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Getting a third - what next?

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Selwyngum · 24/04/2024 14:42

My DD is in her third year at Cambridge, studying Engineering. She hasn’t got on at all well there. She failed her first year exams and got a third in her second year exams. She has just started her year 3 exams and thinks she is on course for a 3rd again, which will mean she can’t progress to do the fourth year (MEng).

She is talking about dropping out and retaking the year. I’m not sure that’s worthwhile as she has worked incredibly hard this year, but just doesn’t seem to get the results.

She has struggled with depression in the past so keeping her on an even keel is much more important to me than any academic results. I want to be as supportive as possible but I’m at a loss.

My gut feeling is that a third class degree won’t get her very far in terms of employment. I’m wondering if she could transfer in September to the third year of an engineering degree elsewhere.

She got 4 A* grades at A level, is very bright but dyslexic. In hindsight Cambridge was the wrong place for her but regretting that doesn’t help her now.

Does anyone have any insight or experience? She feels she’s wasted a huge amount of time and money and I would love to help her work out what to do next. Please be kind.

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MsPengiuns · 27/06/2025 17:09

Very glad to hear that. Congratulations to your DD and you.

HewasH2O · 27/06/2025 19:58

Fabulous news 😀

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 30/06/2025 17:16

Congratulations to DD! Thank you for sharing her success with us.

MrsPerfectlyFine · 30/06/2025 22:59

Well done DD! I’ve fallen into your thread and read how it all went. What a fabulous result for her and good luck for her fourth and final year. These kids really do put us through it don’t they!? Mine both finished uni a couple of years ago but still add to my grey hairs ♥️

mg0 · 14/07/2025 19:11

Selwyngum · 24/04/2024 14:42

My DD is in her third year at Cambridge, studying Engineering. She hasn’t got on at all well there. She failed her first year exams and got a third in her second year exams. She has just started her year 3 exams and thinks she is on course for a 3rd again, which will mean she can’t progress to do the fourth year (MEng).

She is talking about dropping out and retaking the year. I’m not sure that’s worthwhile as she has worked incredibly hard this year, but just doesn’t seem to get the results.

She has struggled with depression in the past so keeping her on an even keel is much more important to me than any academic results. I want to be as supportive as possible but I’m at a loss.

My gut feeling is that a third class degree won’t get her very far in terms of employment. I’m wondering if she could transfer in September to the third year of an engineering degree elsewhere.

She got 4 A* grades at A level, is very bright but dyslexic. In hindsight Cambridge was the wrong place for her but regretting that doesn’t help her now.

Does anyone have any insight or experience? She feels she’s wasted a huge amount of time and money and I would love to help her work out what to do next. Please be kind.

Hi, I (a student) am in a similar position and would really value some advice from your daughter. If she doesn't mind, would she be okay to tell me more about her journey in Cambridge?

Oblomov24 · 14/07/2025 22:05

Congratulations!

Selwyngum · 14/07/2025 22:59

@mg0 sent you a DM

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