893 replies

Kiza · 03/11/2020 13:06

Hi,
After 2 years TTC #1 we are now eventually on the IVF bus! Should have started in June but Covid put a stop to that and after lots of back/forth with our NHS clinic we've got our treatment planning appointment on Friday and will be on the long protocol so probably starting mid- end of December!
Would love to have some ladies join me!
I've been creeping on other IVF threads but haven't been able to fully take part.

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RichmondLady1981 · 25/02/2021 06:31

Thanks @onlyhereforthefood and @MF1981 x

RichmondLady1981 · 25/02/2021 09:57

3 out of 3 fertilised! Am so happy with that! Early days but it’s a nice feeling so far.

MF1981 · 25/02/2021 10:47

Great news @RichmondLady1981

onlyhereforthefood · 25/02/2021 19:51

So happy for you @RichmondLady1981, keeping fingers crossed for more positive updates from you!

Lindyloolou · 25/02/2021 20:26

Lovely news @RichmondLady1981🤞

RichmondLady1981 · 25/02/2021 21:21

Ahhh thank you @MF1981 @onlyhereforthefood and @Lindyloolou. Fingers crossed for Saturday! How are you all doing?

RichmondLady1981 · 25/02/2021 21:22

@onlyhereforthefood staying strong? No testing?

onlyhereforthefood · 26/02/2021 05:47

@RichmondLady1981 amazingly I held off giving in and testing early!

Ended up testing at 4am as I just could not sleep! I got a BFP!
I'm delighted,
but also incredibly anxious and afraid to let myself get too excited as I've read so many horror stories over the last few weeks of things not working out that I've convinced myself the same will happen to me...and it might, but it might not...no one can tell at this point so I should just try and be happy and excited in this moment, right?

MF1981 · 26/02/2021 06:44

Congrats @onlyhereforthefood! I don’t think the worry stops to be honest. I’ve got my viability scan later today and I’m so nervous about it.

RichmondLady1981 · 26/02/2021 06:52

Ahhhhh @onlyhereforthefood this is amazing news!!!!!! Huge huge congratulations to you! Yes you are right- at this moment, everything you have been doing from down regs, stunning etc has built up to you being pregnant! And YOU ARE PREGNANT right now. Enjoy every moment!

onlyhereforthefood · 26/02/2021 07:13

@MF1981good luck today!

@RichmondLady1981 thank you so much

Kiza · 26/02/2021 07:16

@onlyhereforthefood whoohooo congrats, soak it up and enjoy every moment of it that you can. As someone else said we have been through one heck of a journey to get this far so bask in it!

@RichmondLady1981 wow all 3 fertilising is great news and some good chances there. I can't recall are you doing fresh or frozen transfer?
@MF1981 I've got my 7 week scan today also at the ivf clinic, gutted my partner can't be there but we're going to book a private scan in a couple of weeks

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MF1981 · 26/02/2021 07:26

Good luck to you as well then @Kiza. Is it clinic policy that your partner can’t be there? My clinic allow partners for transfer and viability scan only at the moment due to covid.

onlyhereforthefood · 26/02/2021 07:38

@Kiza good luck today!

Lindyloolou · 26/02/2021 07:59

@onlyhereforthefood congrats! That’s wonderful news. Enjoy these positive moments for sure x

@Kiza hope scan goes well. My partner wasn’t allowed in either which I was really sad about given I was also pretty much having a panic attack too! We got a private scan as a result which was well worth it.

12 week scan on on Monday - I’m still going crazy over these scans! Worried sick.

MF1981 · 26/02/2021 16:26

So had my viability scan and it’s twins!!!! I can’t quite believe it! They’re both measuring perfectly and we saw the little heartbeats. Now the panic sets in!

Emmalouise11 · 26/02/2021 16:58

@MF1981 ohh wow! How exciting, so happy for you! Hope everything goes smoothly for you. xx

Lindyloolou · 26/02/2021 17:00

Oh wow @MF1981 congrats!!! 👏🏼👏🏼

RichmondLady1981 · 26/02/2021 18:19

@MF1981 WHOOOOPEEEEEEE!!! This is absolutely amazing news!!!!!!! Sooo happy for you! Did you have two embryos put back? How exciting!

@Kiza it’s frozen cycle so praying we get something ‘normal’ to freeze. 3 days progress report tomorrow morning. We need to get to Monday!! Praying for one normal!

onlyhereforthefood · 26/02/2021 18:31

@MF1981 oh wow, how amazing! so happy for you!

I've got my scan on the 16/3, which feels like a lifetime away! Nothing has really sunk in yet, although OH cannot wipe the big soppy grin off of his face

Kiza · 26/02/2021 19:36

@MF1981 wowzer, bet that was a shock and a half! Amazing though.

My scan today was wonderful too, seeing the little heartbeat and umbilical cord made me sob! Have booked a private scan for Mother's Day so my partner can join.

@RichmondLady1981 really hope there is. As we only had the one egg collected we had no idea if it was normal or not, just had to throw some luck on it and hope for the best!

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Galgal15 · 26/02/2021 20:08

Congratulations @Kiza, just read back through your whole story. What a fabulous outcome against the odds. Good luck for the remainder of your pregnancy.

RichmondLady1981 · 26/02/2021 22:04

I agree @Galgal15.. I think @Kiza’s story is one of the most uplifting stories I have every read! Gives us all hope x

MF1981 · 27/02/2021 08:03

That’s brilliant news @Kiza I was wondering how you’d got on

Kiza · 27/02/2021 08:14

@Galgal15 @RichmondLady1981 thank you ladies, it definitely has been and it's one of those stories you hear from other people and cling on to it thinking 'there's no reason why that can't be us?!'
We're being very open with those around us about our IVF journey to try and spread awareness about infertility and IVF and super proud of our little eggsy who's pushed its way through the process and stuck on! 😄

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