Hi Ayrshire,
LO was 6lbs 10z. (forgive me for not posting his name, yet)
i had a slow progressing labour, the middle was quick, and the end was slow. i think from beginning to end about 27 hours.
that meant, consistent contractions forever, went into the bath for a few hours and then put on the tens.
quick middle bit meant i missed the opportunity for an epidural, as they thought he would come pretty quickly.
But he didn't as he was not lined up right and he was back to back.
so eventually (after much begging and pleading from me!!!) they decided to give me a helping hand, so spinal and forceps.
But i think baby's condition was more important than my plea for help, as his meconium poo had been coming out from when i had the show. so they had him monitored and finally when i was too tired, and he wasn't budging, got him out.
loads of Merconium apparently because the cord was squashed as it was wrapped his neck, shoulder and back.
i missed out on all the really yukky stuff i ws expecting, such as waters breaking (they could still be up there for all i know!), delivering placenta- they took it out and i felt nothing (with the spinal aneasthetic), pushed hard, but did't poo in labour!!¨
Don't want to scare you, the pain was bad, probably coz he was bak to back, but i have forgotten it all ready.
the spinal was amazing, when i got it. i felt nothing, and went for being a screaming banshee to a really, quite reasonable woman!
(my downstairs got a free shave too, in case i needed ceasarian)
About half way through, when i asked what pain relief i could have, i was expecting the response epidural, gas and air etc. but the response i got was PARACETAMOL. to which i snapped, i don't have a shitting headache! what the hell is that gonna do!! ok, fine! give it to me then! suppose my logic was, something was better than nothing!!!
(didn't want pethidine)
Varginal exams were more painful, for me, then contractions. i was trying to pull there hands out, as they were trying to get them in!!!!
thought Gas and air did nothing, but who knows really. made we woosy, not high.
i got pretty arsy will the MW by the end coz she was suggesting alternative theropies...i told her i need a ceasarian, not a flipping massage!
Anyway, thats the gist of it! hope i haven't bored you...
if it helps had my LO ater a MW appointment so fingers crossed so will you, but hopefully a quicker labour!
will have to go and check out the post natal thread...
look foward to hearing your story...