🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 5 🦕

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On to thread 5 Ladies!

@Annny27
@Nuggetlover27
@27DONFIN
@Babyghirl

Please tag anyone I’ve missed from the old thread.

I’m currently enjoying my first glass of wine in about 10 weeks. Will happily give up alcohol for a baby but no baby I need alcohol 😂

Really hope that’s the start of a BFP for you @Babyghirl let us know when you test in the morning.

@Annny27 Sorry it looks like AF has arrived.

@Nuggetlover27 Fingers crossed for a positive FW

@27DONFIN it's been a hard few months... I had cin 1 come back on my smear... was due to have surgery for something else found out I was pregnant 6 days before I was due to go in but it was ectopic that was all in the space of 3 months so now I am a little wreck I have no one to speak to about it because no one knows yet I decided not to tell the other half yet as I didn't want to worry him until we know what's happening xx

@slcxxx
I'm so ready for my rainbow nw, but us ladies will all get r happy ending soon 💚

@Babyghirl you keep me sane hun I love this tread there is no judgement at all and you're all a bunch of lovely ladies... I must admit I was one of those totally ignorant ladies I always said it would never happen to me and well it did and seeing how much heart break and stress you lovely ladies have been through ttc and to be so supportive even when you want to scream why me makes me realise how amazing you all are you have literally pulled me out of panic and into positivity and I do Thankyou all soz really emotional tonight... well the pain in my back has died down I think it's more when I don't use it... I really hope my bean is not in my tube... I have had some mild upper thigh pain.., would shoulder tip pain he constant?? Xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I had cin 1 bck to had them removed last Jan but only going for my check up nxt wed as it all got put on hold with covid was to go for my check up in Jan there but found out I was pregnant so could not get it so hoping everything is clear. 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
The bck pain and upper leg pain can just be muscle pain with your body stretching your muscles get lose and extra blood flowing around your body to I had the upper leg but it was like I done a day in the gym lol but because its so close to the urters the muscles will relax and ur bck pain is the muscles relax there to for your growing bean, but I knw how the anxiety kicks in and I can tell you to try and relax but I never did but I knw coming Tuesday everything is going to be where it should be. And you can start to enjoy being pregnant xxx

@sweetbabydust1989
And remember being emotional is down to ur pregnancy hormones so that's a symptom aswell the jiys lol xx

@Babyghirl horrible isn't it... I am praying my little one is there I don't feel pregnant I feel weird... I remember my ectopic being very painful to the point I couldn't move and it hurting to pee... this feels different I did have an achy arm with my ectopic hence my sheer panic... but I never had upper thigh pain or what feels like stretching pain xx

@sweetbabydust1989
You will be fine there's more percent on it not happening again than happening again so the odds r in your favour. Xxx

@sweetbabydust1989
Stretching pain is just ur urters growing hench why your getting the sore legs and bck cause your muscles have relaxed to accommodate the little bean xx

@Babyghirl do you think I should be concerned about the pain in my shoulder blade and arm?? I hope little bean is ok I just can't relax until the scan still no pain anywhere else or bleeding that must be a good sign xx

@sweetbabydust1989
I think you will be absolutely fine xx

@sweetbabydust1989 I had shoulder blade pain in my pregnancy and it was a normal pregnancy (ended in mc but that's nothing to do with the shoulder pain haha)

Your body is probably so anxious right now that your muscles are all tense and causing pain!

@27donfin @babyghirl we are tww buddies then. I am not sure yet if I have just ovulated or about to ovulate. Cd15 today so seems like the right couple of days. On cd12 she said I had a 17mm follicle which would release an egg in a few daya

@Babyghirl I think it's the position I sleep in as I changed it last night now I have pain on the other arm 🙈 the pain is more located biceps I honestly think it's stress related I put everything to the back of my head and pain eases off.. 2 more days and moment of truth... no bleeding loads of cm and weird pulling sensation xx

@Annny27 so sorry about your mc hun 😞 how you feeling about everything??? My back pain is definitely stress related and poor sleep position my pain is located on my bicep not sure if that's ectopic related xx

Thanks girls for all the positive replies means so much to me well I feel much better today well apart from my skin looking like shit pains in arms has finally subsided I am thinking it's potentially stress as it's located mainly in my biceps no shoulder tip touch wood on that one ( I actually just did tap my table🙈) I am finally feeling more relaxed scan on Tuesday will give me some info I honestly pray that my little bean is borrowing its way in I have had the odd pin prick sensation not sure on that one could be corpus related... I hope you are all good xx

@Annny27
Think ovulation has happened for me had the pain on right side yesterday by Overy so just to wait nw lol have got an app for an obs gyne on the 19th May thank god 💚
@sweetbabydust1989
Glad your feeling a lot better today nt long to go nw to ur scan your getting there 💚
Well I'm doing a lot of painting today lol sorry I started nw thou 😂😂😂😂😂

@Babyghirl I honestly cannot be arsed today slept most of it I have been having period style cramping that's normal right?? No bleeding xx

Afternoon girls 💕
Just an update as 6 weeks pregnant today.

I have unfortunately today started bleeding 😥 I feel so depressed I don't know what to do.

EPU scan booked for tomorrow at midday as this would be my 3rd if that's the case.
Feeling so sad that I will never have my dream of carrying my babies and having loads of babies xoxox

@lozza2206 I hope you're ok hun try not to panic have you got any other symptoms?? Xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 thank you 💕 just had light cramps but nothing else worrying 🙈 if it's meant to be it will be. Just don't want to sit in this category of recurrent you know! X

@lozza2206 I no what you mean hun well no pain is good I bet you got tomorrow and there is a beautiful heart beating away!!! It's so hard isn't I am picking at every symptom going I currently have a painful bicep which is giving me a freezing cold hand praying it's not an ectopic xxx

@Sweetbabydust1989 thanks love xoxo please don't worry about that, you would know with ectopic... my sister in law had one and the pain had her keeled over 💕 it's hard but you have to enjoy this blessing xxx

@lozza2206 I had one in January and it was the worst pain going this one feels different my arm is really numb and cold so I am panicking... it comes and goes this pain goes when I use it... I really think you will be ok hun I no what you mean with worrying it's mentally draining me now xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 oh bless you! Well happy story my sister in law has 3 beautiful children (she had another loss in between those)... pregnancy after loss is the absolute worst because you can never relax xxxx

@lozza2206 that's amazing oh it's awful I am on pins until Tuesday my ectopic was in my tube which I still have... I have had no bleeding just loads of different cramps like period ones some stabbing some shooting you my lady parts some groin pain.. and then my arm so I am putting 2 and 2 together and coming up with 20,000 🙈 I hope you are ok lovely bleeding isn't always bad spoken to so many ladies whom have bleed and gone to have beautiful babies xx