🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

So sorry to see this @Babyghirl - I really am! I am hoping it all works out for you xxx
Can you self refer to your local EPU? If you can I would certainly recommend calling them and seeing if they will offer you an appointment. Xx

@Annny27
I think it's a reason aswell waiting on doc phoning me she going to get it but I knw its a miscarriage as cramping and that nw but just glad it happened sooner rather than l8r. X
@chali7
Deffo a miscarriage cramping and that nw so hoping it just like a bad period don't fancy going for a scan sick off scans with no outcome so will just ride it out and test nxt week to see if it's negative. How r u feeling xxx

Yes totally agree with you, and we do know our bodies best. Take it easy and rest up won't you.
I'm ok thanks! I am not feeling very positive, but I guess I just have to wait it out and see what happens!
Thinking of you today, I'm so sorry this is happening zzx

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@Babyghirl check our her on Instagram. She had 5 miscarriages before being diagnosed with low progesterone and then had healthy no issue pregnancy after using suppositories!

@Babyghirl I’m so sorry it’s looking like it’s happening again 😢. Really hope you can be seen at EPU to confirm. Take it easy and look after yourself

@Annny27
Thank you will have a look if it's something as simple as that I will be so angry at the doc for nt listening to me. But I'm not going to try no more to I c the fertility consultant and I knw next time I fall I will get everything I need to help keep the pregnancy xx

@ELM7
Thank you not feeling to bad glad it happened sooner rather than later. Will just do a test next week to c if it's nagitive can't be dealing with another scan with a bad outcome. Waiting on the doctor phoning me to get some good pain relief as the ones I have might aswell take smarties lol. And I'm going to push for a quicker referral to a gynoglagest as they say 2 years I have not got 2 years to wait I will be 40 then lol xx

How are you feeling @Babyghirl? Xx

@chali7
I'm OK got cramps on and off I'm up early this morning even through I'm off work lol partner away to work thou. So going to patter abot today keep myself busy and make a nice home made curry for him coming home. How r you feeling xx

That sounds good, I love a homemade curry! I hope the cramps settle for you. So sorry to hear he is away, especially at this time. Yes I'm OK thanks, just taking it all day by day at the moment! Xx

@chali7
He wanted to phone in but I told him I'm OK I like me time I get more done lol if he was here he would nt let me lift a finger and tell me to stay in bed lol, but for things to move quicker I have learnt that being active moves it along quicker. So like to keep busy I have everything crossed for you girl 🍀💚 xx

Ah thats a really good outlook. My life is generally busy, and my OH works long hours, so we would be similar haha. Being busy is certainly good. Xxx

@chali7
It is better to be busy got my two fur balls to look after to keep me busy aswell lol bleeding just brown nw but will turn red soon if the cramps anything to go by lol doc give me Co codamol 30 over 500 to get me through it lol xx

Cd12 and had ewcm for the past three days so in fertile week. Got to dtd today! Not doing opks and it foes feel a lot calmer not knowing exactly 🥰

You are so brave and strong @Babyghirl 💚

Yep dose yourself up on the painkillers and hopefully you don't pass too many clots 😪 and yes deffo - if you are active it will probably.speed things up. When is your next appointment with fertility?

@Annny27
It's closed for 4 weeks nw due to covid so hoping I have one for Feb should be opening up 2nd week off Feb so fingers crossed nt to long a wait. Good luck this month 🍀💚 I'm nt trying again to I get answers xx

Well cramps and bleeding picking up today 😭😭😭😭😭 keeping busy thou. I said to my husband to be I must be a c##t to be going through this a 4th time well 5th if you include the cp how's everyone's weekend going xx

Its utterly awful for you :( @Babyghirl totally nothing to do with you or your character its just awful awful situation and bad luck :( xxxx

@Annny27
He said that too lol but you can't help but blame urself, his sister said the other day was I going to his niece's babyshower on sat am I wrong for telling her no I won't be there could nt face it tbh. Xx

@babyghirl No thats totally fine - about 3 weeks after my miscarriage it was my sisters baby shower and I told her I couldn't face it and she said that was totally understandable. Love my niece now to bits but couldn't face it at the time

@Annny27
Glad I'm not the only one can't even bring myself to wlk down a baby isle to buy her anything either, but hope she understands if nt well tbh that's nt my problem she has nt been through what I have on this journey xx

Hey ladies ,
Just been trying to catch up , sorry I've been quiet. I'm fed up of this TTC journey and so so ready for my 🌈

So sorry @Babyghirl that you're going through this again. I really hope you get some answers soon 💐 you're so strong and I know you'll get through this

@Fizzl So nice to hear from you, I was thinking of you the other day, I'm so happy your pregnancy is progressing well! It makes me happy to hear the successes of other MNers. ☺️

Good luck on your fertile week @Annny27! Hoping for your 🌈

I'm currently 7dpo with no symptoms as usual. Should have AF by the end of the week I think. Still hoping she doesn't come though!

@nuggetlover27
Thank you really hope your period does nt come and u get ur rainbow baby this month, its a long journey for us ladies on this thread but I know we will all get r happy endings soon 🤞🙏🍀💚

I understand that feeling @Babyghirl I have avoided baby showers like the plague.

Covid helps as an excuse for not going!! My best friend had her baby in December, we were due 2 days apart (we found out on the same day) and she hasn't pushed anything on me and has been so understanding of my situation. Its OK to be distant from newborns, and those lucky new mums will understand if they're good friends or family.

Hope you are feeling okay today xxxx

Sending lots of good luck and love for this month to @Annny27 and @Nuggetlover27❤❤

Morning ladies :) about to ovulate I am sure of it. I get loads of ewcm since my miscarriage which I am paranoid is a bad sign but will ask the fertility doctor in 2 weeks at our next appointment.

@Nuggetlover27 hopefully AF stays away!!! Last month was the first month I have not done a pregnancy test - shows that I am somewhat losing hope!

@Babyghirl have things progressed now? Xx

@chali7 thank you lovely! Hope all is going well with you

@Annny27
Bleeding pretty bad from last nite not loads on pad more in the toilet have nt passed anything yet thou, only around 6 weeks so don't know if much will be passed tbh with my first 6 week loss I only remember blood loss in the toilet and passing the placenta on my pad and that was it I have had to take a couple off days off work due to bleeding to hoping it's over soon I'm drained 😭😭😭😭😭😭 x