Does anyone here actively WANT no deal?

[justintimberlakesfishwife]

And if so why, and how do you expect it to play out if that's the outcome?

What's to stop the other EU countries dealing only with each other and just not bothering with the UK anymore

Nothing. Not all EU members trade with the other 27 anyway.

Germany is the member that is most bothered. They have a huge trade surplus with the EU.

15% of all German cars produced are sold to the UK. That loss of demand has estimated to result in massive job losses. Figures varies from 30,000 to over 100,000