Very nervous to TTC after a miscarriage but am going for it

[Bella23]

For those who want to look to the future and TTC again I would really like some support, advice etc.
I thought we needed a new thread with positive energy (yes have turned into chanting hippy) so that we feel we are moving forward rather than dwelling on what has already passed.
The only thing I can concentrate on at the moment is that next Wed is the day that me and DH can start trying again (this will be 2 weeks after ERPC).
Anyone else ready to try again?

oh mishi I'm sorry. its too early for the test to be right. so hang in there!!!! I'm sorry some things are rough. ((hugs)) glad your kitchen is done tho, nice isnt it to have a shiney new one!
well, alittle early but dh and i have started the bding for the end of nov/early dec baby! woohoo! I'm off shopping in a mo, but will call in later to see how you all are, esp you mishi.. take care

Mishi - Hugs.
Seems like we are all taking it in turns to have a bit of a wobble. Yes as DQ said way too early to test so hang in there - easier said than done though I know
I am feeling a lot more positive today, all you lot really helped to get me back on track. Most of the time I am really positive but it doesn't half wear thin after a while doesn't it!!
Well hopefully OV has already happened, getting in a few more bding sessions just in case - am on CD 17. Am fingers crossing I am back to my 28 day cycle.
George have CAT you my e-mail address.

morning all
stil feeling crap
having probs with some people..who will prob post on here again...ever felt like u have nowhere to go?
Am so fed up with things that it feels like im sinking into my depression again..sigh...i know it was way to early to test as am on cd 24/ 28-35 so really shouldnt even be thinking about it yet but have got sore boobs etc..why is af so similair to pg...oh well
will try and catch up later

Mishi - sorry you are having a rough time of it at the moment!
Try and just ignore others if they are bringing you down (I know that's not easy).
We are all here to hear about it if it helps xx

Hello,

we do all seem to be having our ups and downs, but i guess that is the nature of ttc especially after a m/c. Mishi, i hope you are feeling a little better. I too am waiting to test, I think I have sore boobs too although i never had them with dd so am not sure exactly how they should feel!!!! And it is unfair that the symtoms of af are similar to pregnancy, whose idea was that?

Hi all again. Well now AF has arrived ive decided its time to move off the miscarriage thread and join you all here. JUST one question, can we start a new thread for us cos this ones so long and confusing!! Maybe one thats called TTC for the cautious!! just a suggestion.

Afternoon All,
Mishi, sorry things are difficult for you at the moment but as my FIL keeps telling me when times are rough " Keep your chin up girl".
Yingers I know what you mean about the similarity between symptoms of af and pregnancy. When I was pregnant I was so sure that af was going to turn up that I didn't test until I was a week late - also proably because we were so sure that we couldn't conceive naturally. Somehow I seem to have lost that willpower and now test at the drop of a hat. Have just spent a glorious couple of hours catching up on all that has been happening on this thread. DQ the recepie sounds delicious -I spend quite a lot of time baking at the weekends so I will have to try this one out this weekend. Also can relate to all the painting everyone has been doing. We have just painted three bedrooms so don't really want to think about colour charts at the moment although the kitchen could really be doing with a coat of paint. Must be thoughts of spring that are keeping us all busy at the moment, although my theory is that I will do it now on the off chance that we are successful at theis ttc lark and then I couldn't rush about with a paintbrush and stepladder.

Bonkerz - ye ha for joining us !! A new thread especially as it is the first of a new month is a great idea. I think you should do the honours and start it. Go ahead and we'll be straight there
Wendy - totally agree on the painting thing. I keep thinking to myself that I need to get it done before I get up the duff!!
I forgot to say White rabbits as its the 1st of the month!!! This month is going to be lucky for someone on this thread, I can feel it!

hey everyone - been on a work trip today so no mumsnet all day for me. not much time now either cause im out for a girly night. just wanted to say sorry mishi you are feeling a bit mis. i really do feel for you because, having just been there, it really is the most stressful time of ttc'ing. and yingers too, good luck on holding out on the testing. my advise is try not to - i know its bloody hard not to! - but chances are it probably is too early and you just make yourself more upset.

nice to have you back wendy! i'm impressed you caught up with the whole thread - dont think you missed much but its nice to know where everyones at, isnt it.

have a lovely (if slightly cold and wet!) evening everybody

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