🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

[ELM7]

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

I'm 5+1 today according to ff lol so should it nt be coming up 3+ weeks 🙈🙈🙈🙈

@Babyghirl I know it’s really difficult but try not to stress about the digital ones. Sometime people never see 3+ on them. Really hope this little beans sticks. 🌈

Also the 3+ Should be 5+ weeks and you are only just 5 weeks and it’s so easy to be a couple of days out so it could just be just a little too early and if you were to try again in a few days you might get the 3+.

I just wish we could all relax when we get a BFP but our history is never going to let that happen now and it’s so sad. x

Hi all,

Hope you don't mind me joining!

I had a missed miscarriage in the last few weeks (I find it hard to explain the timings haha! As I first found out there were issues on Christmas Eve when I should have been 6+4. I didn't lose the Pregnancy until I had my MVA on the 14th January when I should have been 9+3).

I know some people say to wait for a period before trying again but I just can't. I've been temping since I miscarried (CD1). Still waiting for negative pregnancy test at the mo but it's getting really light! Bleeding has stopped.

Think we will start DTD from tonight.

I think I'll be upset whether I get AF or BFP this cycle so I'm just joining for moral support from people who understand ❤️ will have a little read through the past few pages now! Xx

@lauraT94
Welcome come to the group sorry you find yourself here thou but it's a really supportive group to be in so sorry for your loss, its a page for you to rant and blow of steam to people who understand what ur going through. The feeling of miscarriage is just awful to go through have had 3 myself last in Oct and just found out that I'm pregnant again which was a shock as it took me a year nearly after my last losses to fall again I fell every September which was weird but can't help but think I'm going to be with a 4th loss 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 but from me try not to stress easier said than done I knw but I never stressed after my last loss and I think that's why I fell pregnant quite quickly tbh. 🍀💚

@ELM7
It's awful pregnancy after a loss never mind 3 r innocents of a positive has been taken away from us when it should be the happiest time of r lives if it does not work out taking a break to I get my app through for the fertility clinic to find out why it keeps happening don't think I could put myself through 5 never mind 4 xx

Hi ladies! I thought it was strange there hadn't been any posts on the old thread for a while and I completely hadn't noticed it was full and a new thread had started! Glad I've found you again anyway. Hope you're all doing well!

@Annny27 those SA results look pretty good! It might have been that previously they were affecting your chances but now they're good it might just do the trick so fingers crossed with a bit more time you'll get that BFP!

@Babyghirl those definitely look like positive tests! Congratulations 💐

@fizzl
I was just thinking about u yesterday to, to c how your doing I have myself down for a 4th loss tbh no symptoms at all I would be 5+2 weeks today, but I'm OK with wat ever way it goes well for nw I am lol but just said if anything going to go wrong would rather it happen sooner rather than l8r 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈.

@Babyghirl thank you! I'm so so sorry for your losses. Have you had any testing after the third? Congratulations on your new BFP! That's such fabulous news. I'm sorry you can't let yourself feel positive about it at the moment but I can totally understand wanting to protect yourself and expecting the worst at this stage. Will you have an early scan at all? Do you mind me asking at what stage you lost your previous pregnancies? X

@lauraT94
1st I should off been 10+5 second I was 6 weeks 3rd I went for seven week measuring 5+6 but heart beat seen then lost at 10 weeks also had a cp before 1st loss got a scan sorted for the 8th of Feb also waiting on an app for fertility clinic coming through went after my second loss but fell pregnant before I got another app through so just waiting on an app again. Xx

@lauraT94
Been 1 hell of a roller-coaster the last 3 years but I would get what I want if I stop trying and I keep telling myself that my fear of not having a baby is greater than losing but all us ladies will get there 🍀💚

How weird am I I acc looked back on all this thread 😂😂😂😂😂 and so many names you don't c any more.
@fizzl have nt heard from you in a while how r u getting on and how's little bean doing 🍀💚

Evening ladies 🥰 i am about cd8 maybe cd7 not sure but no signs of ovulation yet which is good because last night we dtd and not sure how it happened but not a single drop of sperm made it to where it needs to go - i would have been so angry if that happened in fertile week 🤣🤣

@Babyghirl I admire you for your c'est la vie outlook but please try and enjoy that you ARE pregnant 🥰🥰🥰 and this little bean is growing inside you 💖

@fizzl cant believe you are nearing 20 weeks!!! Feels like only yesterday you were one of the old timers haha

@Nuggetlover27 best of like for the tww!! Been through it so many times now I imagine you don't even symptom spotting anymore!

