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BFN 12po :(

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Superstar41 · 14/05/2020 15:58

BFN 12dpo , not even a hint of a line feel so distraught anyone else had the same this month?

BFN 12po :(
BFN 12po :(
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Superstar41 · 14/05/2020 19:36

@slicedinhalf 100% I think I'm the same letting my mind get obsessed with the idea x let me know Monday xx

@notyetamumbuttrying my cramps have been very intense this month too that's one of the reasons I'm so confused !! Also been struggling to go to the toilet !! Defo let me know Monday xx

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slicedinhalf · 14/05/2020 20:54

Yes, I will let you know either way! Grin

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 08:17

@slicedinhalf @Superstar41 so last night before bed when I wiped I had brown cm which is unusual for me three days before af. I don't think I'm coming on early either cos that would mean a cycle less than 24 days which has never ever happened to me. So I'm now wondering/hoping that it could have been implantation!! Have one more FRER so will do that tomorrow morning at 14dpo as I should have another hcg by then to detect if it really was implantation. Eek! Feel like I'm clutching at straws but I want this so much!

BMWL · 15/05/2020 08:23

I tested today, currently 12dpo and it was bfn.AF was due 2 days ago and I feel cramps but I've had cramps for the past week.
I think I ovulated late as I had a positive OPK on the 3rd.
It's rubbish isn't it :(
Xx

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 08:43

@notyetamumbuttrying it very well might be! Fingers crossed for you! 😭 Xx

@BMWL I ovulated on that day too but I'm not even gonna bother testing today to avoid disappointment Sad any other sign of AF?

BMWL · 15/05/2020 08:46

@slicedinhalf no other sign at all apart from last night I had really bad hot flashes which I never have. I gave in and did a test and was still bfn.
Really don't know what's going on. I feel crampy/sore boobs and tired but no AF and no bfp
X

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 09:38

@BMWL I'm exactly the same, I just started to feel my boobs getting sore this morning
Hmm I still refuse to take a test until Monday though because it would only be a bfn knowing my luck :( xx

Superstar41 · 15/05/2020 09:55

Woke up this morning with a headache yet again and feeling sick! Forced myself to eat some egg and toast for breakfast and half hour later feel like I'm going to be sick . The smell of the food I just ate is making me feel rough the only thing that helps it is Pepsi max @ 10am ew ..

If I'm not pregnant I'm slightly concerned what's wrong with me !

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Superstar41 · 15/05/2020 09:56

@notyetamumbuttrying ahhh so exciting I hope so for you xx let us know x

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notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 10:04

@Superstar41 thank you so much! Feel like I'm getting carried away considering my bfn but that would make sense if I hadn't quite implanted then. Have you been pregnant before and know the signs?

kell2126 · 15/05/2020 10:05

BFN here on 13dpo with a FRER. Not looking good for this cycle :(

Superstar41 · 15/05/2020 10:08

@notyetamumbuttrying yeah would definitely make sense! I was pregnant 3 years ago but lost it at 8 weeks, I felt like how I'm feeling now @ 6 weeks ! We hadn't tried since until now as I wanted to "try" and get over it so focused on my career! I was only 19 when pregnant before

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notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 10:17

@Superstar41 best of luck for this time round then!! Keep us posted Smile

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 10:29

@kell2126 I'm not sure how the early tests work but how soon after implantation would the FRER be able to detect pregnancy? Xx

@Superstar41 definitely sounds promising 🤞 xx

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 10:30

@slicedinhalf 48 hours after implantation for the early tests hun, will you try one?

Rome20 · 15/05/2020 10:51

Hi hope it's ok if I join?

Same sex couple TTC,
Were on 10DPO at the moment with alot of body changes ect. Tried clear blue EARLY as AF due in 4 days but negative.
Is anyone else having all symptoms?
My partner is very worn out and fatigued when usually on the go 24/7.

Swest30 · 15/05/2020 12:19

Hi all, do you mind if I join too? Had BFN at 13dpo with FRER after first time of TTC after missed miscarriage in February. Looking at the one line is a lonely place when you can’t tell anyone, so it’s reassuring to know I’m not alone

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 12:22

@notyetamumbuttrying I could try one, I do struggle to find them in the shops though and can't find any online that would get here same day. I'm so impatient 

@Swest30 @Rome20 welcome both, how are you? X

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 12:30

@slicedinhalf try amazon, you can do prime and get it next day!
Welcome to the newbies!

slicedinhalf · 15/05/2020 13:28

Oh dear, I've just gave in(shock!!). Are my eyes playing tricks or can anyone see a hint of a faint line here? Sad my last one as well, looks like I'll be making a trip to Tesco's Grin

BFN 12po :(
Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 13:32

It makes it so much easier knowing you’re not the only one who can’t think of anything else. I have two DDs aged 10 and 12. With first I had come off depo 6 months and no AF at all and didn’t know until 10wks, the second I was on the pill so she was a complete surprise for us 🙂 I’m that much older now and only recently started actually TTC but not been ‘caught’ for over two years so have no idea if it will happen for us...

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 13:33

@slicedinhalf I can't, sorry. If they're not early detection ones then they most likely wouldn't show up anyway. And also you should do it in the morning. Wait another day and do it again tomorrow morning with an early detection test. Good luck!

notyetamumbuttrying · 15/05/2020 13:35

@Bumblebei hi! Do you mind me asking your age? And do you track ovulation?

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 13:37

@slicedinhalf I can’t see anything but can only zoom on the post so I’d definitely be making your way to Tesco if you can see a faint line 😁 fingers crossed!

Bumblebei · 15/05/2020 13:39

@notyetamumbuttrying hey, I am 32 now and don’t track ovulation. I’ve not been on contraception for 2 years and get painful ovulation pains each month so I tend to go on that which is probably inaccurate 🙈

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