So near, yet so far! Holiday villa for those waiting TTC#1 having suffered mc

[MamaPower]

Hi all,

I need to take a holiday with some lovely peeps in the same position; I'm TTC#1 but had 2 mc's this year and now discovered my luteal phase is only 9 days (anything under 10 considered a defect) and probably the reason that I cannot retain a pregnancy.

If you have yet to be blessed with motherhood because mc has cruelly taken away your chance so far, then this is the place to retreat for some R & R whilst your body recovers.

Pull up a sun lounger, and lie back for some lighthearted banter and support whilst monitoring cycles or undergoing investigation and wash down the Vit B6, Agnus Castus, Progesterone and Clomid with a lovely vodka glass of sparkling spring water!!

((((((velvet)))))) just what you need to book a holiday, something to look forward to always gives me a boost

Sods law....when you have booked it you know what will happen huh?!? oh, i do hope so x

I've booked a holiday to Sri Lanka for Easter Time. We were going to hold off but putting your life on hold only makes things worse I think. Only worry is that if I'm lucky to fall pg again I will be extremely anxious in a country so far away but you need to carry on......

I second that Wakari and well said so velvet go book that jolly and if you get upduffed in the meantime you won't even care if you lose money... as nix said it'll give you a boost having something to look forward too

Waves to Orange, Dachs and Wombat

How you getting on Owl?

Morning lovelies! Wakarimasen, Velvet I'm having the same dillemma re holidays. DH wants to go to Oz in April (over my MC due date - which inciidentally now has a royal wedding on it just to make sure I can't miss the occasion!!). I'd love to go, but obviously I'm going to be upduffed by then () so I'm apprehensive about the flights and being so far from home if something goes wrong again.

Good lord - awful spelling. Sorry!

orest I think a holiday would be fine in April especially since Australia has similar standards of healthcare to here. I love my holidays so will always find a way to jet off somewhere new

Mmm holidays. Aus sounds brilliant, Wombat , I'd definitely go for it. Tis impossible to put your entire life on hold because of ttc but having done exactly that for 8 months of my life so far I am in no position to give advice :)

MamaC I'm checking my knickers every 10 minutes and fretting because I haven't thrown up yet. Am not complaining, mind, just massively, massively nervous about this.

Am so looking forward to finding the next bfp on this thread, I shall keep stalking you lot until I do

Please do keep stalking Owly, we'd miss you if you abandoned us totally!

Hugs for Velvet, are you feeling any brighter today lovely??

. Still umming on the holiday. Maybe we should wait and book last minute...? Am also toying with the idea of buying a (second hand) sports car . I'm thinking if anything is guaranteed to get me upduffed, blowing our carefully saved housedeposit/maternity leave fund to buy something totally incompatible with a baby has to be it, surely?! .

ha ha ha Wombat do it, you're absolutely right, get the sports car and you'll be expecting within 9 months of delivery!! Do it

Owl whilst I can't wait to get a bean I know I will fear going to the loo so I totally get that! Try to relax hon and think positive. Def keep stalking us

go for the holiday and the car wombo sure fire +ve then (as long as you get one that you can switch the front air bags off...just in case )

Our little villa had fallen off the first page of the conception threads so I thought I'd bump it. How is everyone this morning?

Nix - wish I could afford to do both but it would be a bit crazier and more reckless than I'm capable of being I think [cautious person emoticon]

Morning Wombat and all

I am sickly, got a nasty fever! Body temp is going up and down more times than a ho's knickers ! I have snot pouring from my face and quite frankly I can't understand why DH isn't coming within a mile of me! Actually come to think of it, even the mutt is giving me a wide birth!! Charming!

Oh MamaC - that doesn't sounds fun! Hopefully you've hit the worst and it's all better from now on!

Hello lovelies!

Oh and here in my Christmas sack is a kipper for Nix for all the knicker checking

Womble perhaps you could buy a weekend in Scunthorpe and a Robin Reliant instead if you were feeling cautious? Or maybe not.

I was forced to eat two roast dinners over the weekend having eaten my own body weight in dim sum on Friday night. If I never see another roast spud again, it'll be too soon. I feel like a whale. Anyone else suffering from Xmas overindulgence already or I am just a greedy bugger?

Two roast dinners sounds FAB!! I had to give my roast a miss due to work so am very jealous . Though the indian takeaway was a pretty good substitute

Hello again!

Everyone is probably busy getting reading for Christmas! I am still waiting on orders coming in the post - I've had no post at all for over 2 weeks

I'm on 9 DPO at the moment and my temps have gone up for the last 3 days! Got my work's party on Friday so am kind of hoping I'm not pg so I can get sloshed (although I would be very pleased if I was!) More snow this week too - another snow day???

Ooh good luck Wakarimasen!

Wakari any news?? Can I smell a Christmas bean??

How's everyone else? Any nice plans for the weekend?

No, I'm out this month! But my Luteal Phase remains at 11 days which is a minor cause for celebration......

Bollox, me too, she showed up yesterday!! Oh well, perhaps a new year bean for us then

Hello all!! Sorry that AF has shown up Wakarimasen and Mamac - perfect timing for a bit of Christmas partying though, no? [looking on the bright side emoticon]

Wombat yes I agree, every cloud and all that!! Bring on lots of festive bubbles

Am at work tomorrow then away for Christmas so I won't be around for about a week. Just wanted to say MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!!!!

I'm away tomorrow too for a week, will try and pop by but just in case I don't get a chance; Merry Christmas all and here's to a BFP filled 2011!