@27DONFIN so sorry she arrived:( it's awful every month!

Thanks @elm7 will your husband get a repeat SA now? I know you said before you conceived he had potentially low morphology too

I'm doing well thanks. Still doesn't seem real, I think we've been putting it to the back of our minds as a bit of self preservation but it's gradually starting to sink in I think! I'm starting to feel movement quite regularly too (well at least that's what I think it is) so that's acting as a bit of a nice reminder most days.

I have no idea where the 20 weeks has gone already. It terrifies me slightly that I've only got that amount of time to go again and I feel so disorganised! We've decided to try and get quite a bit or work done to our home before baby arrives - now not sure that this is the best idea because it won't be starting for at least 8 weeks but hey ho how bad can it be?! 😂🤦🏼‍♀️ will definitely make the last 20 weeks fly by anyway 😬 sucker for punishment I think!

Hope you're all doing well, I think about you often (in a non creepy way!) and hoping that your rainbows will be on their way soon 💐

@fizzl
Good to hear things r going great and your rainbow will be here soon 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I found out last week I was pregnant again for the 4th time nervous and scared but I am blanking it out Im around 5+3 in half an hour 😂😂😂😂 so only about ten weeks from my last loss boobs only in comfy now and again and burn tired light cramps that have me worried r they norm for around this time can u remember lol hoping 4th time lucky 🙏🤞🍀💚

I think this is it! Third time lucky 🤞❤
Hope you're all well xxx

@chali7
Congratulations to ur bfp I got mine last week to so hoping 4th time lucky for me h+h nine months 🙏🤞💚🍀

Thank you so muxh @Babyghirl - and to you as well!! I hope the nerves aren't too bad for you! I'm a bit of an emotional wreck today haha. Xx

Congratulations @chali7 💗🤞🤞🤞🤞

@babyghirl have you had any more spotting since your bit last week?

@fizzl no I totally get you I often think of people I speak to on here! Baby will appreciate all the work done on the house before they arrive as they won't have to deal with building noise when they are small haha!

Will you be telling us in mumsnet the babies sex or keeping it to yourself completely?

Cd10 maybe - no ovulation sign yet, dtd as and when we like which is roughly every 3 days

Thanks @Annny27 🤞❤ we took a really relaxed approach this month! (Well as relaxed as I could have been anyway haha) Must have worked! OH won't believe it until he's seen a digital test to spell it out for him 🙈🤣
Fx'd for you this month xx

@chali7
I have put it to the back of my head tbh and just going abot my day 🙈🙈🙈🙈 every other time I have been pregnant I have went of tea and coke and was ascared to move so taking the relaxed approach and having a cuppa when I want one and drinking coke cause it never helped the outcome last 3 times. Xx
@Annny27
No it was only needle size drops on tissue so I'm hoping it all OK thou but Im relaxed as I can be cause I can't change the outcome either way 🙏🤞🍀💚

Tmi picture well this has just happened so can say I'm now going through my 4th miscarriage not trying no more to I get answers could not go through this a fifth time tbh I'm OK just glad it's happened sooner rather than l8r and I won't be passing to much clots and things hoping it's just like a norm period and not to bad. Thank you girls for always being here for me as I know I can tlk to yous no matter wat 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 xx

@babyghirl I am gutted for you if this is the case 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 can you get a scan to confirm? Xxxx

I genuinely think you have low progesterone and that those suppositories wouldnhave helped so I am so frustrated that they didn't give them to you 😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬 @babyghirl