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Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

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Skl2021 · 08/11/2021 11:11

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

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calimc83 · 12/01/2022 22:53

@arianasky I'm so sorry to hear that. I can imagine it would really hit you hard especially if you haven't really processed Oct's MC properly as well. I think the grieving process is so long and drawn out. I have good and bad days. Last few days have been bad as AF arrived after our first month TTC...it's just heartbreaking 💔 x

PamelaDoov · 13/01/2022 09:45

Urgh I’ve started bleeding again today Sad nothing since Saturday so why now!

PamelaDoov · 13/01/2022 09:46

Since Monday not Saturday, but even so!

calimc83 · 13/01/2022 10:06

@PamelaDoov I bled on and off for weeks after my MC..it's a right pain x

arianasky · 13/01/2022 10:06

@calimc83 I'm sorry 💕 I know it is hard I just want to be a mother and it's honestly taking over my life it's all I can think about I feel crazy at the moment

calimc83 · 13/01/2022 10:10

@arianasky same. I need to take a step back I think and start looking after myself and try and find some better coping mechanisms as well. On a whim last night I booked a reflexology session with a therapist who specialises In fertility, I know people take alternate therapies with a pinch of salt but even if it helps with just getting me to relax I think it'll be a good thing x

PamelaDoov · 13/01/2022 10:14

@calimc83 I really hope this is the last of it Sad

theblueflowers · 13/01/2022 10:29

So sorry to hear how much some of you are struggling. It is such a rollercoaster in terms of emotions, it can feel so overwhelming at times.
I really miss the naïve excitement in my first pregnancy, and feel so sad that I'll never have that innocence again.

PamelaDoov · 13/01/2022 10:35

@theblueflowers I feel the same :( first pregnancy I was relieved to get to 8 weeks, happy at 12 weeks but I hadn’t been worried. Next time I won’t even be able to get to 20 weeks without worrying. It has taken all the fun out of pregnancy. Telling family & friends about the pregnancy won’t even be nice or exciting.

Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:55

Hey ladies just checking in and saying I have created a new thread as this one is nearly full. I will try tagging most of you 🤞🌈✨ x

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Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:58

Here is the new thread if I have done it right 🙈🤞

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4452404-Ttc-after-miscarriage-thread-2

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arianasky · 13/01/2022 11:11

@calimc83 that sounds look a good idea 💕

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