Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

chloe xpost. i gave him a teddy he didn't recognise (had been put away when younger with loads of others as he had sooo many.) he cuddles that. we've also started using a "magic" spray. i changed the pictures in his room from beatrix potter post cards to pics of him as baby and with dh and myself. Last night he just lay there with his eyes open, i'm telling him your not going to get to sleep with your eyes open but apparently it's common, nursery said all the naptime children do it as well. eventually i turned his bright bed side light off and just left his really dim one on, sat in for another 5-10 mins then left, he still had his eyes open, but didn't cry or anything. So am trying turning the light off after story finishes again, and staying till asleep and leaving light off. will still spray and read none scary stories etc. i'm just soooo tired.

Cep when dd went through her phase just after Xmas I tried sitting on the landing, I told her that I would sit there until she fell asleep but if she got up I would go downstairs. It didn't work because she's too stubborn and just told me to go away so she could get up (!) but if it's reassurance your ds wants maybe worth a try? My dd is 3 going on 13 I swear, I can already see what she'll be like as a teenager!

harrassed can you see a different dr? What you were told doesn't make much sense, and I've heard that some gps will do basic tests after 2 mcs anyway, look after yourself today x

Sounds lovely Chloe.

I've only had a couple more brown spots (I'm checking obsessively, I'm sure if anyone noticed how often I went to the toilet at work last night they'll be wondering what's wrong with me!). My cervix is hard and high, and I think I can feel a little scab on it so maybe that's it (I really hope so, being not pg is hard enough but I really want normal cycles). We're off to sainsburys so that we don't starve!

mel no, unfortunatley i've tried popping to the loo and he waits for 2 secs gets up and screams. He only seems to settle if i'm in the room.

vegas oh glad af is here, can move you to the ttc list what cd are you now? and ucl?

Great news vegas !

Melie Stop fiddling around up there will you?! You are going to keep making it bleed!!

second that chloe in fact i remember a certain mel telling me to stop fiddling last week.

Ok I deserved that but I really really want to know what's happening! .

Hi Vegas glad you are getting back to normal

mel i know hon, been there. give yourself time it'll all become clear in a few very frustrating days.

collie Im not sure to be honest, I've never tracked any of it! My last period was 20th January, +ve on 14th Feb and then miscarried start of March sometime...mel I did another test this morning and it was -ve so feeling a bit :( that I might have missed my chance this month but I did SWI 5 times last night! I meant business haha! But at least a +ve shows my bodies getting back to normal after the mc....

Also mel i had alot of implantation bleeding, i put a sanny pad on because i thought it was AF coming, so fingers crossed hun!

harrassed Hope your all ok over there :)

vegas thats good news, im hoping mine isnt too far away either so I can start getting on with trying again rather than being in limbo!

cep How is everything going with you?

Hi chloe waves to everyone else :) its nearrrlyyy Friday!!!

xx

brooke not too bad. just soo tired. (i may have mentioned once or twice.) 5 times bloomin heck, i've never had the energy for that. good going.

chloe sorry also meant to say, yay on the job, it does sound tiring, i'm sure you'll do great.

harassed glad you've had the day off, how are you? Don't rush back into anything too quickly. ((hugs)) can't believe they won't count your prev mc bcs with another partner. What a stupid policy.

brooke wow 5 times! Fx it did the job.

cep your poor little ds. Bless him. Give him a cuddle for me.

chloe great news re the job.

@ mels poking around not taking own advice. Just try and tell yourself for every moment that AF is not here, it's a good thing. There's noone worse than me for stressing about not knowing what's going on, but it doesn't help, and in a few days you'll know (if only I could take own advice)

I'm feeling quite and weepy. Had lovely lunch and nice day at work, but as soon as left office just felt so sad. Had lump in my throat all the way home. I know it must be the thought of the funeral tomorrow. I'm dreading it. I just don't want to say goodbye. Still not feeling pg, and no real cramps to speak of for couple of days, but just lacking energy to worry.

Hi everyone,

I've just got home after a wonderful week with family. It's been wonderful being looked after by my Mum and then coming home to the lovely sunshine. And today my AF finally came. Well I think it is anyway. It's very very light but it can't be anything else as its over 5 weeks since I had any bleeding from the MC.

I'm off to catch up with the thread. But Yay AF (hopefully).

Oh collie, of course you are sad, I hope that tomorrow gives you some peace. As for the lack of cramps, I don't remember having any with dd but I did during my last pg (which were weeks earlier than my mc and nothing at all to do with it given that my body held onto the baby for 3 weeks after the heart stopped) so every pg is different so please try not to worry x

I'm fairly sure this spotting is from my cervix, it's too thin and mucousy to be af. So I'm trying my best not to worry too but I can't help wondering if everything will ever get back to normal, I convince myself af is about to get me and feel sad but sort of expect it. Then I have nothing for a few hours and think maybe not, and get round to thinking maybe it's a pg sign only to have a bit more and the circle starts again!!! I'm neurotic I know!

Hi Brooke, sounds exhausting but hope it's worked for you!

Hi Tokyo how's your dd?

Hi Melies, she is still coughing like a heavy smoker at night but otherwise seems much better. I think she's on the mend. Fingers crossed it'll last this time.

Hi all

mel hope you're feeling a bit more cheery now- i know how you feel though all everyone seems to talk about at work is babies at the moment, and my friend is due in a couple of weeks. Plus a friend's sister is due on my due date with twins which were 'an accident!' All she seems to do is moan about it from what I can tell. I know it must be hard work but I'd love to be able to moan about that!

Just seen I'm added to the list but I don't know how to update my CD etc.

Thanks for adding me in though cep (I think).
I'm ttc 1 UCL 28 and CD 11. I'll add it if a kind lady tells me how!

Got peak day on the monitor this morning so DP had a nice wake up surprise!- had to do my mascara laid on my back afterwards mind you. Not as easy as you'd think! Don't know whether we should dtd again later to be sure. Any thoughts?

Really really hoping this is a lucky month xx

Just a quick one, dh is sorting dd out so I can have a lie in, I've been awake since 5 and working tonight so need a rest. I just wanted to say to collie that I'll be thinking of you today, I hope that it all goes well and that you are able to say goodbye x

Hi to everyone else

Hope it's all ok at home blackkat

collie Big hugs for today and I hope you feel a sense of peace amongst all the heartache today.

thanks mels and chloe xx

Love and strength to get through today collie

Afternoon All,

I didn't come back on last night as tried to get an early night. I hope you're all ok.

collie i hope today has gone as well as it can do honey, am thinking of you.

mel i hope you're ok and not worrying too much today.

hihp i hope you're ok today.

tokyo glad dd is getting better.

well i got about 30 mins sleep between 01:30 and 6:30. i am a walking mush.

Friday's List

BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD43
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD32
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD31
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 27
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD25
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD23
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD21
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD21
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD16
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd15
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD14
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd13
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 cd12
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD10
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 cd6
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD6
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 cd2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31,

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Cep I take it ds still isn't sleeping then? Sounds exhausting! Did you take the drawers out?

How did it go collie?

Hi Vegas, good luck with swi!

Well, I'm still none the wiser. I'm still having blood stained/brown cm on wiping but nothing on a sanitary towel. I'm still obsessively knicker checking! I'm meant to be napping but can't sleep.