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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

The First Time Frolickers Return!!

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Kaloki · 11/03/2010 22:59

Haha! I win this one, let's hope the luck works for me too (If it doesn't I want a refund )

Congrats bunnygirl! Fantastic timing!

Homebound TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-? CD61
Hoping TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 32 CD60
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD58
misshoohaa TTC cycle#1 cycle 4 UCL-28-? CD49
LinzRed TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD48
lipstie TTC#1 Cycle7 UCL26-28 CD48
hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28-30 CD45
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD41
lucieloo TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL 24-32 CD42
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 9 UCL33 - 39 CD38
chalky3 TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL 33 CD28
haloflo TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL28 CD25
aly323 TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL 32 CD24
Mrs Wajs TTC#1 cycle 8 UCL 27-32 CD 23
luckyseven TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL25-6 CD20
Capricorn76 TTC#1 Cycle 14 UCL 24 CD19
Dinkytinky TTC#1 cycle 1 CD19
calligraphy82 TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL27-28 CD14
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL ? CD13
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle 10 UCL31 CD13
Mumnerves TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 25-28 CD9
Ariesgirl TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 29 CD7
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL31 CD 6
Calyx TTC#1 cycle 10 UCL 27-32 CD3
Bellaby TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 32ish CD1

Waiting to TTC
Sevans
FelicityFlick (Regulating cycles- Cycle 1-41 Days Cycle 2-57 Days)
seablue TTC #1 Cycle 12 UCL 28ish CD8

MIA (stopped counting cds)

chico193 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL36 CD131
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD115
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD89
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL26/7 CD74
mrscinco TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 27-32 CD61

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
TishTosh21 BFP ???
Sky27 BFP ???
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov
vix206 BFP 8 Dec
HypotheticalMummy BFP 9 Dec
Ozziegirly BFP 16 Dec
NovemberAli BFP 24 Dec
Eleanora BFP 28 Dec
whiteroses BFP 11 Jan
hamsterlover BFP 11 Jan
Hobnob76 BFP 17 Jan
MadameG BFP 17 Jan
pixiestix BFP 18 Jan
ceebs05 BFP 22 Jan
addie81 BFP 28 Jan
WorrisomeHeart BFP 29 Jan
chancewouldbeafinething BFP 1 Feb
Hermya321 BFP 12 Feb
fudgecat BFP 19 Feb
honeymoo BFP ??
Pidgin BFP 27 Feb
YorkshireTeaDrinker BFP 29 Feb
DrewsGirl BFP 4 March
bunnygirl80 BFP 12 March

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bunnygirl80 · 18/03/2010 10:53

kkas I am still temping - although for reassurance purposes now! I seem to be alternating temping and POASing at the moment.

Docs appointment went well - she was very excited and spent most of it congratulating me. She took lots of blood and they have confirmed that I am indeed pg. I'm now all booked with the hospital and the ob - only 6 weeks to wait till I get a scan!

I don't know if this will make those of you who have been TTCing for a while feel any better but she was impressed that it had only taken me 5 cycles - that is considered really quick in the grand scheme of things. So don't feel downhearted or give up if it seems to be taking ages - and that's on the orders of my doctor

MrsWajs · 18/03/2010 10:59

Hey dinky how very inconsiderate of your ebay seller to die on you!! Hope you still get your order or your money back!

So far I have resisted temptation and not tested although I'm starting to get ants in my pants now! Had cramping and the period feeling on Monday night so pretty much thought AF was on her way but now I'm not so sure as havent had anything else since.

Really thinking about hitting boots for some first responses but not sure if I could cope with a negative result!!

Aaaagh! Dunno what to do wait or test, wait or test......

Dinkytinky · 18/03/2010 11:12

Oh don't worry I don't think she's actually dead! I think she just forgot and doesn't want to get negative feedback lol! I turned detective and found that she listed some new items last night- which is a hellof a miracle since she 'died' on Saturday!also in her listing she said she was selling stuff to raise money for her boyfriends 21 birthdayparty then the person who emailed said he was her husband!

I know I'm getting ants too haha I think I'll at least wait until tomorrow before I break!good luck though xxxx

MrsWajs · 18/03/2010 11:17

what a big fat liar she is!!!

Good luck to you too!! I'll keep you posted on whether I manage to stay out of the chemists!!

xx

WhiteRoses · 18/03/2010 11:41

Hi Kaloki and Kkas - you know you can't get rid of me that easily! Of course I'll be back! Though with a bit of luck, you'll be on the Graduates thread yourselves by then!

