Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

Aww thanks cep i doesn't really feel real though. The number of times I've told people on her, a line is a line, but i still can't believe it. Think I need to see a stronger line tomorrow to be convinced! so please don't move me yet, I'm not quiet ready

Sorry about your ds. It sounds like others have experienced similar things which is reassuring but I can imagine how helpless you feel, not wanting go get him in a bad routine.

banana < for you I'm afraid! Wait a couple more days I'm 13 dpo and its a v faint line Theres nothing worse than seeing a bfn x

mels I hope you manage to enjoy your weekend.

ninu where are you going?

Ok, got to try and get some work done.... Not that I can concentrate!!!

harassed, I hope so!!! Fx for you! How many dpo are you? I still had a -ive at 14dpo in my first pg.

Cep, glad to see bleeding is clear this morning.

How old is your ds? My dd is 4.5 and has to sleep with her lamp on low otherwise she freaks out. I have in the past got into bed with her, and asked her to show me what she's scared of and then we've talked it through. It meant a sleepless night (so best on a weekend!!) but it helped a bit, did take a while though. I also removed a lot of her teddies! It's taken time, but she's now a brilliant sleeper.

collie when was your lmp start date?

I'm not sure how many dpo I am, I didn't really pay attention tbh........ wish I had now! I was trying to do the relaxed thing, until last night really lol. My problem is a lot of my pmt symptoms are also preg symptoms, so no indication at all.

Af showed up exactly 28days after erpc, so hoping that would give me some indication!

he's 2.5, he has a lamp on which he never used to. we had this thing last week when he first said he was scared, i asked him what he was scared of, he pointed to the gap between the dresser and wall. about 2-3 inches cause by lip of dresser and skirting board. there was nothing but the shadow from the curtains cast by the light. i've taken loads of his teddies out, cause he kept pointing at different things, problem is he's got it into his head now he gets a reaction when he says he's scared, so i think part of it is him playing up to it now.

cep What's imp start date?

Meant to also say glad there's no blood today. Sorry, bit self indulged this morning! X

Collie last menstrual period to work out edd!

Cep aw bless him, yes I had to resort to a few strong words and a bit of ignoring in the end . I'd go up a certain number of times, but warn her this is the last time, so tell me now if you want me to check anything.

That did work, eventually!

Oh right lol!! Don't know where I got the i from?!!

Last date b4 my period started (is that what you mean.... I got this all wrong at the gp last time ) was feb 7th. BUT this caused me no end on anxiety in my last pg as my cycle is way longer that the average 28 days, so it put me at least a week ahead of what I'd actually expect to be.

Omg I can't believe we're having this conversation! It's not real yet!!!!

No, the date they use to work out edd is your last cd1. So first day of last af.

I can imagine a longer cycle length will confuse them, they're only meant to be 28 days for edd purposes you know lol! They revise them after first growth scan .

banana also meant to say you should ring you PALS (Patient Advice and Liaison) Office. I sit next to the manager of the service where I work and your situation is the type of thing her team deal with daily ? people wanting a service and not knowing where to go hoe how to get it, or people who are not happy with a services they?ve received but don?t know where to go next. They can advise you on your options and they are there to do the ?leg? work in terms of finding out. if you are not happy with the advice you have had, they manager here often liaise with GPs and practitioners to get better feedback and to mediate between patients and health professionals to get a better outcome. It may be you don?t get any answers, but by the end of it you should be happier with what you are being told at least, and not feeling like you are being fobbed off! this is the website to the national service. I am sure they can link you to your local one, or ring your local PCT and they?ll put you though xx

Lol @ Collie! So very pleased for you .

imp bless. ok i've worked out what your due date would be but don't want to start tempting fate until stronger line. (not that i doubt it'll be stronger but you know what i mean.)

so so chuffed. (you'll be on my bus by the way. i you want to join that is.)

Dh is making me go through all my tapes (huge box of them) recorded from years ago off the radio in the 90's while i was at school. omg i'm only on tape 1 song 4 and already i want to keep 3 of the songs.

I can't concentrate! Still haven't got any work done!!

@ cep old tapes! I don't have a cassette player anymore!

Just doing another post as my last was no 666 and it freaked me out [crazy lady emoticon]

i know, they're really bad, staticy volume all over the place. i haven't dh, has as part of his stereo stuff, but had to fix them as it had been so long since he'd played anything they'd broken.

i bet you can't. Have you checked your edd yet??? it was one of the first things i did.

No, I'm too scared! ff days nov 25th but I assume this is based on ov date and not lmp. ???

Says, not days!!! God this phone!!!!!

Oh cool dd!! You'll have to be all organised this year lol.

Tummy is rather crampy, think I'm prob going to be out this month tbh.

baby centre says on a ucl of 40 edd would be the 27th. Lmp of the 8th (you said day before was the 7th correct?)

fx not hihp

Congrats C wipes ollie thats amazing news!!!

OK i definatly need advice i feel like crying a lot!
What i thought was my AF turned out to be two wipes of pinkish CM and two dark dots of blood on the same wipe. I since have nothing but creamy white CM SURLEY THAT COULD NOT HAVE BEEN IT??????? and very

dont know what happened there CONGRATS collie :)

oh and it vitamin b complex turning everything yellow, go figure :(

Oli remind me hon, is this your wtf?

vegas just realised i didn't reply to you on tuesday very rude sorry. How are you doing at the moment?

Thursday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd57
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD38
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD38
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD35
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD33
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD31
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD31
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD30
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD28
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD24
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD23
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 23
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 19
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD17
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD15
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD13
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD13
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD8
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd7
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD6
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd5
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP