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BFN 12po :(

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Superstar41 · 14/05/2020 15:58

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

BFN 12po :(
BFN 12po :(
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Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 07:21

@Louisac93 not out until AF turns up!! I keep worrying because my cervix doesn't feel right for if I was pregnant but every woman's body is different can't just rely on what you read sometimes x

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Louisac93 · 18/05/2020 07:26

@Superstar41 I wouldn’t even know what a pregnant cervix was meant to be 😂 when Is af due xx

Louisac93 · 18/05/2020 07:26

@Superstar41 I wouldn’t even know what a pregnant cervix was meant to be 😂 when Is af due xx

kirinm · 18/05/2020 07:33

Morning! 12dpo and another negative today. My resting heart rate has dropped for the second time today too and I do have horrible backache which I always get before my period so I think I'm definitely out.

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 07:35

@Louisac93 it's apparently meant to be high and closed but mines medium and open! Not sure whether that means I'm out or that maybe my body takes longer ? I don't know what to think I suppose I need to get a test really! AF is due today x

@kirinm don't say that until AF comes :) you never know x

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Bumblebei · 18/05/2020 07:58

Morning

15/16 dpo bfn yesterday morning.

Was certain AF on way Sat night DTD twice which usually brings AF on sharpish and nothing atm so hoping I’m not out just yet.

No symptoms other than felt nauseous for last 2 days which is probably because I’m feeling sick with anxiety 😂

Just trying to think at least by the end of this week will know one way or another if we in or out

slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 08:19

Wen I was pregnant with my first I kept testing everyday like I am now, kept getting negatives (even on a FRER) and didn't get my BFP until about a week after the day AF was due

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 08:48

@Bumblebei I know it's hard but try not to stress as will delay period ! But sounds very positive :) you taken any tests? I'm gonna go to the pharmacy tomorrow if AF doesn't arrive today/over night!

@slicedinhalf ooh that gives us some hope ! But if that's what happened to you the first time maybe will happen again! No sign of AF yet?

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slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 10:49

I just only just got a super faint positive on a clearblue early detection test which is 10mlu I believe. I'm over the moon! Honestly can't believe the line is real 😭😭

BFN 12po :(
BMWL · 18/05/2020 11:12

@slicedinhalf I can definitely see it!! Congratulations! How exciting!! How many DPO are you? I'm afraid to test because I don't want another bfn :(
If AF doesn't show tomorrow then I'll test again.

Congratulations again! You must be thrilled xx

notyetamumbuttrying · 18/05/2020 11:12

@slicedinhalf congrats, I can see that too! How many dpo are you?

slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 11:23

@notyetamumbuttrying @BMWL thank you both so much! I am over the moon, I just keep stressing about what's to come with my work as I think there may be redundancies to come but I guess we will see and deal with it as it comes. I am currently about 13/14dpo (I think), that is if I ovulated on the 4th/5th! AF was to come yesterday or today and because she didn't turn up overnight I thought I'd shoot my shot this morning. It was with fmu with an early detection test, my normal test came back negative so obviously have the tiniest amount of HCG in my body that even the clearblue struggled to detect at this point hence the super faint line. So there's definitely a chance for you still ladies! Fingers crossed for everyone on this thread ❤️❤️

kirinm · 18/05/2020 12:12

So I've just done another test and it is odd. I'm guessing it is a dud test because I've been using these tests a while and not seen anything like this. Prepare to strain your eyes. Am I going nuts or are there two lines? (3 including the control line)

Idealharpy · 18/05/2020 12:15

@notyetamumbuttrying congratulations :)!

So I did another test today and got a faint line againso i'm positive I'm pregnant. However I am crampy today so I don't think everything is going well. It's not horrendous cramps like a period but sort of like background noise. Constantly there and getting worse.

kirinm · 18/05/2020 12:16

Here we go

BFN 12po :(
kirinm · 18/05/2020 12:18

Hmmm now I've uploaded it I think maybe it's just shadows?

slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 12:25

@Idealharpy I had cramps too!! Test again tomorrow or in 2 days!

@kirinm I think I can see the start of something 🤞

Idealharpy · 18/05/2020 12:30

@slicedinhalf I've just been reading about week 5 and cramps are really normal so I think I'm just being super anxious!
@kirinm I found that I could see lines so much more clear in person but a photo showed jothing so don't be disheartened!

kirinm · 18/05/2020 12:41

@Idealharpy it's very much a shadow in real life. I'm not optimistic - that's okay though. Another month to save money and try and lose more weight.

Bumblebei · 18/05/2020 13:01

@slicedinhalf yay congratulations! I really wouldn’t worry about work what will be will be. Much rather a little baby to worry about 😁
@Idealharpy cramps are normal in the early weeks so think congratulations is in order too!

Idealharpy · 18/05/2020 13:07

Thank you :)

Louisac93 · 18/05/2020 13:24

@slicedinhalf congratulations beautiful!!
Weird question - I’ve noticed spots on my boobs that are sort of white, have you got themV???

notyetamumbuttrying · 18/05/2020 13:44

@Idealharpy I don't think congratulations was meant for me, defo not pregnant lol!
Sorry to hear things aren't going well. Will u wait a couple more days and do another test?

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 19:08

Feel very strange did a workout today and no AF cramps which would usually happen! Still no AF cramps , what's going onnnnnn

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BMWL · 18/05/2020 19:15

I've started spotting this evening which can only mean AF is on schedule for tomorrow. Guess I'm out this month!x

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