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BFN 12po :(

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Superstar41 · 14/05/2020 15:58

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

BFN 12po :(
BFN 12po :(
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Bumblebei · 18/05/2020 19:24

@Superstar41 fingers crossed she’s not going to be making an appearance!!

My CB early detection tests finally came today 4 days late lol. Will give it 2 days then test again I think as no symptoms whatsoever for either 😂

notyetamumbuttrying · 18/05/2020 19:28

Good luck @Bumblebei
Sorry to hear @BMWL but new cycle is another month to try! That's how I'm trying to look at it anyway.

BMWL · 18/05/2020 19:31

@notyetamumbuttrying exactly! I'm more in tune this month hopefully and it will be the month!! Positive thinking xx

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 19:32

@BMWL
definitely period do you think? Couldn't be implantation spotting ?

@Bumblebei thank you!! Fingers crossed I haven't tested since 10dpo or 12dpo I can't remember which day I did it lol! Will go buy a test tomorrow if AF doesn't rear her ugly head ;)

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BMWL · 18/05/2020 19:37

@Superstar41 I'm presuming it's my period because I did a test today and it was neg.
My OPK was positive on the 3rd of this month so I presume it's too late for IB? What do you think?
It's quite light and pink, so I just presumed it could be AF coming tomorrow x

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 19:41

@BMWL I think I've read that you can have implantation bleeding up to 14 days after ovulation! How many dpo are you? If it's implantation bleeding your HCG wouldn't be high enough yet it can happen later in some women x

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Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 19:42

@BMWL we have the same cycle I just re read! Could be implantation bleed ! Give it til tomorrow :) x

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BMWL · 18/05/2020 19:48

@Superstar41 ahh really!? I'll give it till tomorrow and see if AF comes! Fingers crossed it's IB, but don't want to get mY hopes up just yet xx

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 19:49

@BMWL fingers crossed for you :):) I'm also trying not to get my hopes up too much as my cervical position doesn't match what it should if pregnant so putting doubt in my mind x

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Bumblebei · 18/05/2020 20:10

@Superstar41 silly question sorry but what do you mean when say cervical position?

Trying2b · 18/05/2020 20:16

@slicedinhalf I could see your positive on the first picture you posted, I just whizzed through this thread to see the confirmation! Congratulations x

slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 20:19

Thank you @Louisac93 and thank you @Trying2b . I thought I was going crazy seeing that faint of a line! Still can't believe it. This was a 10mlu test and tried a 20mlu test and negative. I wonder when that one is going to come up with a second line 🤔

Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 20:20

@Bumblebei apparently during early pregnancy your cervix (you have to feel inside) it's like a doughnut shape, should be high soft and closed ! Usually drops before period and opens to allow blood flow x

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Superstar41 · 18/05/2020 20:23

@slicedinhalf congratulations ❤️

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slicedinhalf · 18/05/2020 20:54

@Superstar41 thank you lovely 🙏 xx

Lexie365 · 18/05/2020 22:49

can i joinGrin so my last af was 14/04/20 but that had been 2 weeks late was actually due on on 31/03/20. i dont track ovulation so have no idea when i ovulated but have been getting cramps and back ache for about 2 weeks now, bfn a week ago but was a internet cheapie so no very sensitive. i have ordered a frer which should arrive in the next couple of days, really hope its my bfpSmile also my cervix has been high for 2 weeks and i have had times of being very nauseous and am completely exhausted this last week. all sounds very much like im pregnant....except i have had similar symptoms previously and have not been pregnant Sad fingers crossed for us allSmile

Maybe333 · 19/05/2020 00:40

Hey ladies, can I join you?
Wow, some of you are really giving me hope!
So I've no idea when I ovulate but based on last months cycle I reckon around 5th May which takes me to 13 dpo. Tested a few times now and all BFN. Started spotting this evening but it's brownish and only when I wipe (sorry TMI!!) so now I'm hanging on for any shred of hope that it's IB but surely not at this late stage in the game? Finding it hard to get to sleep as no doubt tomorrow AF may well show in full force! Here's hoping she doesn't though.
Congratulations superstar41!
:)

2020wish · 19/05/2020 05:54

Just thought I’d drop in and say that the month I fell pregnant I tested negative on frer on 12dpo and 14dpo but tested positive on clear blue digital on 14dpo. I never did get a clear positive on pink dye tests til weeks later but took like a million clear blue digital week indicator and all positive and progressing. Unfortunately I mc at 8 weeks. But just wanted to shed some hope for some of you still testing

Back in my tww and 8dpo

Superstar41 · 19/05/2020 06:28

Morning all

AF has showed this morning so I'm out :( on to next month!

@2020wish hello hope you're well? Sorry to hear about your MC :( is this your first month back trying ?

@Maybe333 your brownish wiping sounds positive !! Have you tested yet with an early response ?? :) of course you can join x

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Louisac93 · 19/05/2020 06:34

@Superstar41 oh noooo bless you onto the next month
I’m now 14dpo and no sign of af still, I couldn’t bare to test this morning x

2020wish · 19/05/2020 07:02

@Superstar41 sorry to hear about af :(

Yes first month back. I haven’t had af yet from mc but ovulated again last Monday

kirinm · 19/05/2020 07:03

Morning. 13dpo and another barely there shadow of what looks sort of like a line. Really don't know if there is actually a line tbh. AF due tomorrow.

BMWL · 19/05/2020 07:19

@Superstar41 AF arrived this morning for me too!! :(

Superstar41 · 19/05/2020 07:26

@BMWL you're defo my cycle buddy! How long do yours last? My cycle has been lasting for 26 days !

Rubbish right ? Although got to try and keep positive !! X

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BMWL · 19/05/2020 07:38

@Superstar41 this cycle has been 36 days.
It's been completely all over the place since my ectopic pregnancy in February. It's gone completely irregular, although it never used to be regular anyway before the ectopic.
I might bleed for maybe 2 or 3 days then that's AF over when before the ectopic I could have AF up to 7-8 days.
I did initially calculate AF to arrive last week, but in seeing that I ovulated late, it pushed my period a week ahead.
Being a woman is so confusing 😂 x

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