Nj i don't know where the thread is but i have read your posts on here.
You know there is no guarantee that everything will be as fast again. Do you remember me having major panic attacks about delivering Beau alone as dh was away and we have no family nearby (closest 4 hours) and i had only lived here a year so no friends to ask either. Our hospital is also 40 minutes on a very good run, it is a town center too.
Beau was 10 days late and induced and took frickin hours (well 5) to come out.
ds#4 took 40 minutes and the midwife barely made it, hence my panic.
The consultant will not induce you unless there is a medical reason too. You need to plan a HB. The midife will deliver a pack (there is not much in it tbh) but she and her collegues will be on alert for you. They will take note of the fact you may labour fast. It is better to have the midwives ready to help than be alone with the boys, trying to get to hospital in a taxi.
It is safer to plan things than leave it to chance. Of course chances are you will go in to labour at night and dh will be with you, the boys snoozing and you will have the baby at home.
Even down to school run issues like going in to labour 10 minutes before ds finishes school (one of my panics) the school will hang on to him, they will phone and speak to you or the midwife and just hold him. One of the teachers will probably run him home. He will be fine and probably see it as an adventure.
I spoke to the school about it as i was so concerened. Then the children (4 of them) were 3 miles away in a school i had to drive to. No one could pick them up as they couldnt fit them all in a normal car!
Honestly i am with you on all of this but you must be clam. I am sure all the worrying i did thinking B was going to be super fast and i would be alone contributed to my utterly appalling labour with him. I was genuinely SO shocked that he was not born in the first hour of labour i lost the plot.
Calm thoughts Nat, it will all be ok. Plan for the worst and hope for the very best.
Kay are we predicting baby weights and dates? What is your due date?
Sorky have fun shopping and i am like you, just getting excited about this baby. My sis in law is due the week after me and i am much more excited about her baby. I will be an Auntie for the first time
Glas have a fantastic weekend away, we are still waiting for our honeymoon too...make the most of it