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🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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ELM7 · 16/01/2021 18:53

On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

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Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 10:59

Today's tests nt testing anymore lol you think it darker x

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Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 11:01

@Annny27
All clinics r closed in Belfast I'm going to argue with the doc on this one, that the sis out off the fertility clinic told me it's them who have to issue me it.

Annny27 · 19/01/2021 11:38

Deffo darker!! Hope they do prescribe it 🤞 if not its worth googling natural ways to increase progesterone!

Any symptoms yet? @babyghirl

SunnySideUp2020 · 19/01/2021 11:45

@Babyghirl
Congratulations!! That is a nice definite bfp!

I would stop testing now. For your own sanity :)

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 11:48

@Annny27
Boobs burning off me like they on fire lol peeing loads tired hoping this bean sticks.
@sunnysideup2020
No more testing nw none left 😂😂😂😂😂😂 just hoping this little bean sticks 🤞🙏🍀💚

Annny27 · 19/01/2021 13:08

@babyghirl have you told your husband? 💗💗

16dpo and my period arrived in full force today after spotting for a few days! Onwards and upwards 🙄

Babyghirl · 19/01/2021 13:14

@Annny27
Told him this morning was going to try hide it for as long as I could incase it goes wrong then he would be none the wiser so I would nt disappoint him again but I knw he would be mad at me 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Nuggetlover27 · 21/01/2021 08:05

@Annny27 I hope that you're feeling better now than you was on Sunday? I completely understand and I feel exactly the same 💕 I want to be a mum so bad and I'm ready but it's just not happening ☹️

@Babyghirl congrats! Looks like a BFP. How are you doing?

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 08:54

@nuggetlover27
OK but have myself down for a 4th loss as I have zero symptoms so I will be OK either outcome really thinking its something to do with my heart shape uterus tbh but if imm going to loss would rather it happen sooner rather than l8r. 💚💚

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 11:50

Hi Ladies hope all are well. Iv been MIA trying to let go a bit more deleted my tracker so not symptom spotting as much. AF is due this weekend and I know she’s coming. Think I’m ok with it.

@Babyghirl I don’t know how you torture yourself with those tests 😂 Iv not tested in forever but I need definite answers I need digital lol hope you are doing well

@Annny27 @ELM7 @ @SunnySideUp2020 how are you all? Xx

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 12:05

@27DONFIN
Lol I have stopped testing think I'm ascared to take a weeks test off what will come up on it 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 blanking this pregnancy out tbh like it's nt there awful after 3 losses what why ur mind works. All I can do is hope it works out 🙏🤞🍀💚

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 12:40

@Babyghirl keeping everything crossed for you 💚🤞🏻🍀

27DONFIN · 21/01/2021 12:40

@Babyghirl how early did you test? Xx

Babyghirl · 21/01/2021 12:56

@27DONFIN
I was on CD 28 but my cycle have been up and down in nov it was at 28 day cycle in Dec it was a 24 day cycle messed up from my loss on holloween there so don't know how. Far I am or where I am lol x

Annny27 · 22/01/2021 14:39

Afternoon ladies :)

@babyghirl I think trying to stay as calm as possible is a good plan :) are you going to do a 6 or 7 week scan or something?

@27DONFIN yep I didnt even take a pregnancy result this month which was much better for my mental health than squinting over lines which aren't there!

@Nuggetlover27 have you ovulated or just about to?

P.s just had our 2nd sperm analysis through after 3 months from the last one And they have improved since the last time :D

Previous: morphology 2%
Now: morphology 6%

Previous: motility 50%
Now: motility 58%

Previous count per ml 13million
Now: count per ml 43.5million

Things we have done differently:

  1. loose boxers
  2. taking wellman every day
  3. eating more fruit and veg
  4. exercising

I am super please but now also panicked that we have unexplained fertility as they haven't found anything to explain it so far!

Babyghirl · 22/01/2021 14:52

@Annny27
Just going with it doc has put me in to epu for the 8th of Feb for an early scan but tbh I don't I will get that far each time I have had a feeling something wasn't right of each pregnancy and feeling the same nw had pink spotting last night to so I just hoping if it going to go wrong it's sooner rather than l8r I'm OK with it thou won't try again until I have tests done thou. 🍀💚

ELM7 · 22/01/2021 16:09

@Annny27 that’s great on SA results but yep of course we will always find something else to worry about.

@Babyghirl I’m so sorry that your past experiences means you can’t help but think the worse for this pregnancy. I really hope that this is your rainbow 🌈

@27DONFIN really hope AF doesn’t show up this weekend.

I think I ovulated yesterday had awful cramps so did an OPK which was peek but haven’t actually done another pregnancy test yet to make sure that’s negative so don’t know. Might do a test tomorrow and see if it’s now negative

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Babyghirl · 22/01/2021 16:40

@ELM7
Think I'm just preparing myself for the worst but if it is going to happen again would rather it happen nw rather than l8r cause I hate the feeling of the clots and that leaving if it happens nw I'm only about 5 weeks so won't be as bad x

Nuggetlover27 · 23/01/2021 10:19

@Babyghirl my fingers are crossed for you that it's a sticky bean!

@Annny27 that's really good news on your OHs SA results! I haven't ovulated yet but I think it'll be within the next few days. Had some cramping and headaches which I usually get. And also increased cm so hope it's soon!

27DONFIN · 23/01/2021 11:41

Af has arrived do another no luck month for us

Babyghirl · 23/01/2021 15:13

@27DONFIN
Sorry the witch got you I went out today and bought night time always pads that how convinced I am I'm going to miscarry 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 not a symptom going and I have had this feeling every other time to 🤞🍀💚

chali7 · 24/01/2021 10:24

Congratulations @Babyghirl!! Happiest New Year to you ❤❤ so pleased to see this xxx

Babyghirl · 24/01/2021 10:42

@chali7
Thank you just hoping it's 4th time lucky for me how you keeping xx

chali7 · 24/01/2021 10:49

Really hoping for you too, its very nerve wracking! But very exciting ❤ Yes good thank you, we have moved house now and are very settled, I'm about 7DPO today so into the 2nd week of the TWW again! How is your OH feeling now? I've just been catching up on the old thread. Is he better??

I've been so busy with getting this new house ready I've not managed to check in!

I hope everyone is keeping well. Xx

Nuggetlover27 · 24/01/2021 22:18

Sorry AF came for you @27DONFIN ☹️

I think I ovulated today so tomorrow will be the start of my TWW. Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏻

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