TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

[Romeolovesjuliet]

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks

Can you get a taxi paws? You should try to take things easy.

And I second that kick up the arse for your husband.

With my miscarriage MrVan wasn't great. He wasn't that invested in the pregnancy that early, didn't understand the hormonal impact, and was stressed about a job interview. It really sucks not to have the immediate support you need.

Thanks guys, he said he's coming with me in a taxi, not looking forward to hearing what the doctor says. Thank you all for your support x

Paws fingers crossed for you!

carrot sorry about your Mr.van....it does suck doesn't it. Mr.paws does get invested and askes how his baby's doing and kisses my non-existent bump etc etc, but its when things go bad he's not so great, hides his emotions with anger, never crys.... That's what a decade in the army does to you I spose....he usually gives me what I need in the end....after some shouting on my part and some self-reflection on his x

Thanks Megan x

Oh paws, how worrying. I have everything crossed for you. I hope Mr paws steps up and gives you the support you need.

FX paws - I hope the doctor is supportive. You should be able to get the EPU to do some blood tests over the next few days and maybe an internal scan.

On a different note - this thread is at 930+ posts and will stop accepting posts at 1000. Does anyone want to start a new one? I wouldn't want anyone to be without their safe place - especially paws and mama who are having very difficult times

Happy to start it but wasn't sure what the protocol was for long-standing threads

It is quite slow moving so I'm sure it will take a week or so to fill but yes I would appreciate keeping it going if everyone else agrees.

paws let us know how you get on, thinking of you. Glad dh is going with you x

Glad you've got some immediate support from DH, paws. Thinking of you and mama today

Thanks ladies, doc couldn't really say much, although she didn't seem too concerned which is a good thing...she didn't seem alarmed by the tiny clots...simply said all women and pregnancies are different and not to worry. I have an early scan at EPU next Thursday when I will be 5&4 ... Next 8 days are gonna draaag! My dh has lost fluid in spine which causes pain, and he uses a crutch to walk sometimes...he started to get angry when I couldn't carry the basket round Asda after the doctors...it had 4 liters in it! I felt like I was gonna pass out...am I being selfish feeling like he doesn't care?? I don't think he understands the toll all this has on my body...he makes me feel like I'm putting all this on for show! Should I be more understanding of the pain he has in his back (he complains everyday) he has meds but hardly takes them.

He needs to take responsibility for his own reasonable adjustments which might include getting a trolley rather than expecting you to carry stuff at the moment and taking his drugs. He IBU

Fingers crossed for you paws.

paws I know someone who bled loads with a pregnancy immediately following a chemical and is now 17 weeks. Fx for you too lovely. He needs to take his mess and be there to support you, ex army or not he needs to be there for you.

mama how are you? I hope you're tucked up with ice cream and vein. Well looked after.

*meds

Thank you, mummy. Just caught up with your story. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Hugs and and much solidarity to you x

I'm doing OK. Feeling flat but that's to be expected. DH is taking good care of me. We might try again one more time.

It's kind of you to think of me.

You poor thing mama glad you're already thinking of trying again xx

mama good to hear your keeping positive and that you have support at home...stay strong xxx

carrot a new thread would be lovely x
mummy that's good to know, hopefully I'll have the same luck x

It would be nice to have a new thread, thank you carrot. Hoping everyone has an ok day today xx

Morning everyone. paws are you able to arrange things to do to keep you occupied (I know.. you'll still be worrying but try to push those thoughts away every time they appear -easy for me to say I know), I'll keep my fingers crossed for you
Cd14 here dtd last night - not that my opk showed a smiley or anything but got loads of ewcm so thought we might as well
carrot new thread would be lovely

I'll wait until this one is close to closing and then start a new thread

Glad you're being looked after mama

How are you doing today paws?

I am stuffed to the gills with symptoms. FF thinks I should be due today (I think Friday). BFN. I'm sat on the train wanting to throw up...

carrot fx for you! mummy I'm using the clear blue digital ov test, impatiently waiting for the smiley face, the clear circles are so boring....

CarrotV I hope this is it for you! (Not just becuae it will make it easier with both Carrot being pregnant ) I hope AF stays away for you.

We DTD alst night too sakura but then forgot to pee on my CB opk this morning due to a stroppy DS! I am at work now and googled when to use it if you miss FMU and it says asap afterwards so should have brought it to work but didn't it will have to wait til tonight.