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DLA Wait Times Part 8 (2023)

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gingergingerginger · 27/01/2023 09:54

It's looking like we're going to need a new thread. Good luck to everyone waiting for a decision. Our scan date is 02/11 so it could be any day now, but most likely another week or two.

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Chocolateandstrawberries · 13/02/2023 16:47

Hayhoarematthews · 13/02/2023 16:29

Yay finally you have been waiting long enough did he have medium rate last time?

No he was on low rate before x

AdhdMumOf3 · 13/02/2023 16:52

After a god awful day full of worries I rang back sorry to anyone trying to get through I'm prob jammin the lines, spoke to the most lovely man who said while they have contacted the senco for more information it's not an unlimited time scale for them to get back to them and I should ring back Wednesday and a decision should be made by then, if the senco doesn't respond the dm may want to ring me for more information which I'm all down for. Not sure what else they could want tbf I sent clinical reports, diagnosis letters, made them aware we are waiting for an asd assessment which current wait is 2 years, Sen Support plans, zones of regulation plans, all copies of every intervention he has at school, health care plan for his raynauds, screen shots of communication between me and his teachers over the past 3 years which outlines his struggles. The only thing I couldn't send was Ed psych report as he was only seen on Friday and no1 has a copy of that report.

Massive thankyou to everyone on this thread as you have made me realise I'm not alone in any of this and you've all been such a support even if I've only really lurked knowing you are all here has been a massive help xxx

Hayhoarematthews · 13/02/2023 16:53

That's better news then you was expecting then

Scanner20 · 13/02/2023 16:54

@AdhdMumOf3 you've sent tons of information in by the sounds of it. You'd think that would be enough. With it being half term the senco may not respond. Fingers crossed for a good outcome next week.

AdhdMumOf3 · 13/02/2023 16:58

I did tell them it was half term and not to expect a reply but he says they give them 2 full days to respond and if they don't they will make a decision without it. Im not holding my breath but I feel more at ease x

Macariosmummy · 13/02/2023 21:22

@AdhdMumOf3 i hope you get the decision you deserve 🤞🏽

ChazD27 · 13/02/2023 21:34

Macariosmummy · 13/02/2023 13:14

@Snickerdoodles19 I have got an appointment with Senco and his teacher 23/2 so I can talk to them about how he is at school so I may video him next time he has a meltdown so they can see him in full swing, although I don’t feel like anyone should have to video their child to be believed like we would just make it up 🤬

I agree with @Snickerdoodles19 about recording him. It does sound awful but I have done the same…videos of meltdowns, communication and certain behaviours.

Macariosmummy · 13/02/2023 21:52

@ChazD27 tbh I think you’re right it seems to be the only way they are going to believe me 🤬

Cody4 · 13/02/2023 23:54

It’s literally 1 battle after the next my son EHCP got sent off last summer still not heard anything he’s moved school and year group. Then there’s everything else inbetween

C16 · 14/02/2023 05:04

Hi does anyone know how long the back payments take please?

Worriednow21 · 14/02/2023 07:43

C16 · 14/02/2023 05:04

Hi does anyone know how long the back payments take please?

My son was awarded on the Tuesday and the back payment was in the bank on the friday.

Macariosmummy · 14/02/2023 08:51

Anyone calling today? I feel like calling again on the of chance it was done yesterday but I know it’s pointless to call everyday lol

Scanner20 · 14/02/2023 08:56

@Macariosmummy if it will help settle your mind today then I'd call. You could be surprised and been awarded.

Macariosmummy · 14/02/2023 09:04

@Scanner20 if I was going to call today should I wait until this afternoon? x

LeaMack · 14/02/2023 09:18

I just called, my daughter was awarded on the 10th and she's getting HRC and LRM. I can't believe it. The first thing to go her way after the constant battles and fights, I was preparing to have to fight. I'm shaking.
My scan date was 8/11

Macariosmummy · 14/02/2023 09:22

@LeaMack congratulations the wait is over 😝 I’m going to give them a call

Scanner20 · 14/02/2023 09:25

Try now @Macariosmummy
Great to hear @LeaMack another one close to our date

twinmumaa · 14/02/2023 09:25

LeaMack · 14/02/2023 09:18

I just called, my daughter was awarded on the 10th and she's getting HRC and LRM. I can't believe it. The first thing to go her way after the constant battles and fights, I was preparing to have to fight. I'm shaking.
My scan date was 8/11

Amazing news, congratulations 👏

AdhdMumOf3 · 14/02/2023 09:30

To anyone calling today and still awaiting a decision good luck you've got this.. And to eveeyone who's had a decision already congratulations after the battle to get your children what they're entitled to you can now sleep a bit better knowing this round of battle is over for now xx

Lostatsea10 · 14/02/2023 09:36

Good luck to everyone today.

Macariosmummy · 14/02/2023 09:58

I have just spoke to them and the DM contacted the Senco at school 1st feb (which I wasn’t aware of at all and wasn’t told when I called yesterday or last week) and they last called Friday just gone but they Senco wasn’t available so now as it’s half term this week the DM may need to send out a letter and then we will have to wait until the school receives that and sends it back, I don’t think he is going to qualify now as Senco and his teacher are useless 😢

C16 · 14/02/2023 10:04

@LeaMack Congratulations that's fantastic news if you don't mind me asking have you received the back payment yet I have the same scan date

VickieC86 · 14/02/2023 10:22

Really hoping not waiting till end of March like they said last week

ChazD27 · 14/02/2023 10:24

I’d love to know the reason some claims seem to take much longer for a decision (besides DM sickness and holidays)

great news to those who have a positive outcome 🎉🥂

AdhdMumOf3 · 14/02/2023 10:41

Macariosmummy · 14/02/2023 09:58

I have just spoke to them and the DM contacted the Senco at school 1st feb (which I wasn’t aware of at all and wasn’t told when I called yesterday or last week) and they last called Friday just gone but they Senco wasn’t available so now as it’s half term this week the DM may need to send out a letter and then we will have to wait until the school receives that and sends it back, I don’t think he is going to qualify now as Senco and his teacher are useless 😢

That's totally different to what they told me last night regarding senco. He said they try twice and then male a decision without senco.. I really don't understand why we're all told different it makes it more confusing for everyone. Maybe they all need to start singing from the same hymn book then threads like this wouldn't be full of conflicting information from what we've all been told.. I really hope you get a positive outcome xx

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