Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨

[Skl2021]

Just a thread for any ladies ttc after a miscarriage! Nice to get some support from people going through the same thing. So I had a MMC at ten weeks nearly three weeks ago now. I'm still getting faint positive on tests. My ovulation tests are still all over the place possibly due to the HCG still being in my system. So not totally accurate right now. So I'm currently stuck in limbo land either waiting for ovulation or my period 🤔 any ladies want to join the journey?!?!

@Skl2021 hoping to hold out till next Sunday if I can ( due Friday ish I think but not entirely sure ) we're going away Saturday ( child free! For a night) don't want a negative result to put me on a downer... I think AF will show her ugly face...x

@calimc83 I thought you were due on alot earlier 🤦 yes definitely don't ruin your night! I don't know what I'm doing my tests are back to the same. My ewcm has gone. The darkest test was a few days ago now so I don't know if I ovulated then. So confused do I carry on DTD 🙄🤣 Im so done with this month!! X

@Skl2021 😆🙈 I know! Such a long wait..think it might of changed 😐 hmm maybe u did ovulate then? Can u do it every other day maybe for next few days? See if tests change at all in meantime? X

@calimc83 is this second period since miscarriage? Did your first come on time? Sorry I can't keep up 🤦 I'm not sure it's just with the cm going again I'm thinking has it been 🙈 I'm sick of DTD but I think I'm going to have to keep trying 😩 x

Urgh I really thought I’d finished bleeding, had barely anything yesterday. But it’s come back with a vengeance overnight. I know it’s only been a week but I want it to be over so I can move on :(

@PamelaDoov I think that's fairly common for it to stop and start 😩 just be careful DTD to early as there's risk of infection xx

@Skl2021 definitely won’t do anything until it’s stopped. Weirdly enough I had a dream about it last night, was about to DTD with DH and then remembered I didn’t want to risk infection 😂

@PamelaDoov haha that's weird how the brain works 🙊 at least u won't forget 😂 x

So, obviously BFP was awesome for so many reasons. But on that list...DTD was getting to be awful. Like, he couldn’t, I would get angry, it would often feel forced and sad. Neither of us has a sky high drive anyway. dH would be happy with another child but his heart doesn’t need it like mine. Getting back to that forced DTD...not exciting. Anyone else? 😳

@taykitty20 I feel ya 🙌 I'm at the same place right now! Sick of forcing DTD I don't have high drive either but I desperately want to get pregnant again so I'm doing it. 🤦 I'm so fed up with it all! X

How are we all? I'm 6/7 DPO and got such a weird tender tummy and lots of gas 🤦🏼‍♀️ urgh! I haven't had a period since I miscarried and I know we had sex around the correct time of ovulation so fingers crossed!

@taykitty20 I know exactly what you mean. We got a bit like that when TTC with our first. It puts a lot of pressure on both parties when you know you HAVE to perform in order to get what you want, it’s not just for fun anymore. I am worried that DH might be affected if we start TTC when we are both still thinking about our loss. Obviously it’s not his fault but it will mean potentially missing out on conceiving if we can’t DTD at the right time.

@Skl2021 yep will be 2nd one! No it was really odd..had about 3 weeks of bleeding with MC then about 5/6 days of non bleeding ( then ovulated) then AF rocked up about 8 days later which is making me panic about a short luteal phase now 😐 xx

@20viona good luck 🙌🤞 not long to wait now 🤞✨
@calimc83 hopefully it was just your body trying to get back to normal last cycle! They can be all over the place as I'm finding out 😂🙈 your 7 dpo today arnt you? As long as it's over 10 I don't think it's a problem x

@calimc83 when are you planning to test? I'm hoping to hold off until next Friday at least.

@Skl2021 9 DPO today..hoping to at least get to tomorrow 🙈 are u still doing the OPKs? X

@20viona well...I'm hoping to hold out till next Sunday if I can...famous last words! 😆🙈 x

I just got weird twinges (like throbbing) on the right side. I think I'm 10/11 dpo. Am I reading in to everything. I might test tomorrow

@calimc83 oh your doing well then I would have tested by now 😂🙈 I usually get to about day 7 and cave! Yes took one today might be darker I cant tell anymore I give up 🤦 loosing my shit with them!
@Hopingforarainbow27 good luck if u test 🤞✨

@Hopingforarainbow27 eek! Good luck..let us know how u get on 💖 x
@Skl2021 Ha ha I'm trying to hold out as long as I can..can't face the disappointment 🙈😩..have u a pic to compare them? X

@calimc83 I tried a pic but you can hardly tell so didn't bother and my app has gone to shit and is saying there all low it's like not picking them up like it used to! Will see what tomorrow brings 🤦😂 I think it is a big darker today so if tomorrow is darker again then we're onto something 🤞 if it's the same then I give up 🤣 x

@Skl2021 everything crossed for you!! X

@calimc83 I didn't test. I've decided I'm not going to as I'm convinced I'm not pregnant so just going to keep it that way until af shows

@Hopingforarainbow27 I admire your willpower; I hope your gut is wrong. I always thought, sure, other people say their gut was wrong, but mine won't be, I'll know for sure. And I didn't. Fingers crossed.

@Ganesh2022 I know it's the only way I can cope. Just telling myself it's not this month.