TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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Morning all xx

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My hubs is so preoccupied with his phone I doubt he'd notice if I got a boob job! It's like a 3 "person" relationship

@re6ecca convenient and One of the best symptom perhaps?
@msg92 same here. Have had to get him to sit down and have a conversation about this because for me it was getting too much

Oh no 😂
If my fiance is on his phone too much I tell him off 😂😂

@Furbsies it is convenient & definitely was a symptom last time I got PG but I am nervous to get my hopes up!

@VP91x and @RichmondLady1981 thank you ladies. Did it again today and got my static so hopefully baby dancing tonight. We didn’t do it last night as oh was in a foul mood and it’s not worth the hassel we have been doing it every other day and today is one of those days so it should be ok. When we caught last time we DTD three days before I ovulated so fingers crossed 🤞🏻 X

@re6ecca @Furbsies I have tried to approach the subject delicately, out right tell him it annoys me and nothing works, after this many years it won't change! 1 of his flaws, it annoys me SO much but its not worth the argument anymore, or the huffing and tutting if I bring it up. Maybe I'll swap it with a baby monitor 1 day in the near future

@MSG92 I'd be fuming! Constantly 😂😂😂

@VP91x thank you for the new thread, also just seen you are putting your tree up on the 1st of November. Love this, please put some pictures up.

Hope everyone is doing ok xx

@VP91x sorry you’ve had such a crap month. Onwards for the next cycle. I’m 9DPO today so 11DPO will be Saturday. Hate being faced with a BFN. Would rather look the witch AF in the eye! Nowhere exotic... but booked a cottage in the new forest for a week! Bit of walking, cycling and nice pub food. 😀.

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that looks great! High peak! Good you did it yesterday. Go every day from now on. Do you Temp? Ovulation confirmed after a temp rise. 😀

@VP91x Thanks for advising about asking for info at the NHS scan. At the end they basically just said ok thanks you can go now. So I then asked if she could tell if I had ovulated or not and she said yes it looked like I had and everything looked ok. I guess I will book a follow up appointment with gp. Just DH to have his test now at the end of the month. X

@Richmondlady1981 I didn't this time. Did when i got my bfp in aug. Said I'd wait until 1st af and do temp and RHR.
Oh I will DTD daily. He will think its Christmas and his birthday all in 1 lol

@VP91x thanks for checking in, I’m
Good been sick and taking a few fainting episodes but baby is doing good. Nearly 17 weeks have my gender scan tomorrow morning to very excited. I’ve been so busy with work and basically sleeping every minute I’m not at work and packing up my house up to move so haven’t been checking in as much. How are u?

Congrats to everyone you have got their BFP!! And fingers crossed the rest of you get urs! Don’t give up hope xx

As it is the wave of light tonight because of baby loss awareness week, I thought I would post this light here in remembrance of all our little babies we sadly lost, that will always be in our hearts and lives 💜

Sending you all love and light for anyone who is finding today tough or feeling overwhelmed right now xx

(I hope noone minds me posting this or that I don't upset anyone)

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@VP91x that is so lovely xx

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Have mine lit here

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Hi everyone, I hope its ok to join?
I miscarried on the 17th Sept. Missed miscarriage at 7 weeks. Naturally managed. Unfortunately I actually miscarried at work.
We started ttc straight away. Currently coming to the end of AF so I'm hoping this month is the month.
My sister found out she's pregnant, 2 weeks after I did. Im happy for her but also hurting as this is my second miscarriage this year x

Morning ladies. Sadly this is not my month. AF started last night. Will keep trying a few more months but will need to stop soon as age is not in our favour. Will be 46 in November. Perhaps I ought to just be grateful I have the two that I have. Wishing all you ladies all the best.

@MaiTaku morning and sorry to hear! Never give up! My friend is the same age as you and she is now 8 months pregnant. She had a little help but it’s happening! X

@MoMof4xx sorry to hear. Very similar story to mine back in JUne. Sorry you are here but lots of support from the lovely ladies here.

Am 10 DPO but too scared to test 😬. Might wait another day. My boobs don’t hurt so thinking that’s not good news. X

@Firevie oh no, what happened at work? I hope you are OK and you can uee this weekend to relax a bit 💕

@MSG92 hope you enjoy your dinner tonight, definitely let your hair down and forget about TTC at least for the night. It can consume us so much as you said xx

@chloedancer897 fab sign with the EWCM! Did you get a flashy this morning? You ovulate the same day each cycle don't you? Xx

@2alreadywantanother to me it looks like a peak - they are the same colour. What are they looking like now?x

@Runnergirl1 sounds like you're more than covered, brilliant news on the quick static. Fingers crossed for you this month 🤞🤞

@Lollol86 yes, need to get this house sparkly 🎄🎄 will post pics xo

@RichmondLady1981 that sounds dreamy!! I really want to try and get a weekend away somewhere without the little one, maybe at the beginning of next year. I've got everything crossed for you testing tomorrow 💕

@Wishingfornumber2 oh I'm glad you asked!! I made mine talk me through everything she saw even though I already knew because I'd had a couple of private scans. I just went so they officially had it on my NHS records. I mean they have a wand up your foof the least they can do is tell you what's going on 😂😂.

@2020wish oh no! What's causing the fainting? Hope you are being looked after. Sounds like you've got a lot of plates spinning. Yes, okay here just annoyed I had another anovulatory cycle and a crappy gynae appy but making small steps forward with a 2nd opinion and looking forward to a new cycle and hopefully chance 🤞xx

Welcome @MoMof4xx I'm so sorry for your recent loss, must have been awful it happening at work. Hope you find lots of support here 💕

@MaiTaku sorry that AF came this month, be kind to yourself and have lots of chocolate /wine/treat of your choice. I hope it is soon your month xx

@vp91x they stayed like that. This is a few hes later showing high. Had twinges in my ovaries so hoping that's all good signs, did last 2 nights anyway.

*hrs

@2alreadywantanother still looks really strong doesn't it!? Do you temp to confirm ovu? X