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Testing 2nd Week December

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Beau2019 · 15/11/2019 20:00

Hi girls! I know we wanted to start a thread for the ones who didn't get their BFP this month.

@Skyla01 @Mrsrobinson247 @SarahMS I know you wanted to join.

Anyone else welcome to join us on our conception journey and looking to test around 2nd week in December.

TTC #1 (2nd pregnancy)
Cycle #2
AF due around 9th September

This is my 1st month using OPKs - anyone got any advice on when to start testing?

💕

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Sunflower2019 · 08/12/2019 17:27

Hey everyone, I think I’m going to reside that it didn’t stick unfortunately.. I’ve done another test and can’t really see anything! The test I done yesterday was pink so it couldn’t be an evap, I’m only 8dpo today! Gutting but nothing I can do, boobs still sore and a little crampy has a lot of cm today too but the test is saying no so no clue what’s happened xx

Ange211 · 08/12/2019 17:40

Aw I'm so sorry it's been dissapointing for you today but don't give up hope. I'd wait and do a fmu test for a more accurate result. Fingers crossed for you I know exactly how you feel X

Quiffy · 08/12/2019 17:50

Sorry @Sunflower2019 :( are you going to try tomorrow with fmu?

Mrslane2019 · 08/12/2019 17:56

so as the day gone on my bleeding got heavy so mark as af on my apps 24 days 5/6 early never really had it that early is it normal ?
but on well going to start to enjoy xmas now and hope 2020 bring us better luck

keep my 🤞🏻for you guys

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Symptomspotter86 · 08/12/2019 19:36

Still have af type cramps but no sign of the witch...

Symptomspotter86 · 08/12/2019 19:40

@Sunflower2019 I'm so sorry to hear that. Like the other ladies said try tomorrow on fmu as it is still really early on for you

Ktn35 · 08/12/2019 20:20

Hi 😊 I'm new! Can I join? Period due on Thursday and I have loads of unusually watery discharge (could this be a thing in early pregnancy?) This will be (hopefully) my second child but I have no memory of what the beginning felt like last time 😩 Took a clear blue this evening but BFN ... Don't know why I did but I guess they are very sensitive so it will be another month of trying for us probably ! Xxxxx

Mumofboys17 · 08/12/2019 20:27

@Symptomspotter86 same here! Much more intense today, not painful but getting to the point where I reckon AF might actually come early 😩 apps say I’m due on 19th but I ovulated a few days early this month, not sure that makes a difference?! So frustrating. I did cave and do a cheapy IC test, unsurprisingly bfn 🙄😂😂 think I’m about 8dpo today but deffo feeling like I’m out 👎🏻

Mumofboys17 · 08/12/2019 20:28

Hi @Ktn35! Welcome to possibly one of the maddest (but best) TTC threads on mumsnet 😂

Symptomspotter86 · 08/12/2019 20:36

@mumofboys17 totally feel your pain. I'm 9dpo and wondering why I have stupid af pains when it isnt due till friday. I may only be 8dpo though as not sure when I ovulated as just going by static smiley face. Just want to know now either way and to be able to move on.

NatLou92 · 08/12/2019 20:56

My AF is due 12/12 and I feel PMSy so just waiting for open season on the baileys and hot chocolate now. 👍 Wishing luck to you all. xx

ohreally2019 · 09/12/2019 06:53

Morning ladies, it's been a while since I've posted an update but wanted to share my BFP this month. We had a chemical last month so I've been on AF watch but so far it's staying away! I'm 13 dpo today, but shorter cycles so was due AF last Friday or so. Tested Friday and got a faint BFP, no bleeding at the weekend and tested this morning to a nice strong line. Really can't believe it! We're on cycle 6 ttc, on proceive vitamins, did smep (not to the letter), used for Conceive plus and took a Brazil but every day! Don't know what worked but it did 🤞🏻 Baby dust to all x

Testing 2nd Week December
ohreally2019 · 09/12/2019 06:54
  • a Brazil NUT 🤣
Katie1109 · 09/12/2019 07:08

