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TTC after a miscarriage - springy BFPs for festive beanies

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mygirllolipop · 04/03/2006 15:26

Here's hoping for a shney new spring thread with lots of spring BFPs and some festive beanies so here's some sticky dust...
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Love and luck to all who need it, x

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HumphreysCorner · 05/03/2006 00:48

Good luck ladies (((((((xxxxxxx)))))))

Coathanger · 05/03/2006 01:00

Mygirl - good luck for testing tomorrow hun everything is crossed! xxxx

mrsmaddyd · 05/03/2006 08:14

Good Luck you testers. I say go for it a day early wont make muuch difference.

Coathanger and Debsy im very well ta. Married life is much the same as un married apart from now i have to spell my surname out

I havnt been hiding im just up to my ears in work and the kids and am exhausted most of the time.I had that flu virus which knocked me out for about 3 weeks plus the pregnancy. Just general life.

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 08:38

Well took a test, and given that it is a day early and a not-so-sensitive test I dunno what the result is so gonna get an expensive one from Tesco and see what that says in a few days.
DH excited and says the line has a definite pink tinge but sometimes I agree sometimes I don't.
Maddy glad married life treating you well my love.
Hope everyone having a nice wkend.

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HellKat · 05/03/2006 08:49

Mygirl- Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh congrats!!!!!! Let us know what the next tet says hun. xxxx

rubles · 05/03/2006 08:53

Oh my goodness mygirl...this is getting really hopefule for you...I dare not say congratulations, but...oooh!

Nicola63 · 05/03/2006 09:04

Hi, just wanted to add my good wishes to those here. I had a bit of a down mood yesterday (m/c was ten days ago and I thought I was OK but then started feeling rather "empty" and low), but this morning is so beautiful and spring-like (well it looks like that from indoors, have not been out yet!) that I had to cheer up.

My DH thinks I have got a bit mad, I have become a healthy eating nut over the past week, started sprouting alfalfa and radish seeds in the kitchen and reading vegetarian recipe books. I suppose I feel like I have to do something different, and there is nothing else I can really do about anything until I get all the tests back in about two weeks time. I feel physically good and have started to lose weight (good, need to lose about 5kg to be back at my optimum weight) but its hard to get rid of the sadness.

Have a lot of work to do today (writing work, done at home) so will focus on that and go for a walk later!

Have a good Sunday everyone.

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 11:57

Thanks HK and Rubles, been and got a first response and will test in the morning if I can hold out that long!

Nicola - it's fine to be a healthy eating nut! It is good for you, not only the weight issue, and any baby. You don't have to do anything differnet although I can understand your feelings. When will you get the test results back? Oh just read 2 wks. It's not really that long to wait but I bet it feels like a life time for you. Good luck for those. You don't need to lose the sadness, it will fade over time but never go, you just learn to live happily with it.
How much is 5kg in lbs? I need to lose around 4 stone I suppose but haven't been motivated lately! Oops.
We too are thinking about a walk, although it's stopped being sunny, but the kids will all benefit from the park!

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Coathanger · 05/03/2006 12:04

Mygirl - ooer, well, I too will whsiper Sounds promising :)

Nicola - I had to let out a little giggle when you mentioned growing alalfa sprouts But on a serious note, it will get better hunni, that empty feeling gets smaller and evenually it will almost have disappeared - almost :( In the meantime look after yourself and don't try too hard to lose weight. Make sure you are well first. We are here to help if you need to talk and you don't have to go through low times alone {{{hugs}}}

MrsMaddyd - Glad marriage is sweet :) I still get my name wrong even after being married 3 and a half years and being with DH 10 years previous to that!! Sorry to hear you had that flu bug - we all did here too. Knocked us fr 6 - even litle one got it and it was pitiful to see him so poorly. Hope you have all recovered now xxx

Well, I feel really ill this morning. I woke up with what I thought was a migraine, but after talking to DH he said it sounds like the bug the kids and he have just got over - great! Hope it has gone by Wednesday

Nicola63 · 05/03/2006 14:51

5kg is about 10lb (I grew up in another country, so think in kg not lb and stones!). Not going crazy dieting (in fact went out for breakfast this morning and had eggs and bacon!) but just feel the need to do something positive for myself!

