I am sorry to hear that, and I offer you my deepest condolences.
Israel has killed people I loved and cared about deeply, and Israel has imprisoned and tortured others. The only times in my life I genuinely thought I was going to die, Israel was to blame!
But I cried on 7 October, and again when it transpired that Shani Louk was dead!
Being sad, traumatised and shocked is understandable and okay. But we must not let it lead us towards dehumanising others - because if we do, we become the monsters we despise!