Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 14)

[Collie2]

If you are TTC after Miscarriage (or waiting to start trying again), this is the place to be. This thread is full of lots of lovely ladies on the post MC rollercoster and is full of support and advice from people who have been through it, and know what you are going through.
Jump on board and join in the for some laughter, crying or even the odd ranting (whatever you need). There?s lots of , (caffeine free of course ) and chocolate, and more importantly, friendly ?ears?.

The thread moves fast so bob in and out as you please. Don?t be afraid to ask anything ? nothing is ever TMI!!!

If you want to join the stats, just add yourself to the list:

WTTC = waiting to TTC
UCL = usual cycle length
WFT cycle = what the f*uck cycle (cycle after mc but before first AF)
For more accronyms see here

Good luck to all ? The last one was a lucky thread for lots of people so here's hoping for lots more healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread

This is the previous thread

Stats to follow.

hi all, nothing since. but i'll be worried until i get a scan, roll on 21st when i can beg gp to let me have one.

welcome minnie sorry for your loss. and congrats on the engagement.

mel yes go to dr and get some advice. and thanks.

collie thanks, in my head i know they're different but there's a place in there saying i've been here before.

i'm off to bed, still trying to catch up after friday night. night all

Morning ladies,

No sign of AF this morning, so I think I'll make the brave move of moving to the BFP list :)

Cep hope you've had an uneventful night (with CM & DS). I'm sure you've already googled pink CM, so know that it can me very common and doesn't mean things have gone wrong. I don't blame you for being worried though- I know I would be if I was in the same place.

Thanks for asking how I was, I'm feeling ok, just very tired (much more than last time). I think I got over tired this week, and haven't caught up with my rest yet. Funnily enough, I don't seem to be feeling that sick anymore- maybe my body is getting used to it already.

Minnie welcome to the thread, sorry for your loss, but congrats on your engagement. Mumtum is also planning her wedding, and we all seem to like wedding talk...there are even a few wedding pics if you scroll back to Wednesday's discussions.

morning all, Hope you're all ok.

yay ninu ds woke at 5:30 which although i would love a later morning seems to have become a usual time for him to wake. But at least he didn't wake up during the night.

Morning!

Ninu thats great news, fx for you and hope it's as stress free as it can be

Cep hope you've had a good night with DS and he slept well. Glad you had no more CM, how you doing this morning? Is the 21st the earliest you think they'll scan you? Is that at your EPU?

Welcome Securegal and Minnie, sorry you find yourselves here, you'll get some great support on here, everyone is really friendly and the thread has been pretty lucky so hope it is for you too. Minnie congrats on your engagement - how exciting!

Really sounds like you're having a horribly tough time, glad it wasn't ectopic, hope you're taking it easy and recovering well xx

Collie any more symptoms this morning?

Vegas any sign of AF for you yet? It's so frustrating isn't it, when mentally you really want to get back on with TTC but your body just isn't getting on with it too

Melis I would check with GP just for piece of mind. I shall be harrassing the hospital this week as it'll be 10 weeks since my erpc and I have absolutely no signs any more that af will be here any time soon, it is stressing the hell out of me

I did manage to have (almost) a day of not thinking about it yesterday - DH and I went to London for the day, had lovely lunch, went to the theatre and came home with 2 new pairs of shoes (doesn't matter how much weight I've put on with shoes!)

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday

Opps- it sent before I finished entering the dates...this is harder than I thought.

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD32
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 wtf cycle, UCL28 CD8
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

[hmmm] looks like I didn't send the first list after all. Thought I'd try updating the list for the first time. Please shout if I've muddles up anyones dates.

Managed to delete last line of msg-

Waves to Chloe, Blackkat, Shorty, Olis, Jkk and anyone else I've missed.

Morning all

cep glad ds slept straight through, although 5.30 is v early. Hope he settles down into a better pattern. Didn't mean to dismiss your fears yesterday, hope I didn't. Totally understand that you'd feel this way I know I'll be especially worried at the 9 and 12 wk mark if I get there again. Just try not to, (easy to say) it could be fine. What's the 21st?

LILI noticed your AF is due today? Fx it doesn't arrive

yay to ninu glad you got through your AF dd! Wishing you a very boring 9 months.

chloe you've been quiet. How are yoy? Still no AF?

No new symptoms so to speak of. Had a dull ache in below my pelvic area all yesterday afternoon and night. Not sure if it's around my ovary or uterus though and it's eased this morning. It's amazing how easily you can convince yourself of symptoms.

