BFN 12po :(

[Superstar41]

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

@notyetamumbuttrying definitely have to look forward to a positive month ahead and lots of trying which is the only fun part! I’ve got lower cramps and feel like AF is going to arrive shortly so I’m confident I’m out this month too

@slicedinhalf when are you due on? I ov 2/3 and calculated due on 20th but defo feel AF on its way now so guessing I have my dates all wrong

Hi! I'm due either tomorrow or Monday but now that I've adjusted my app, it says 20th which can't be right because my cycle is never longer than 27-28 days. I know it's only our first month trying but gosh, seeing all these BFN's is definitely heartbreaking

I took a clearblue early detection test yesterday evening and I don't know if I can see something or if it's an indent or what. What do you guys think?

@Bumblebei yeah definitely!! Love the trying part only lol!
@slicedinhalf I'm sorry but I can't see a line in those pics hun.

I'm sorry @slicedinhalf but I can't see anything.
I did another test this evening and it was again a bfn. 3 days early for AF, so still time yet x

@Louisac93 I'm due on on Monday. Although I started pregnacare supplements a month ago and since seen they can delay AF? I hope not as that'll get my hopes up and I just know its not gonna happen, plus I don't want my cycle out of sync! I try to never get my hopes up too much,but this past week I've felt so different, the symptoms have been really strong so I couldn't help it, so same as you, gutted all day. Sounds ridiculous but really wanted to tell my DH on his birthday I was preg, I know unlikely and silly but had a bit of hope about it. Hope your feeling better tonight!

@slicedinhalf I don’t see anything sorry ☹️ Ashamed to say I got my tests out the bin this evening to triple check there’s nothing there. We are trying for our third after 10 years and feel like I’m new to all this too

@slicedinhalf hun don’t worry mine was the same I’m 28 days every month. Ovulated last Tuesday
So pushed my period back to Monday/ Tuesday
No sign yet xxx

@Lovebug06 I’m still absolutely fuming 😂😂😂 but I have no af symptoms at all so literally my head is a mess
What are your symptoms ? any CM? You ok hun xxx

@Louisac93 I thought AF and pregnancy symptoms were nearly the same? However I never get them really for AF so them being so strong made me think it may be happening. Feeling sick a lot, boobs hurting a LOT, exhausted, struggling at work I'm so tired and falling asleep early which I never do etc. I guess just new period symptoms for me. Yours? I'm so disappointed, at least I know for next month when I guess it'll happen again!

11dpo and a BFN. I noted down all my "symptoms" last month and I'm having the exact same things this month so I know I'm out.

On a positive note, I do want to keep trying to lose weight so I now have another month of being able to do that without worrying.

@kirinm great attitude! I need to lose weight too but find it really hard during lockdown. Have started jogging twice a week but I think I eat too late and prob the wrong foods at night...pasta/rice etc. I've lost weight before so know what to do, just hard keeping the motivation!!

I feel a bit deflated now tbh. I've ordered a basal body temp to start temping next month. I'm really not sure when I'm ovulating. Definitely having period cramps now too.

@kirinm I would recommend ovulation tests as well as tempting as sticks tell your when you're about to ovulate and temp tells you once you have. You want to be having sex before you ovulate and on the day really. Have you got the Flo app? That's pretty accurate with calculating your cycle if you put in the correct information re cycle length and days on etc. Give that a try too if you don't already.

I have ovulation tests which I will also try and take. I've only got the cheap ones but don't really want to fork out for more expensive ones at the moment if possible.

I might upload an app. My cycles have been a bit shorter since I had my DD - she's nearly 2 and I'm getting old(er) so am worried that I'm either not ovulating or not ovulating regularly.

Hi ladies! Can I join this thread? I did a pregnancy test 2 days ago and it was a very very faint line. So did another one the following day (yesterday) using first morning urine and had a very faint line again. Today I tested again and there was no line. It wasn't the first of the day this time though. Any ideas what's going on? I'm going out of my mind! I'm about 10 days late at this point and a due date calculator puts me at 5 weeks pregnant (if I am!) Thanks for any help xx

@kirinm how old are you if you don't mind me asking? I definitely recommend Flo for an app especially if your cycle length has changed cos you could ovulate earlier now.
@Idealharpy sorry I can't help, I've never had even a faint line before. Hopefully the others on here can though!

Hi everyone how you all doing ? Haven't been active really been sorting our house out and trying to take my mind off it. I had really strong AF pains and now they've suddenly disappeared and AF due tomorrow!

@notyetamumbuttrying @kirinm I also recommend FLO as an app ☺️

@Idealharpy which test did you use ? I've previously had False positives on FRER and other pink dye tests. You could also have had a false negative! When will you test again?

@Superstar41 it was a generic pink dye one! Hopefully it's a false negative as I had 2 positives! I'll probably wait a couple more days until I test again now. I have all the pregnancy symptoms so fingers crossed! Also fingers crossed there's no AF for you tomorrow 😘

@Idealharpy they say you're more likely to take a false negative than a false positive 🤩 x ah thanks lovely I hope she stays well away lol x

I didn't get my BFP until 19 DPO, sadly recently ended in a chemical but don't loose faith. I had a complete negative on internet cheapies for 5 days running until I finally got a FRER and a clearblue digital and it came up straight away

@notyet I'm 42. Old!

13dpo today and still a BFN on an FRER
AF due tomorrow so surely if it was positive a faint line would have appeared by now
No AF pain which is confusing me xx

Morning guys ! @Louisac93 not necessarily, it might take a while for your hormones to increase enough!

No AF this morning let's hope she doesn't turn up today! Had a dream last night I got a positive result on a test, didn't want to wake up!!

@Superstar41 I’m really not out??? I keep reading everyone getting bfp 11dpo etc so thinking if no show today I’m out x