Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

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If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
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shorty how disgusting. my gp told me it was only for timing and i could start as soon as i wanted to. Second what mel and collie said speak to anothe gp or epu maybe.

yay collie smart lady you. no as i said it only seems to be after the fmu. i found this though www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-first-trimester/229889-can-uti-cause-spotting.html which obviously depends what she calls spotting. but sounds very similar. Your poor nan i hope she's ok.

mel it's almost obligatory (sp?) now if it's not best timing of edd. were you ok blood wise after dtd the other night??

lily so sorry af here.

Boo to af lily

That sounds fab collie, congrats!

cep we romantically dtd on a towel just in case but it was fine, I'm still having brown cm but no fresh blood so I guess it's healing, I'm glad I decided against a referral. Fx youve got a uti (gosh what a weird sentence!)

Hi girls

Pain has subsided have yellow CM and i mean yellow its a bit like EWCM but yellow, looked it up most people have seen it around the 8dpo and turn out to be pregnant?
I suppose i could i OV last week would not put anything past my body, my boobs are super sensitive today too Random???

lili sorry AF got you

Cep hope its just a UTI

shorty how dare your doc lecture you! Its your body and your choice! for you.

Collie glad your meeting was not too bad

Okay so inbetween feeding myself and the cats I managed to squeeze in a which poas! Nothing at first but now I can def see a faint shadow of a line... I think It was outside the 10 min window so I suppsose could be a mean evap line??!!! Oh bloody hell why did I do it??!! And I can't tell dh as promised it wait till at least tomorrow and he was so after yesterdays bfn that I dint want to raise his hopes in case it's another bfn!! Agghhhhhhhhhhh

Right, got to go!

mel i know it is. dtd on a towel, been there.

olis ooh fx then.

oh collie fmu hon. fx for you. you're still 3 days early today aren't you??

ok so positivity gone. a dark pink bloody cm now cm wouldn't be effected from uti would it???? i keep trying to think ositive that maybe cm picked up the blood that was "lying" around from the uti. grrr roll on monday.

Unfortunately the only other doctor at my surgery is the husband of the doctor I saw and is even worse. I rang the epu a few weeks ago and got shouted at for ringing when i'm not pregnant!!! Will try not to stress about it and see what happens next.

Sorry about the af lily x

Ooohhhhh Oli I have been having some of that yellow EWCM...very interesting! Hope it's a good sign! :)

Oh Cep I know that there's no point in me saying don't worry because you will anyway but your symptoms sound so much like my cervical erosion. I can't remember but did you say if you bled at all with your ds?

Fingers crossed for you collie, have you got any tests left? Do one first thing and let us know!

olis fingers crossed for you too x

Ohh collie that sounds promising. I hope you've got another test for tomorrow, my bfp started out as an almost non existent hint of a line.

cep Fx that it's just an infection. From what you've described, you're not getting enough blood to be really worried. My gran says it's just your body doing a bit of spring cleaning. I'm glad you haven't had more watery blood. You had me worried this morning.

nope not at all with ds, until i went into labour. that's what keeps freaking me out. there was a bit of a funny colour so did my usual and checked cm, not red but dark pink. i hate all the uncertainty.

shorty did she say when to worry and come back???

Yey! sounds mad to be happy but i am so relieved! just been to the loo and it appeers AF is here so maybe yellow CM means AF coming for me! I am actually really happy! I can start again and know where i am!! CD1 for me :)

cep if its not heavy bleeding then i would not worry thats what my MD says to me bleeding during pg is very common I know that wont help how you feel right now big ((((hugs))))

collie and banana

Hi melies and shorty and lili

xpost ninu i like the spring cleaning, as long as it doesn't decide to throw out the stuff i like i don't mind. Probably not and i know others have had lots more it's just that it's so much more than i had with last pg and look how that turned out. i know each pg is different but it's so infuriating. i din't know watery blood was a sign of ectopic, i knew spotting was and shoulder tip pain with abdom pain but that's it. oh and throwing up.

Does that mean you're back on the list olis?

olis so glad you're relieved and you finally know where you are.

Cep I bled loads more with dd than when I mc, I bled most days between 5 and 12 weeks, sometimes fresh, sometimes brown mucous. When I mc I had the tiniest glob of browny orange goo. So please please don't panic just yet xxxx

mel i'm ok i was just a bit happier when i could said it was only after fmu, which i guess i still can really it was only cm.

melies I was never off the list just going to take it a bit easier on myself this month focus more on getting fit but still have lots of SFF , that gets you fit right

If it is erosion Cep it could be that when you are checking your cm you are causing a bit of trauma to the area (the cells that migrate out aren't used to being touched because they should be inside) so I know it would be hard but could you stop yourself from checking? If you don't look for it you won't find it as they say. Sorry if that sounds bossy/harsh.

Just realised on my previous post its meant to say FX collie and banana :)

am totally horrified.... no seriously i normally try not to am scared of interfering and causing infections or something (i do wash hands before i do) i only did tonight cause of the odd colour on wipe. ironically the only time i last checked cm was when i last got the bloody mucus and a bit of blood which was a week ago last friday i think, can't remember now. (thinking face by the way)

I wasn't telling you off Cep, I've just read back what I wrote and think I might have come across like that , I just want to reassure you x

Btw my phone always wants to change Cep to CEO which I think is quite funny...

i know you weren't don't worry. i have noticed, i don't mind being a chief executive officer...at least wouldn't mind the wages.

Would someone mind updating the list (dodgy laptop won't let me break lines) AF got me on Sunday, so am now on CD4. xx