Luckyseven - I'll look forward to getting to know you over on Graduates too then!

Katzen - I had an implantation bleed. It was bright red blood but only when I wiped, once, on CD30 and then nothing after that. I don't know if that's unusual though, cause I had heard it was meant to be brown or light pink, and that's why I convinced myself I wasn't pregnant! So who knows?! Good luck anyway though.

Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 11:52

bunnygirl that's very good to know because for some reason I've suddenly become convinced that I am completely infertile and there would be no help on earth for the likes of me. Tee hee. No really, at the moment I can't bear even the idea of having cameras and lenses and strangers peering up me. I know I'm being extremely stupid and irrational by the way. It's just there are so many statistics out there about however many in 10 couples struggling and pretty much everyone we know is pregnant or just produces, so statistically speaking I'm bound to be The One I just know it. Sob.

And DH is being a bit weird. I know he's very tired and stressed but when we decided to start TTC, though he was never mega enthusiastic, he just said if you want to we'll go for it. I think he became a bit freaked out by the vitamins and caffeine and alcohol limitations and yesterday when he pulled a bottle of cough mixture out of a Tesco's bag was the last straw. "What's this for? I didn't know you had a cough?"
" I haven't."
"Well why the cough medicine?"
"If I tell you, you 'll never sleep with me again"
And so on. In the end I told him and he threw it on the side and stomped off into the lounge. I think he thinks there should be no effort involved but babies should be made in a haymeadow surrounded by tweeting birds and butterflies and cornflowers, or on a beach with the surf pounding on the shore and the gulls crying overhead etc etc etc. If only.

Sorry - v long post.

WhiteRoses · 18/03/2010 11:58

Ariesgirl - what WAS the cough medicine for?! [innocent]

Kaloki · 18/03/2010 12:40

Also intrigued by the cough medicine!

whiteroses Glad to hear it

dinky That's insane!!

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MrsWajs · 18/03/2010 12:51

Also intrigued by the cough medicine??

Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 13:47

Oh come on you lot, you mean you haven't heard about cough medicine? I mean...duh! No, apparently one of its ingredients helps your EWCM be more EW and therefore will definitely get you pregnant. (I feel like a twat now )

FelicityFlick · 18/03/2010 15:07

am lurking on phone so no time for big post but just wanted to support aries I know about the cough medicine... nearly went for it but chose grapefruit juice instead! I'll catch up with you all at the weekend when I get 5 Mins xxx

Kaloki · 18/03/2010 15:14

Haha really?? How odd

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Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 15:24

Grapefruit juice? GRAPEFRUIT juice????? How bizarre - I have been eating grapefruits for 5-a-day purposes for the last goddam month and (sorry TMI coming up) this month I'm paranoid about am I actually even ovulating such is my dearth of anything remotely resembling egg white, whereas last month there was litres of the stuff! So do you have to drink it, like loads of it (the juice obviously )? Plus I've been scoffing starflower oil, nuts, fish oil capsules - you name it - and still nothing. Hence the purchase of the cough medicine. Though as stated earlier, this had such a dramatic effect on Ariesboy I'm not sure SWI will be on the agenda.

Pidgin · 18/03/2010 15:26

hi all,

just wanted to drop by and say hello and catch up with how everyone's doing. Hope you are all well.

ariesgirl I just wanted to say my DH was just the same when he found out I'd ordered some Preseed and it arrived in the post - he was v bad-tempered about it and thought I was turning into a baby-mad nightmare. Blokes just don't get it, I think. Anyway I know no-one can say for sure, but I just wanted to say that, whatever the scary statistics, the chances are that you will get pg and you won't be The One. It will be OK. I know it's easy to feel down about it.

Pidgin · 18/03/2010 15:27

just to add - I tried drinking a pint of GFJ a day and to no avail - but the Preseed worked a treat

Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 15:28

Hello Pidge! Mwah mwah!

Pidgin · 18/03/2010 15:29

Mwah!

It will happen when you least expect it, I bet...

Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 15:35

Just to confirm - there is no male involvement in Preseed is there? (God, even the name of it makes me snigger, sounds like a late winter fertilizer) You just nip to the bathroom and well, stuff it up yer...?( you get my drift) If he had to do anything resembling anything like that I can just see him wilting like a three week old tulip.

