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Narcissistic ex is "shielding" should he see dd

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kipperthedog · 30/03/2020 11:52

Hello all, hope everyone is keeping safe and well. My narc ex is extremely difficult and is using the current circumstances to be even more so. He's putting demands on me (and therefore dd) to protect his own health and making this time extremely stressful. His demands should go without saying such as distancing etc but he always makes out I'm a bad parent and wants it in writing that I agree to these things. Having spoken to her this morning, he says he's had a text to say he has to stay in for 12 weeks. As a chronic asthmatic I assume this means he has been told to "shield". My question to you is should dd go to his next week for 10 days as planned? He has no outside space so she will be cooped indoors apart from daily exercise - which if he adheres to the advice he won't be taking. As far as I can see he should be isolating from her.

Any advice welcome thanks Smile

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kipperthedog · 14/04/2020 22:03

Hello Smile hope you all had a nice Easter.

Hugely relieved, dd back this eve, no funny business.. even 15 minutes early!

Phew.

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StrawberryJam200 · 14/04/2020 22:04

Glad to hear that kipper!

OnlyJudyCanJudgeMe · 15/04/2020 08:44

Oh that’s good news.

Rollergirl11 · 15/04/2020 09:28

Glad to hear it went well and she’s safely back @kipperthedog. Has there been any more threats of him taking you to court?

TooTrusting · 15/04/2020 11:45

Great to see he didn't try anything in retaliation, even though it would have been tempting for him.

kipperthedog · 15/04/2020 17:03

Thanks all

@Rollergirl11 no, I literally haven't heard a peep from him since I emailed to reinstate contact.

@TooTrusting yes. Wouldn't be surprised if he has something up his sleeve! But all good for now.

Thanks again for all your help last week :)

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