Next couple of weeks will seem long, yes...I do have a holiday to look forward to at the beginning of April, (an active one too, going skiing, very healthy!) so I'll try to focus on that. Sorry about thise who have a flu or cold bug, this time of year is not much fun at the best of time, SO sick of winter!!

FirstNikki · 05/03/2006 14:52

Afternoon ladies..

Mygirl everything crossed for you

Nicola it really is true time is a healer and we have ups and downs, great one minute and not the next but its all natural. good luck with the test etc.

today I just wish my job situation was better cos then I would definitely be back on the ttc wagon ready to try again. dh reassured me that we will just have to wait maybe a year even until job sorts out. I was so worried he wouldn't want to try cos of him worrying about his age but all is ok in that area. I am just impatient and want our little bundle of joy now!

On a lighter note I can't hack a night of drinking (friday), had usual hangover yesterday not feeling too bad but since I am used to going to bed about 10-1030, past 1am was just way past my bedtime and today I couldn't get out of bed so tired and now I am well and truely knackered. how on earth did I used to do it??

Oh and can't remember if I told you but I got asked if I was pg on Friday !!! omg she was mortified at her error but she then told me she lost in sept last year of which I told her of our exp. however seeing as one of her feet were in she jumped in with the other and said "you have just put some weight on then!" totally gob smacked. So weight loss mission on!

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 15:00

Nikki -how In other news DH persuaded me to take one of the first response tests. I'm not due on til 2moro and it was midday wee but..............................
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OMG in shock! Thanks everyone for yr msgs. Worked out I'll be due 13th November. I know I'm at a slightly higher risk of MC with Bfing but so am a little nervous but mostly excited and curiously thinking "sh!t what have we done!"

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FirstNikki · 05/03/2006 15:02

CONGRATULATIONS Mygirl and best wishes to you and your family xxxx

....you have made a baby thats what you have done! best of luck honey

FirstNikki · 05/03/2006 15:03

so pleased for you have you picked yourselves up off the floor yet??

rubles · 05/03/2006 15:06

Nicola63,

It has only been 10 days ago, remember, which isn't very long at all in terms of your hurt and emptiness, even though it may seem like ages ago in your mind - iyswim. Sadly, I think these downs are an inevitability that can come upon you out of the blue, even when you think you are getting on fine. In my experience they just got less severe and further apart. I guess the limbo land of waiting for test results doesn't help you does it?
I did the health thing too when I was waiting for hcg to go to zero which seemed to take an age. Although I wasn't as dedicated as you, (i just started taking vitamin pills and eating some veg or salad with every meal0, but at least it was something positive to focus on that was in my control as opposed to everything else.

I hope you have had a better day. It is beautiful isn't it? xxxx

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 15:09

Thanks Nikki!
Yeah we've just about got over the shock I guess you'd call it. I've even posted ont he PG after MC and DUe in Nov threads as have bn watching them this month as had a feeling

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rubles · 05/03/2006 15:10

Mygirl . Just seen your news!

that is fabulous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am soo chuffed - the first bfp of this thread. Hopefully not the last.

rubles · 05/03/2006 15:11

FirstNikki - at what that woman said...if she remembers it now she probably has her head in her hands in horror.

FirstNikki · 05/03/2006 15:12

You go for it mygirl get chatting to those in similar no. of wks

Nicola63 · 05/03/2006 15:16

Congratulations mygirl, very best of luck to you!

Yes, rubles, it is really a control thing...there seems to be so little about this whole process I can control and that is hard for someone of my temperament and personality to stand, so I'm trying to control what I can I suppose. Thnaks for the kind words, ladies, I feel rather fragile today despite a very kind DH and some lovely sunshine.

Coathanger · 05/03/2006 15:16

Well, Mygirl, all I can say is CONGRATULATIONS AND i TOLD YOU SO xxxxxx

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 15:17

It's surreal, all the difference is a line on a test, but the implications.........
I so want this and had a feeling but it's shock still.
Thanks rubles I started the thread yesterday and already a BFP! Here's more babydust and a rub from my belly:
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diddle · 05/03/2006 15:21

Oh Mygirl - thats fantatsic news - congrats mate i'm truly thrilled for you.

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 15:32

Cheers diddle,
the imaginary symptoms have started already, I can't finish my dinner because I percieve heartburn and I thought my boobs were bigger yesterday and today!

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mygirllolipop · 05/03/2006 15:33

Just seen yr msg CH, we crossed posts. CHeers love and yes you did tell me so!

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