Bring on New Year Bfp's, it's Just Shagging thread 13!

[DingDongBelle]

Couldn't stand a Fred with only a couple of posts left so I filled it up!

Here is the 13th installation of the Just Shagging saga. If you're a bit lazy relaxed in your approach to getting upduffed, come over here for a natter!

Fred rules;

1. Thou shalt shag as much as humanly possible in order to get upduffed.
2. Thou shalt not partake of OPKs, temping, or charting.
3. Thou shalt keep symptom spotting to a minimum.
4. Thou shalt share and with your fredmates where needed.

JSing lingo;

ERTD = Evil Red Tide of Dooooooommmmmmm. Or AF to most others.

Pant snot = Egg white cervical mucus.

Doing a kitten = Getting upduffed soon after joining (warning: may induce in other posters).

Viroid = This is you, dear poster. This is from the first JS thread when someone tried to type 'ladies' and it autocorrected to 'Viroids' - so there you go!

POAS = Pee On A Stick (of the pregnancy detecting kind, not from a tree). Also known as PIAR (Pee In A Ramekin - cos we're posh birds innit). Or PIATLH (Tea light holder) PIAWG (Wine glass) or anything else you care to pee in!

Shagging like something = JSing like a teenage nymphomaniac.

Giving a hooya = Giving a much needed slap to a fellow poster in danger of slipping into ttc obsession.

Contraband = Of COURSE none of us EVER partake of any silly opk's or temp charting. They are Contraband

The link to Part 12 is HERE

The link to the latest grads thread is HERE

Happy shagging shaggers

Oh I'm sorry for you Cookie.

Ooo - let's hope so 34Pink. Good luck!

Sorry to hear that cookie had fx for you and everything. Next time, next time.
Fx for 34Pink
Hello to silv

Having a pants day - still only CD19, but have been farting like a trooper for three days, bad heartburn and burps, and had weird crampy/spiky pains the last 24 hours or so. Trying desperately not to read too much into it, but obviously not succeeding much, and MrHumpty has been told today that he might get made redundant. I want to go back to bed.

Humpty - sorry for your bad day. What a lot to handle! Take care of yourself this pm and have a little of what you fancy to cheer you up a bit.

Hey everyone, incase you don't read the feb bus, despite getting what I thought was a 5 day period on the 13th of jan I got a BFP today. So if you think you're period seems light don't assume it's a period

bearface thank you, I shall do just that.

for cracker wonderful news! Congratulations! Bet you're thrilled!

Oh Cookie I'm sorry about ERTD have some and soft cheeses and all the things you won't be able to have when it's your month! How long was your cycle this month? I suppose it could have been delayed by the stress of the car accident?

Fx 34 when are you going to test?

Let us know how the scan goes Hooya how many weeks are you now?

Hello all!

Congrats Cracker

Good luck 34

Sorry Cookie fx for the next one, get that shag cape ready!

And sorry Humpty for your rubbish day, lots of treats in order!

Here there is defo a baby, with a heartbeat and everything was amazing to see it then terrifying when we realised we may have created an ACTUAL PERSON in there and OMG WE'LL HAVE TO LOOK AFTER IT etc etc

Still going to hang around a bit but I might say a proper hello on the grads thread...

Rock I am 6 and a half weeks. Still a way to go before all the mc worries are gone, but getting a heartbeat was a big terrifying boost

B F P!!!!!!! Me!!!!!

YAY 34! Amazing news, congratulations!!!

Big Fat whoop whoop whoop for pink lady and cracker!

And how lovely but I agree terrifying Hooya!

Congrats 34!!
Hooya, I'm 5 1/2 weeks and wondering about an early scan, did you do it privately? I'm worried it won't show anything or I won't hear anything.

34 whoopeee yay for loads of newbies like me on the grads thread!

Frog I don't live in the UK and have private cover which appears to be scan-tastic (arf). If I were in the UK and not covered I would probably get a private scan, but not until after 6 or 7 weeks when you should see a heartbeat. Before that it's just a sac and no clue what's in there - and seeing a hb even this early means much reduced risk of mc. Hope that helps!

Thanks hooya, I would wait til 7 weeks ish anyway. I spend most days worrying which I know isn't helping!

Hi ladies, may I join you? I have been following the thread for a while and have to say you are all lovely! My story: just turned 35, TTC for #2, had a MMC in September, ERPC and have been trying again since early November - so 3 months now and ERTD got me last night. I am sooooo disappointed, I was actually quite hopeful these past couple of weeks, thought I had several pregnancy symptoms but obviously I was wrong (unless that was a chemical pregnancy). So Cookie, I totally sympathise! I have been pregnant 3 times (MMC, DD who is nearly 2yrs old, MMC i.e. the one mentioned above) and all these 3 times it happened pretty much straight away. So getting quite worried now that it is taking so long?.well, I know 3 months isn?t that long but given how quickly it?s happened before, I can?t help wondering what?s going on! Btw, I'm also surrounded by bumps and new babies and it's like a knife through my heart every single time!

Oh and congratz Hooya and 34 on your good news!

Just delurking to say HUGE congrats to 34 and cracker. This fred is doing pretty well in terms of the BFPs

I'm 13 + 3 now, but still feeling bleurgh. being ridiculously busy with work isn't helping Good news on your scan hooya and hope to see more of you on the grads fred

Hi to pentagon - this is a really lovely fred, so hope you get lots of support and the babydust that seems to be in the air gives you a BFP soon.

Right, I am off for a mid-morning vomit before tackling the review of a really long agreement. Rock on July and a temporary escape from the office!

Thank you for the warm welcome waves and congratulations on passing the 12-week milestone! Now you can truly enjoy your pregnancy - especially once the sickness abates! (if I remember well, it was 16 weeks for me when pregnant with DD....ah, I hope I get to experience this again - I loved every minute after the 12-week scan!)

Congratulations cracker....and massive congrats to a fellow long-termer 34!

Hooya, so glad this is your time....and waves, can't believe how pg you are now!
11+5wks here & my hands/feet are as swollen as they were at 38wks with DS! No rings or tight shoes for me.

humpty, sorry for your crap day & worries. I hope Mr.Humpty doesn't lose his job & the stress is over soon. x

Welcome pentagon, this is a lovely place to rant & nothing is tmi!

thanks Gary and congratulations on your pregnancy! Congratz to cracker too - sorry, forgot to say so earlier! (so much to catch up with!)

So someone slap me... I'm 3 days late, i did 2 internet cheapy tests with first wee this morning. Both were immeadiate dark BFP's. ....so why am I doubting them!!?? I haven't told H2B yet as he'd alredy gone to work. Should I do another one tonight before telling him, just to make sure? Should i buy a shop one?

Thanks all by the way!

for 34....welcome to the nine months of doubt & wtf is my body doing
If you really want to be sure, buy a clearblue digital...it'll say pregnant/not pregnant and the number of weeks!

34, that's what I did....after a string of bfn's... I did a cheapie and the usual evap line came up much quicker than normal so I thought it could be faint bfp....then I cracked out the FRER (saved for best!!) and got an instant bfp. I'd say buy a shop one but sounds pretty good to me! If it helps, I'm still doubting it and my dr has even confirmed mine!

Thanks frog and gary. I have to go to tesco on the way home so I will grad one from there. I'll do it when I get in and show H2B 'proper' BFP.