Hello all
Gum interesting what your sister says. I believe unexpected pregnancies in the over-40s is quite high. I have also read that some women might conceive once peri-menopausal as fluctuating hormones create a viability that didn’t exist before. A male friend rather charmingly, to cheer me up after failed IVF round 2, advised that he would take precautions with a 40 something woman, but not one in her 50s!!
I put out most of my supps in a pill box for the week and have reminders on my phone (which I then ignore.
) Do you think the isoflavones have done anything?
Welcome Phenomum Sorry to hear about your MC. But it does show that you can get pregnant. As far as the lump goes, I can’t advise anything other than bite the bullet and get it checked out by your GP asap. Chances are it’s nothing to worry about though.
Don’t panic about TTC, as 42 is still pretty young. Getting on for 45+ like me and it’s more difficult, but not impossible.
I read Marilyn Glanville’s ‘Getting Pregnant Faster’. I found this thread: www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=226042.0 and am sure it helped conceive DS. Just read the OP, I don’t think there is much else to be gained from the rest of it. You’ll probably find the number of times she mentions preventing MC reassuring. I guess at about five years old it’s getting a bit out of date, but I haven’t had time to find more recent threads as detailed. I’ve been advised that Maca would also be good to take and I’ve just had a go with Soy Isoflavones this cycle. I had mixed feelings about DHEA, as AngelBump was anti it, but I see it’s prescribed by The Lister now, so I may reconsider if the current load I’m taking doesn’t work in a few months.
Are you up on when you ovulate? And what about your DP/DH? Is he doing all the right things too, because it’s not just down to us fabulous ladies. The gents have some input too!
Can’t think of any more useful tips, but hope AF shows up soon and you can start TTC again. Hope you’ll stick with us!
Chewy were you showered with gifts, sent to a beauty salon for several hours, waited on hand and foot all day in the end….??!! I received a lovely home made card. I took DS to the beach for a quick visit in the morning, so was rewarded with a nap (getting rare now!!), and, just this once, felt it ok to ask DH to sit in the car with him in the driveway until he woke, while I had lunch! Took DM for a cream tea and we forced a glass of bubbly down, so all in all was a v nice day, but I did organise a lot of it myself. How was your duvet day?
Did you have a look at that thread on SI, Chewy? It was quite instructive at the start. I took mine on days 4-8, but I guess my cycle is diff to yours.
Ha haaaaa. I think you’re not alone having a crush on GM! There was lots of breathless giggling about him! I wonder how his wife (who was there) deals with it?!
Grizzer it’s perfectly normal to sob all the way through OBEM! I have only just been able to start watching it again and get very emotional when I do. Good idea to ditch the caffeine and wine. Does decaff do it for you? I got delish decaff from a posh independent coffee shop and found that hit the spot beautifully in the mornings. I allow myself one miniscule half teaspoon of instant caffeinated coffee a day when I really need a boost, but had to wean myself off lots of strong coffee first. I wish I could make myself drink decaff green tea, but just can’t do it. Got pills instead!! What about Soy? DHEA?
The party was a one-off until their 20/21st, and I just got v lucky, but there are meet ups at Xmas time for the truly committed.
JassS I really hope the spotting is not what you expect.
Keeping my fingers crossed. I hope you are managing to relax a bit where you are anyway. Sounds idyllic. Hope the skiing prescription works! 
Cloud sounds like you had a good holiday. Well done for getting a ‘good’ from FF!! Have a gold star too!!
Well, the SMEP aims to have the sperm waiting for the egg, so it sounds like DTD the day before was just as well times as on the day. As for your naughty DH….. well, you can get him to come and join us and make his case for drinking!!
fridge sorry about the BFN. 
The SI, as far as I know, completely did my head in. I really couldn’t think straight. I found the last post I did a real struggle. But, have had the 48 hour smile face from CB OPK today, which is a day earlier than last month, which I guess can only be a good thing.
I was getting more Agnus Castus on Fri in Neal’s Yard, and was recommended this: www.nealsyardremedies.com/remedies/herbal-remedies/herbal-tinctures/8234.html#tab1 The assistant hinted that a night of long-lasting and ardent passion would follow if we both had some in a nice hot chocolate. Naturally I was happy to down the lot, however, DH wouldn’t take the full dose, pretty much spat it out and ‘arrived’ even earlier than normal…. So don’t know if we will bother with that again!! DH has been complaining as I’ve made up his pill box for the week. I suspected he wasn’t taking he supps…. I’ve got some IC HPTs which will work, apparently, 6 days before AF due. I am going to be using these to encourage less of the slacking off that occurs WRT DH once he’s ‘done his duty’
for the month,
Better go, need to sign off before falling asleep so can DTD and make the most of that smiley face. Happy shagging all.