TTC after a miscarriage - springy BFPs for festive beanies

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Love and luck to all who need it, x

Morning all!

Welcome WeeWillie, so sorry for your loss honey you will find great support here. feel free to rant and rave, laugh and cry on here. There are a few who have recently mc on here sadly so we are in the same boat and can share experiences worries etc.

Smole how are you now, how you coping?

Piffle sorry your hormones are still playing tricks, when af arrives you may get some leveling out which wont' be long if you ov'd recently

Rubles - lol on your weather in London

Anyone seen Oinker lately? just wondering how she was

Just cold and raining here. Well think the bleed has stopped so roll on my first af for me! Everything else in my body seems to be getting back to "normal" and emotionally I feel fine after last weeks events. I definitely think that trip to the hospital Tues night helped me be at more peace with the loss. I should hopefully get the lab results back in a couple of weeks. Really wish my job situation was better though cos I want to get back on that band wagon of bd'g.

Hope you are you coping ok.

Enjoy your day! x

Nikki - glad you are feeling more 'normal', shame you have to wait ages for results back tho. I haven't heard from oinker for a whie I do hope she is OK.

Welcome Weewillie - sorry for your loss.

I'm fine. First af after m/c arrived Friday.

Glad you're feeling better Nikki.

glad to hear you are ok smole and af arrived, I personally think its a relief when you know your body is back as it should be.

I can live with the waiting tbh mygirl at least I am in the position to get a little report iykwim although I don't know what to expect, the first time my mum took it out of my hands so to speak, this time I took control and feel better for it.

Hellooo

Oinker - we were worried about you, how you keeping?

helllooo oinker how are you?

CONGRATS Mygirl......... Brilliant news..

I am fine. I have had a really hectic weekend. Went out on a 40th Bday bender on Friday and was still recovering on Sunday!!!!

I am so pleased for you and keeping everything crossed for you. I am sure things will be fine. x

ah remember now something about a 40th birthday think you may of said...if not then perhaps someone else been to one too

Hi WWW, and welcome.

I now have an appointment with my obstetrician next Friday afternoon, hope to get some answers then about the reason for my two m/c's. I am really hoping they find something concrete, especailly antiphospholipid syndrome, as my friend (same age as me, in early 40's) was treated for that (aspirin and heparin) after her m/c and she went on to have a lovely baby born last year.

Well, I will just have to wait and see.

Nicola glad you raised the point of asprin, anybody have any info on asprin at all? I should take 1/4 asprin every day for my heart and when I first got pg the dr said to stop. But my query is if I begin taking it again whats the risk, if at all, with taking that small a qty before and during ttc and pg? I say I should take it and haven't been lately ...oops.

Hiya all.
WWW- Great to see you again hun, shame about the circumstances. I told this thread was amazing. The girls here are supportive, kind and nutty lol.
Hiya everyone!!!!!
Here's to alot more bfp's a.s.a.p!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The aspirin treatment (75mg a day) to prevent m/c's is only effective if you have proven antiphospholipid syndrome. It would be very important for it to be under the supervision of your doctor, and if you are taking aspirin for other reasons, FirstNikki, you need to let the doctor treating you for that condition know if you are ttc and when you become pregnant.

HK I am waiting my lotto win then I will be like a rabbit! ....[she sighs]....

Ohhhhhhhh a lotto win sigh
That would be heaven

thanks Nicola that puts my mind at rest then, think will lay off it still for now I have managed for a while without it longer won't hurt.

yes heaven, could you imagine how much chocolate you could buy! ....or even the best in medical care how good would that be.

Oinker - so that's where you been hiding, in bed with a hangover! Bless. Thanks for the congrats

FirstNikki I'm sure you don't have to stop the aspirin. Some women are prescribed it and it is supposed to be such a small dose that it's not a threat at all. And if the aspirin is fora heart condition I def wouldn't stop.

Nicola - the appointment isn't too long to wait

LOL at you lot dreaming the lottery!

hello everyone

mygirl - congratulations :o:o:o

nikki - i too wouldn't have stoped taking the asprin unless under the advice of your cardiac consultant as the heart enlarges and turns to it's side in pregnancy so i would have thought it would be more important for you to have carried on taking it as it is a very tiny amount (dd is on half a tablet a day).

welcome www

Hi www,

Welcome. I saw your other thread and understand your urgency to be pregnant again. I hope you find it helpful and you don't need to be here long.

Hello all, www welcome, so sorry for your loss and i hope we can be of help to you, even if its just by making you laugh when you get low .

Nikki im really glad your feeling a bit better, so whats happening with your job at mo. I recall you mentioning a takeover by a new company, or have i imagined that?
Nicola hope the appt goes the way you want.
Smole hope your ok too.
Oinker sounds a fun weekend.
My girl my geography is terrible where down the m54 are you?
Everyone ive missed hello.

Does anyone have any advice for taking my mind off ttc? I have a cold sore and a stye in my eye now, for which I had to work from home because I look so deformed, and I put it down to the stress I felt in the last two weeks of my last cycle. How can I relax and not think about it - anyone have any techniques? It would help if I were busier at work but I am not so I have far too much time to think there. I am OK in the first two weeks, it is in the build up to AF that I become increasingly demented.

I have banned myself from the pregnancy, childbirth or birth announcements pages on here as a starter

Hi rubles, we were waiting for my first af post ectopic before ttc so i started knitting still cant knit but hey, it was so complicated and im so stubborn i was trying two weeks to "double cast on", it certainly kept me occupied. Or you could set your self some short term achievable goals, eg get fit, learn to cook italian, indian etc or even learn to cook. Read a classic novel. Write some cathartic poetry, whatever takes your fancy reALLY

Rubles - apart from G4P none of us can take our minds off TTC either!
G4P - I'm in Telford. Andwell done taking your mind off TTC with knitting I tried it a few months ago, made a scarf, it was pants hto!

thanks everyone for your welcomes... you're all lovely and it''s so nice having somewhere I can 'talk' to others who are going through the same emotions as me...

rubles, I know what you mean about taking your mind off things...I find that a hot bath with lovely relaxing oils, like lavender or geranium really helps. And read a good book, especially something that could make you smile. I like Bill Bryson . also try to just sit or lie down in a quiet room, close your eyes and just concentrate on your breathing, nice big deep calming breaths. Whenever you start thinking about other things, force those thoughts out by thinking only about your breathing. Works for me - often just sends me to sleep....but that's ok!