WhiteRoses · 18/03/2010 15:49

How interesting Aries... I did not know that! I briefly tried grapefruit juice myself but it was just too revolting and I ended up throwing most of the carton down the sink! Ended up doing nothing to improve EWCM (never really seemed to get much). In December (the month I conceived!) I got no EWCM at all to signal ovulation! Go figure! But my advice would be not to stress about it too much. It will happen.

Pidgin · 18/03/2010 16:36

nope, no male involvement. The kind I bought came in pre-prepared little plastic syringes (no needle though, ho ho ho). Before you become - ahem - romantically involved, you insert a goodish amount and Bob's your uncle. I don't think DH even knew I was using it.

Dinkytinky · 18/03/2010 17:55

Hi ladies, Ariesgirlive never heard of the cough syrup thing! How does it work? I've heard of grapefruit juice but only that some ladies wash themselves out with it before sex to make concieving a girl more probable! The things we do hey?! I don't really get why your dp was so annoyed about it though?
My friends a midwife and she reckons having your bum elevated during sex with a couple of cushions is better for ttc because there's a bit of a kink for the sperm to jump over!
X

Ariesgirl · 18/03/2010 18:00

I thought that was just gravity Dinky!

"One ingredient in certain cough medicines, guaifenesin, could help you get pregnant by thinning your cervical mucus, which enables sperm to travel through your cervix and fertilise an egg." And this from Toni Weschler herself (though let's not forget that this is the same woman who advocates avoiding tampons because they inhibit the woman's natural female energy. Or something)

zippys · 18/03/2010 19:44

You guys have all been busy chatting!!

luckyseven hope you had a good st paddys day. I would go to the docs re painful SWI - thats not what you need!!

evilgiraffe that sounds a good idea re speaking to the doc at smear - although you are right af will appear if you book it!

hi chalky sorry to hear af hit. hope you are at least enjoying psf

kkas woo hoo on EWCM - hope you manage to get to swi. But I am wishing thought to your egg to stay where it is - (yes this is weird but hey ho

Calligraphy I was like you dieted when started to ttc but then get depressed and eat chocolate! But I am glad you have had a chat with dh.

Kurly not surpised you ditched the tea - limbo is horrible but at least we are in good company - hope you have lovely holiday - we are just looking to book, hopfully will need maternity holiday clothes!

cherry I like the swap from tests to wine and chocolate. I found it weird. Some months I want to test, some I am happy to leave but the first one I was like you, tested loads!! I think I am more worried by the fact OBeM doesnt worry me at all - and make me think - yeah that seems ok - am I just weird!

Bellaby any interview news - keeping my fingers crossed.

Bunny is that enough to tempt you back? I agree stress/illness could have delayed ovulation so we still SWI but all the things I have read like TCOYF all say it will be delayed by a week butnot much more - so thinking it could just be a missed one.

Sorry if I have missed anyone.

No real news from me - still in limbo land. No AF but (TMI) some aware of quite a bit of CM - not EW but not thick creamy either. Going to test again on Monday but not holding out any hope - I just happen to have bought cheap tests from superdrug!!

MrsWajs · 18/03/2010 20:26

Lol zippys I thought I was the only one who wasn't freaked out by OBEM!! I actually can't wait for it to be me!! Might change my tune when it is tho!!
Still haven't tested - go me! But still thinking about it non-stop! Thought AF had appeared today at my friends house. . . (TMI alert!!) Stood up to leave and felt a gush in the pant department so rushed home expecting to find AF in all her glory and there was . . NOTHING! Tad confused by this?!? Recently I have been having what seems like a lot more discharge than usual, can't figure it out at all. And still feel like AF is on her way. Opinions please........

luckyseven · 18/03/2010 21:22

I have just had a skim read catch up and laughted several times, everyone seems a bit hyper and the weekend is in sight!

Will post properly tomorrow but dind dong the witch is here, two days late (seemed like 2 years). Disappointing as always but I am feeling positive, i have a lot to be thanksful for and i will have to learn to be patient, i just don't like not getting my own way!

We went to the cimema last night and i decided to break lent (i am not religious just giving up choc to try and lose weight) and chose a bag of minstrels and dh said "good choice, a packet of menstruals" - i think he is becoming a crazy baby man!

Off to drink our wedding wine that dh bought last night to cheer me up.

So glad to go through all this ttc madness with you all, joining this thread has been a good thing for me.

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