Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

Lets hope this is as lucky as the last one and we get lots of sticky BPF's......... including for me please??? That's the rule right??? I did start it after all!!!

Hey hun just popping on before my ban so i can find it on monday lol you got my CD as 20 right i have shocked myself! you will be lucky im sure a few of us will BFP'S all around :)

FRIDAY'S LIST

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd44
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 4 UCL 28 CD26
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD25
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD25
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD24
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD23
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD22
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD18
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD18
Ninunina TTC#1 post MC1: Feb 11, WTF, UCL 28-35 CD18
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, CD17
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd17
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD14
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD11
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD10
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 10
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 6
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD4
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD2
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD20

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 WTTC UCL 28/29 days
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd?
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? wtf

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Awwwww oils I am sorry I have frightened you off by asking for your CD. Its understandable to be all over the place in your WTF, i spent the whole of mine wondering what was going on and if i could be pg.....even though dh was away for the majority of it, and most certainly for the key parts!!

Have a lovely weekend, relax and forget about ttc. See you monday. xxx

IT was not you collie shocked myself at how early i am I still think i might be but i will wait and maybe being out of the loop for a few days will help! DTD every other day since i stopped bleeding and will countine till i get either AF of BFP

collie your spending this cycle wondering what's going on as well.

lili i think it was you who asked for a < not sure what the hell collie put in front of us earlier. This one is the one she gave me for poas too early

oli just have a nice relaxing weekend.

blackkat i'll forgive you........again.

i'm sorry i read the end of the last thread and have now forgotten everything.

There are a few ladies we haven't seen for a little while. laylasmummy, vegas , iggly hadrian boa ifat hiding hope you ladies are all ok.

collie found this, is more to do with hot tubs, i think as long as it's not too hot should be ok. www.babyhopes.com/articles/hottub.html

oli i am in awe and very at yours and dh's stamina. have a lovely weekend hon.

cep I know. It's soooooooo much easier to dish out the good advice!!! I'm chilled out now though, as I've had my +ive opk.....until tomorrow that is if my temp doesn't go up!!! Had some pain in left side of groin today though so fx. I bet you can't wait for my 2ww?!!! I will stress not stress, I will stress not stress

cep at my previous fish! T'was a work of art!!!

mouse i hope today went well, and that you're ok.

chloe how did your mums visit go.

collie oh lord let me know when it starts and i'll go on a holiday for 2 weeks. i'm sorry was that a bit too mean. and your fish was definately a work of something. And don't forget it takes ff 3 days of raised temps to declare ov has happened. Just do what you can to make sure you sleep in the same conditions.

I know, I think I might have to give up on the temps now as we're off to stay with a friend tomorrow who is having a bit of a house party so I'll be both drinking and no doubt sleep deprived, and then Sunday we'll be sleeping on another footon elsewhere, so definately not the same conditions.

Going to try and 'switch off' now for the 2ww. I'm just glad I know my body is back to normal. I don't think I can handle symptom spotting for the next 2 weeks. (god, what are the chances??)

i think that'll be a great idea. i think you should relax and have a fantastic time at your friends, it is definately what you need. are you going to stay off here or just not symptom spot?

What's this?! I go to work for a few hours and you start a new thread?! I know I got my dates confused but sheesh! :o

We'll remind that you said that this time next week collie! Enjoy your bath x

No cep I'll still be on here, I like catching up. But going to try and forget about what might or might not be going on.

yes, melies DO remind me of what I'm saying now in a week as if I was a betting woman I wouldn't bet on me you also have full permission to fish slap me at any sign of me symptom spotting b4 AF is due!!

oh good i was starting to worry i had been too mean. i'm off to sleep. have a fantastic relaxing and fun weekend.

mel hope work goes ok.

Hello ladies, I'm only on 'night release' I spent 10 hours in hospital today, surgical stockings, pessaries in, nil by mouth etc only to be told they'd rather someone more senior did the op tomorrow so I have to go back in the morning.

The senior registrar actually came to me half way through the morning to ask if I'd consider medical management and I said no (knowing my luck it'd fail) but that's basically what I've had and I've now started passing clots. Aaaggh!!

Oh mouse, just checked in hoping for news, but not this news how frustrating and tiring for you. Hope you're not in too much pain and that you are finally seen tomorrow. Sending you lots of love and hugs x

Oh no Mouse :( Hope you don't pass too much tonight and are seen to first thing in the am.

Still EWCM on wiping here although I attempted to check my cervix earlier (I had NO idea what I was doing) and CM was creamy...so NO idea what to think! In other news, I have gone off sweet stuff which is a classic pregnancy sign for me, though I am sure that is just in my head

Hi everyone, I had my last mc last month. I have had 4 in total. I am not sure about TTC yet, but have just posted a thread here called "confused, please help" - I don't really know what to do. Any advice will be appreciated.

Oh milkyway, you're in the right place love. Take a seat have a drink and the lovely ladies on here will look after you xx

Thanks ladies, I'll pop back in tomorrow and fill you in xxx

Fingers crossed banana xxx

mouse I'm really sorry about your day it sounds just awful. How bloody frustrating. Really sorry you're passing clots and I hope it holds off until tomorrow so you can get through your D&C. You must be so frustrated. Hope your getting lots of tlc tonight. (((hugs))

Will check in again tomorrow to see how you go on x

milky welcome. So sorry for your losses and that you find yourself on this thread and back on the conception board. I've posted on your thread. Not sure if it will help you at all but thought I'd share my experience x

Thank You collie2 your post was very helpful, and thank you for welcoming me here x

Hi milkyway, welcome to the madness! I've just read your other thread, sorry I can't help much except to say that I want to do my health visiting course (year long full time course) which I've put off to have another baby, I have to admit that after my mc I thought, shall I put off the baby thing and just do that? (my dd starts school in sept) but then I thought about it and realised that if I put off the baby now I might never go back to it, and I want that more. How does your oh feel?

mouse what an awful time you're having, hope things go better tomorrow xxx

collie I'll be joining you prob in the symptom spotting so keep some fish for me! (and I'm on the WTF cycle so I've got no excuse at all, I prob won't even ov this month fgs!)

wow you ladies can talk! I cant keep up and now there's a new thread! I spend most of time lurking, then by the time I get around to posting it's moved again

hi milky I'll go and check out your thread. Sorry you've found yourself here :(

fingers crossed melie and collie on the symptom spotting! mellie when I was on my WTF cycle I had about a ton of EWCM so probably ovulated but didn't DTD as was not fully recovered. So i hope you get plenty

cep how are you?

mouse sorry to hear about the D&C - make sure you look after yourself and line up plenty of chocolate and wine and indulge yourself for a bit.

This month I've decided to not check my CD, not to temp, not to use OPKs and only to check CM. Last couple of cycles I put pressure on myself to DTD at the "right" time and got very stressed. I honestly don't think I ovulated anyway. Ho Hum!

Also DS is waking up at night with molar problems so very tired so will be going easy on myself (and DH!)