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3/4dpo? - join me in the tww!

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Tempusfudgeit · 16/11/2020 14:01

Hey everyone!

I'm either 3 or 4 dpo and looking to chat to others for the hpt countdown nightmare.

I feel like I've bought a lottery ticket. Excited, hopeful, but ready for a great big nope too 😀

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ButterscotchBabe · 16/11/2020 14:21

Hey I'm 3DPO TTC#1 cycle 4, since coming off the pill in August I've had short luteal phases (8 days or less), so this cycle I've started taking vitamin C which apparently increases progesterone. Really hoping this time I get a longer luteal phase or obviously a BFP! x

Vicki1990 · 16/11/2020 15:05

Hi! I'm 5dpo today I think, but not holding out hope as looking at my last cycle I had a 7 day lp before spotting for 4 days then af!
Will be starting vitamins next cycle I think but crossing my fingers for a longer lp this month!

Tempusfudgeit · 16/11/2020 15:10

Hi Butterscotch and Vicki! I've just ordered my FRERs, ready for as long as I can hold out! I got a + with DS1 at 7dpo - the GP didn't believe me! Then at 10dpo with DS2.

Because I'm not exactly sure when I ovulated (got high on opk but not peak, so might have missed it. BD x 3 last week though, so still hopeful.

Do you have children already?

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Seasalt1984 · 16/11/2020 18:30

Hi! I'm ttc #1 on cycle 2. About 4 dpo. I'm doing exactly what I said I wouldn't do and scrolling mumsnet threads like a crazy lady looking for positive vibes and success stories! Grin I'm 36 so a little edgy about how long this could take. But feeling relaxed and positive for the most part (I think!)...

Tempusfudgeit · 16/11/2020 18:37

Welcome Seasalt - great positive mental attitude!

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ButterscotchBabe · 16/11/2020 20:23

@Tempusfudgeit no children yet, TTC #1. That's cool you got a positive at 7DPO, I plan to test on 11DPO if I make it that far without seeing af.

When's everyone planning on testing?

Tempusfudgeit · 16/11/2020 20:51

I'm going to hold out until Sunday 22nd, that's 10 dpo. I have 4 FRER in the cupboard. I will resist!

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KitQ · 16/11/2020 22:27

Hey! I think I’m 3 or 4 days dpo. AF due 26th. Going to hold out testing til 24th. (Cycle #1 for baby #1)

Trying not to do all the ovulation tests / temperature testing as only cycle one and don’t want to stress myself out too much. Just seeing how this one goes. Just waiting for this week to pass.

Tempusfudgeit · 16/11/2020 23:17

Welcome, Kit!

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Vicki1990 · 16/11/2020 23:19

Ttc #1 here, on cycle 2 of trying but third cycle off the pill. I'm trying not to rest as if I follow the pattern from last month I'll have af in the next 2/3 days Sad
I've been using opks and started temping this month too, anyone else temping?

ButterscotchBabe · 17/11/2020 06:43

@Vicki1990 yes I'm charting temp and was doing OPKs, are you having short luteal phases as well?

KitQ · 17/11/2020 07:50

Morning! 1 more day down. 1 week til I test. Ahhhh!

Vicki1990 · 17/11/2020 08:08

@ButterscotchBabe I am! I started spotting last month 7 days after I ovulated, got excited thinking it could be implantation bleeding but it carried on for 4 days and then af came Sad
Thought I'd try temping to see if I am actually ovulating and it's confirmed I am Smilejust need to lengthen my luteal phase this month and I'll take it as a win!
What are yours like?
How's everyone doing today?

stephy2021 · 17/11/2020 08:27

Hi all! Please may I join?? I'm 5dpo, 5th cycle of ttc #1.

Already symptom spotting. Managed to stay fairly chilled last month but this month is a different story. We've decided to take a break with charting/opks etc. next month as I'm finding it quite stressful at times.

Fingers crossed we all get our bfp's this month! X

Sohe · 17/11/2020 08:38

Hi! TTC #1, cycle #6 over here! Think I’m just 1DPO but LP phase normally around 12 days. Really hoping to be able to resist testing early this month! Good luck everyone!!! X

Tempusfudgeit · 17/11/2020 10:42

Morning all! Symptom spotting - argh!

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KitQ · 17/11/2020 10:49

What symptoms do you have? @Tempusfudgeit

Tempusfudgeit · 17/11/2020 11:19

Abdominal twinges, my cup of tea tastes horrible this morning and irritability (although that could be IBS, my husband's tea-making incompetence and lockdown)

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Vicki1990 · 17/11/2020 11:30

@Tempusfudgeit my tea started to taste awful yesterday, like tin and have horrific nausea on and off🙈but trying not to symptom spot, I'm having a flare up with my stomach issues so know it's most likely that!

Memcf2 · 17/11/2020 11:34

Hi all. Please can I wait with you? I'm 6 dpo ttc #2. Not feeling too hopeful this month tho. Cycle 5 of trying getting impatient now. Fell pregnant straight away with number 1.

Tempusfudgeit · 17/11/2020 11:52

Hi Mem, welcome. How old is your first?

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KitQ · 17/11/2020 11:56

I’ve got no symptoms at all. Trying not to worry about that though, still early days.

Seasalt1984 · 17/11/2020 12:30

It's so tricky with symptom spotting isn't it, last month I convinced myself I was having all the "classic" symptoms inc nausea, sore boobs and metallic taste and then got a BFN...I guess only a test can give us the answer! Gives us something to do while we wait though, right?! Wink

KitQ · 17/11/2020 12:43

I think if I get sore boobs I’ll be very excited. I never ever get sore boobs before AF so I’ll definitely see that as a good sign. (Never thought I’d be excited for sore boobs.)

Memcf2 · 17/11/2020 13:04

@Tempusfudgeit she is 2 1/2. When I came off the pill in the summer was convinced I would be pregnant by Christmas which is looking more and more unlikely.