Testing 2nd Week December

[Beau2019]

Hi girls! I know we wanted to start a thread for the ones who didn't get their BFP this month.

@Skyla01 @Mrsrobinson247 @SarahMS I know you wanted to join.

Anyone else welcome to join us on our conception journey and looking to test around 2nd week in December.

TTC #1 (2nd pregnancy)
Cycle #2
AF due around 9th September

This is my 1st month using OPKs - anyone got any advice on when to start testing?

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I think I'm out! Just did a CB early indicator as I'm due Thursday and nothing 😩
Hope there are a few more BFPs to come for people this month xx

Thanks @Quiffy

I tested last night, BFN. I knew it was too early though. Sore heavy boobs and very emotional. Daily nausea but not extreme. I could well be making all this up in my head... AF due on Saturday so we'll see!

Morning all x how are we?
Well no bleeding overnight for me at all, I didn’t use a pad or tampon. Pink on wiping this morning but seems darker than yesterday, I’m at work today so using tampon atm. No cramps etc. I can swear I see a shadow on my IC this morning but it’s probably nothing so I logged today as first day of my af with light flow. So disappointed it’s hard to describe. I’ve got FRER arriving today, so I’ll monitor and test tomorrow if it doesn’t get any heavier. Hope you’re all ok x

@Katie1109 sending you lots of luck... it could still happen!

I've half convinced myself it's going to be a BFN. Not tested yet, too much of a wuss to see another negative.

At 12 dpo you're still in the implantation window. The positive ic makes me think this could be what it is. I've still got everything crossed for you!

Thanks ladies x I am treating it as af arrived early. I’m 13DPO today so doubt this is an IB. I’ll keep an eye on it just in case but as far as I’m concerned it’s af. Again.

Update: took tampon out after almost 3 hours. Not filled at all, mostly brown discharge with pink streaks and one(sorry tmi!!) about 2cm stringy clot/tissue like thing. I don’t normally pass clots on af, but I think it’s just one of those things x af cramps are now back so, off to cycle number 7 😭 I’m feeling so down and angry I’ve got tears in my eyes. Work today will be a nightmare 😭

@katie1109 Gutted for you, it's the absolute worst. Try and get yourself through work and treat yourself after x

@BntTowers BFNs are the worst. I'm going to try and hold out for AF date next cycle. Although I said that last time... We're all here for you when you test!

@Daisy8008 How many DPO are you?

@Wise0wl waiting a few days is a great idea!

@Sunflower2019 How you feeling?

How's everyone else this morning?

I had my weep and furious disappointment. Trying to be more positive today. At least AF is heavier today. I was worried that it was going to be the same spotting AF as before which worried me. At least next cycle I'll know all the nausea and boob pain is in my head.

I've worked out that if my OV is around the same CD as last, I should be able to get all our DTD'ing before we leave for my parents for Christmas so that is one big positive. And I'm going to have a cocktail and a rare steak on our special pre-crimbo date night.

I went a little mad ordering supplements last night and now there's a storm so my DH is working from home. He's going to murder me hehe.

Am I seeing things? I've had 2 hours sleep so I dont know how to read this. I might be hallucinating. I dont know when or if I ovulated but I had a little pink when I wiped over the space of an hour on Fri night. I'm seeing things arent I?

@sabinaj78 That's a very clear line. Congrats!

Congrats hun x x that’s a line x x

@Katie1109 @Quiffy sorry and hugs to you both 🙁 I think you NEED to feel upset and angry at first because we’re human and it’s the shittiest thing ever getting your hopes up every month. Xxx

@Sabinaj78 that is definitely a line!!! X

@Sabinaj78 congrats!!!

@mumofboys17 @quiffy @Katie1109 I hear you! Every month its really hard to deal with when this happens it never gets easier! I don't really understand how people can say "don't stress" and "it will happen when it will happen" but when it's your body you're constantly in limbo of what's going on! Most people find that very hard to deal with and I am one of them. I've been obsessing for the past day googling loads because this is the first month I've felt pregnant since first starting when I convinced myself I was preggo the first month lol. I don't even feel THAT pregnant but my belly feels weird so I'm totally clutching at straws here hoping and praying 😓

@Sunflower2019 hey girl how are you doing? Xx

Hi all! Please can I join you? Have been following from afar ... not entirely sure of all the lingo 😂 but we are on our first try and AF due on 17th. Was going to wait until then to see what happens!

@Mumofboys17 Agreed! You do need a little upset time. How are you feeling today?

@Ellsbells112 Exactly, it's the limbo. That two weeks of hopefulness that lets you wish. I'd much prefer a little call from my ovaries at like 2PO to say "yes, we liked one of those swimmers" or "sorry, it's not happening". Then you could just get on with your lives until next OV. Are you going to wait to test?

@em4815 Welcome! Fingers crossed for you :)

@quiffy haha yes to that idea! I will wait I'm only 8dpo today. I'm also quite constipated when the last 3 months after ovulation I've had (sorry tmi) diarrhoea! And when I check my cervix though its low and medium soft I have tons of creamy cm (sorry again tmi lol) when during this time I normally get watery cm with bits of white in it. Sorry urgh!! Still feeling quite light, low down cramping so I'm like... Could it be?! But also telling myself that my body can play tricks on me with new symptoms.

@ellsbells112 they sound like really promising symptoms! Ahhhh. Everything crossed for you over the next few days - hopefully not tricks.

@Quiffy ummm... I’m feeling full of false hope and floating around in limbo for yet another week yet 😬 still feeling pinchy and light crampy on and off.. did a one strip test with (very concentrated apple juice looking) FMU this morning and bfn. Approx 11dpo today so still early really but thinking it’s a miss again this month. Will be investing in clear blue digital OPK’s next month as I’m not sure I caught the FW peak properly! Doesn’t help DS1 has been so poorly so me and DH are getting hardly any sleep or alone time 😩 got some FRER’s coming either today or Thursday, I’ll try those on Friday AM and if BFN I’m writing it off and just getting on with Xmas 🤷🏼‍♀️

On a positive note I’m loving seeing the BFP’s starting to pop up on here ❤️ Would be nice if I could join the club haha but genuinely happy for everyone that’s shared so far xxx

@quiffy thanks!! I hope so ❤️ when is your fertile period?

@mumofboys17 Ahhh fingers crossed for you!! Some people don't get bfps till af is late but I also know what its like to get your hopes up. Fingers crossed, when is af due!? Xx

I'm a bit scared that tomorrow there will be nothing there as it is such a faint line.
I keep wondering if I just left the pee soaking for too long.
Had some horrific news last night so this feels like such mixed emotions.

I've been an emotional wreck this past week

@Ellsbells112 well, I think AF is due next week on the 19th if I’m going by my usual 35 day cycle. I’m just convinced I’m out as I found out around 8/9dpo with DS1 and had implantation bleeding, trying to keep an open mind but also steel myself for the bfn 😂😬

@Sabinaj78 hope you’re ok? That line was as pinky as pink can be!! Give it 48hrs (if you can) then try a FRER, I’d be very surprised if you don’t get a BFP xx

@mumofboys17 hmm each pregnancy differs though right! You may have implanted later, also, usually you only bleed the first pregnancy they say (it happened to me) x

@Ellsbells112 did you have implantation bleeding in a previous pregnancy? Sorry if I’m not keeping with all the info here (VERY sleep deprived today 😩) I cant remember who’s going for DC 1,2 or 3 anymore!! 🤦🏼‍♀️ X