Day of diy today. Been saying we're going to 're-do' our bathroom for ages but been putting it off so jumping in and ripping up the floor.... Then we don't have a choice but to get it dobe

waves to everyone x

Hi everyone, just updating the list, I'm day 9 (sure this time!) sorry ninu, glad there's no sign of af!

Glad you had a good night Cep.

That sounds frustrating skit, good luck with your dr. I'm still spotting but much less than yesterday, if it stops today/tonight I might skip the gp, I can't face being sent back to the epu. In the meantime I'll do an opk this afternoon, the line was visible yesterday, so if it's darker today as I'd expect in a normal cycle I'll assume things are as they should be.

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD32
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD9
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

collie no i didn't take it that way so no worries.

skitoo it's a bit mental really. in my last pg i had a little bit of pink at around 6+4 went for a scan on 6+5 saw h/b thought everything ok. had another pink on wipe at approx 11 weeks went for scan and it had died at about 7 weeeks, so i have it in my head i don't want a scan before 7 weeks and although i know i ultimately won't make any difference as to whether it succeeds or not, if i scan before 7 wks i'll still worry for that date. i have gp on 21st who i'll beg for a scan due to this pink and a bit of blood i had about 1-2 weeks ago.

blackkat hope you're ok, and your dad is ok too.

just had a thought about the list. There are a couple of bfp's that have been sadly lost. Hairy and digi I think have mc since. Also A&R but still early days for her and hoping she's wrong. What's do people think we should do with the list? What have you done in the past?

Hmmm, I am convinced something is happening. Have no idea what though? This WTF stage is not called that for nothing. Almost 6 wks since MC.

I woke up with such cramps this morning I was convinced my period had started. It hasn't and a left over OPK read negative, so no sign of ovulating yet.

Cramps are still here and def feel like period pains. WTF is going on?

And why, when we never told dd we were pregnant has she suddenly started asking where the baby has gone. It doesn't bother me but I do find it very strange and a bit nice (if that doesn't make me seem weird).

Oh and hello everyone. Apologies for jumping straight in to me me me. I hope everyone is well and hello to all the new ladies. Sorry to see you here, but this is a lovely thread.

So for messing up your dates meliesmum. Can everyone else check to make sure I didn't mess up anyone elses?

Collie perhepas we could put them down as "thinking of.."? or put them back on the WTTC list. I wouldn't put A&R down yet since nothing's been confirmed, and I'm hoping she'll be ok.

I knew someone who was sure she had a m/c and when she went for her scan, it turned out that she was pg with triplets, and had lost one, but the other two were ok...so you never know.

Just updating:

Sunday's List

Shorty ttc#2 cycle 1, ucl 30 cd53
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 CD34
LILI80 TTC #2 Cycle 1 UCL 34 CD34
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, Cycle 7 UCL28-32 CD31
oli TTC#2 M/C#1 FEB 2011 UCL 30-31 CD29
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD27
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 CD27
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#2, UCL 28 or 31, CD27
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 1, UCL35-40,CD26
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 cd26
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 CD24
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD20
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD19
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 CD 19
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 7 UCL33 CD 15
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD13
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD11
meliesmummy ttc#2 cycle 1 UCL28 CD9
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD9
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD4
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 cd3
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 6 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 WTF
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
vegasmum ttc#1 wttc ucl? cd? WTF
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD31 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Hairytriangle TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL ?28 BFP Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD29 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD29 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD30 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD28
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD28 BFP 7/2/2011
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 4 UCL29 BFP 18/2/11
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Bit about being put back down there but also pleased that at least I am not randomly spotting anymore, however, am producing my usual horrendous blood clots again and making a mess of my clothes regularly It just totally f*cks up my social life as it makes me scared to leave the house for fear of an accident! Have had my Clomid this morning too - I know it's best to take it at night but I feared with all the spotting etc then this might not be my true second day so didn't want to leave it any longer.

Welcome to the new ladies who have joined over the past few days, I hope your days here are short in the nicest possible way.

Cep Re your spotting - it must be very scary for you but you know yourself that it can also be very normal so try and look at it positively (although much easier said than done) As far as your ds goes - my ds went through a very similar phase at that age. He always has a night light but shadows and anything ((even the man who was in his room ) was scaring him, I have no idea who said man was to this day??!! Anyway, just an idea but could you decorate it differently or let him stick his own artwork or something on the wall that seems to be causing the problem? Ds recently went through the being scared phase again but since I have redecorated his room we have had absolutely no more scared episodes.