Morning ladies how are we?
@Sunflower2019 how are you feeling hun? Are you going to test again? x virtual hugs to you 💐
@Quiffy how are you? Are you testing today?
Well I’m 12DPO, did an IC but it’s stark white, it’s meant to have sensitivity at 25 so I think I’m definitely out, it should have shown something by now 😭 boobs still hurting but not as much as they normally do day or 2 before af x my apps are showing af either tomorrow or Wednesday x ehh just waiting for it to arrive now and feeling down 😭

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Mumofboys17 · 09/12/2019 07:45

@ohreally2019 Hoorayyyy!! ❤️ Big, big congrats to you! How are you feeling?! X

@Katie1109 my IC’s are stark white too, you’re not alone!! Xxx My Ovia app says I can test in 3 day’s, got some FRERs coming by then so will probably test at the end of the week, however technically AF isn’t due for me until next week so could still be too early for me. Approx 9dpo today. Easier said than done but try and stay positive, be kind to yourself x

Katie1109 · 09/12/2019 07:51

@Mumofboys17 my Ovia says I can test from today...so I think I’m out. I’ve got some FRER arriving tomorrow, so I’ll save my FMU and do it when they arrive although my hope is non existent now and I know it’s just waiting for af now 😭

Beku94 · 09/12/2019 07:51

Morning ladies, and congratulations on bfp's!! Did a frer with fmu today and bfn so I think I'm out, according to app due on Friday so will wait until af sings then back on the bd for new year! Xxx

Sunflower2019 · 09/12/2019 08:08

Hey everyone,

Congrats @ohreally2019 💞

So I done another test and still can’t see anything, it’s so confusing as I keep looking at the positive test and the line is still there, wondering how 12 hours later it’s gone and since nothing! I just have to accept that it was either an evap on frer or chemical.. I just didn’t think evaps were pink and come up in time frame!

9DPO today, will enjoy Xmas and hope that the new year will bring me a BFP! Xx

SarahMS · 09/12/2019 08:37

Morning guys

@Sunflower2019 don't lose hope until AF shows!!

I'm 9/10dpo today I did a test yesterday and BFN. Haven't got any symptoms but slightly sore boobs which is normal for me before AF. So I think I'm out 😔. Seriously think I'm never going to get a BFP 😢

Sunflower2019 · 09/12/2019 08:41

@SarahMS it’s too much of strange coincidence, I’m thinking it implanted then didn’t stick or something, that’s why I feel I’m out, I’ve put a post up to see if anyone has had anything similar happen but it’s just bad luck probably!

You’re definitely still in until af shows, symptoms or no symptoms could mean anything 😊

I feel like that too, am I ever going to get a positive test or at least one that stays! So disheartened xxx

Katie1109 · 09/12/2019 08:43

@Sunflower2019 don’t give up just yet x you’re only 9DPO, implantation might happen up to 12DPO x I thought I’ll do an opk and apps are showing it as High...

Katie1109 · 09/12/2019 08:43

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burntpinky · 09/12/2019 08:45

@Sunflower2019 I really hope the line is back in a few days x

This whole TTC thing sucks. I know I can’t really justify my upset as this is only 2nd month TTC and this month we only did it twice in FW as my app told me I was going to ovulate later and so was caught out by OPK but I’m just desperate for another child. Was up at 2am as couldn’t sleep and was reading an article by Kate Garraway which could’ve been written by me. I’m just so bloody annoyed I wasted so much time on stupid blokes (one who was my fiancé had an affair with someone else after 4.5 years together and left me 6 months before wedding - glad now as he was an arsehole and would’ve been an awful father but he was chasing another woman 1 year in and I should’ve left then!) and only met my OH when was 36. If I’d met him earlier then we might have 2 or 3 now. I know I shouldn’t think like that but when stupid AF shows up (day 22 of cycle this bloody time), it just sends me into a right tail spin

Mumofboys17 · 09/12/2019 08:46

@Katie1109 that’s interesting.... silly question alert but do you normally have longer cycles? I do, and I have actually had two LH surges in one cycle. I’ve read that sometimes if you have a surge but don’t ovulate your body sometimes gives it another go.
I do also get strong OPK’s before AF is due... so it could go either way! IMO I’d keep DTD until AF shows 🤞🏻 Xxx

Katie1109 · 09/12/2019 08:57

@Mumofboys17 my cycles are bang on 28-29 days every month x I’m on CD27 today, 12DPO x I haven’t done opks at this stage before so don’t know what they are normally x

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