Olismum Of course you can still lurk! Have you decided how you will go about getting fit? Do you have a plan?

Tokyo My AF has been totally different since my last MC so perhaps you may get AF soon but you might cramp for a little longer before it comes than you were used to?

Collie I will be keeping my fingers crossed that you will be one of the lucky ones this month! Enjoy the DIY.

Vegas It is very frustrating waiting for your body to get back to normal, I hope your body starts to regulate itself properly soon, that goes for all you ladies waiting for AF to show up since your MCs.

Ninu Nice to see you taking that extra scary step onto the BFP list!

Hello to everyone else who I haven't named or who is lurking.

No problem ninu, I did my first list on Friday and messed it up!

Hi Tokyo, this whole first af thing is a pain in the bum isn't it?!

Chloe sorry to hear af got you x

I think it's a lovely idea to have a 'thinking of' list. Good plan ninu

Thanks for asking chloe and thanks everyone for letting me lurk! even though i wont be Smeging of ov sticks or any of that i will still be DTD so i suppose you can never not fully be trying.

My AF has not turned up but i am sure i am not pregnant i feel like its coming but i understand it might take a while this cycle.

As for getting fit i have rejoined the Gym and I am going to start doing CaniX with my dogs just for fun i never stick to diets so i am basically going to avoid chocolate and crisps!

I am sorry to hear of people m/c after getting BFP :(

chloe sorry to hear af here. i may get you to come paint his bedroom, i do plain paint and even then dh finds something wrong with it.

tokyo good to see you. sorry your wtf cycle is living up to it's name.

when i moved ladybee i just said sorry to hear about the loss as we thought that is what you would want, hope you don't mind and hope you're ok and then put her on the wttc list. It is difficult knowing what to do though cause either way you don't want to upset them.

Just popping back from molar pg land to say hello - I still lurk on here and I suppose technically I am waiting to TTC so hope that's okay!

Congrats to the BFPs! And hope everyone else is okay. I have had my first results back and they were good so hoping that next week's are back to normal and then I will only have to be monitored until July. AF has also returned which is a good sign. Am also trying to get fit (waves to olis!) and have signed up for a 10k (I never run!) to support research into molars. Also planning lots of holidays. Still have some dark days, as I'm sure you all do too - when other people announce their pregnancies etc. and I have 'not fair, why me?' days. All very similar to post-mc feelings really.

I could never keep up with this thread very well at the best of times but do sneak on to see how everyone is doing so hope it's okay to pop up now and again. And hopefully I will be SMEGing and POASing with the best of you before long.

Cep know exactly what you mean about the date for scan. If I'm lucky enough to get there I have a 7 week thing too - I had a scan at 6+4 on xmas eve where they told me they couldn't confirm whether it was viable or not, I then had to wait 10 days for another scan for them to confirm it wasn't, the sh*ttest xmas ever! I really don't want to have to go through that again so would prefer not to have one before 7 weeks.

Chloe sorry af got you, hope the clomid isn't too bad this cycle.

I think the "thinking of" list is a nice idea too x

Tokyo sorry to hear WTF is messing you around, hope she arrives soon or better still if you are ttc then not at all. Think I've had 3 nights of cramps etc in the last 5 weeks where I expected to wake up to it but didn't .

Sounds like a good plan Olis, would love to do that myself but don't have time on my side, aarrrggghhh!

AF got me this morning :( so much for being extra fertile after a M/C Oh well, roll on the next week when we can start SWI again

arti glad your recovery is going well x

I'm having a bit of a freak out (tmi alert). I hadnt had any spotting since this morning so was getting round to the idea that everythings fine then whilst dd was asleep we had some unplanned sff which was nice till I started bleeding fresh blood! Now that's never happened to me after sex before, I made the mistake of googling and lots of horrid stuff came up. My rational side says that I've prob got trauma from the scans and exams up there, or it's the cervical erosion I had during my first pg come back to haunt me but I'm scared ive either got some permanent cervical damage (the exam I had in hospital was just awful!) or it's going to carry on and we'll be told not to dtd for weeks and I'll never get pg again! Arrrrr!

Hi Im noodle. I had a miscarriage and then went on to have a daughter. I then had another miscarriage last May. Starting TTC from now so hello everyone

Hello ladies,

This thread is moving fast!!

Welcome to everyone new :) and sorry for your losses...

Hello everyone [waves] hope youve all had a good weekend :)

we need to make this thread lucky and get lots of BFPS soon!