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JSing Grads turn 21! We've got the Key to the door, cosy wombles and a drawer of dirty spoons.

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teejayem · 04/02/2015 09:31

Welcome, welcome, welcome to the 21st grads thread... celebrating the success of Just Shagging in getting us viroids upduffed!

For those that don't know, a 'viroid' is from the original JSing thread 1, where someone was trying to type ladies (in reference to all the JSing ladies), but their phone decided to call us all viroids instead!

The name stuck and we've been the JSing viroids ever since.

The thread we have graduated from is here in its 38th outing. WARNING: they're all a bit kerazy not to mention randy!

There is also a Just Mumming thread in postnatal clubs here for once your babies come along, or to keep up with the graduated graduates! It's a bit quiet at the moment, but with all these upduffed viroids hopefully it won't be for long!

There is also a private facebook group (so it doesn't give the game away in your news feed!)... if you want to join to see photos of new babies etc, just ask in-thread!

So, roll call below please, viroids!

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laurenamium · 12/02/2015 16:42

Exactly la! I can't even do too much housework GrinWink

ChatEnOeuf · 12/02/2015 16:50

Scan all fine thankfully! Pic on Facebook :)

Hope it goes well this evening Mountain

gaggiagirl · 12/02/2015 16:53

mountain have you been scanned yet?

Fleurchamp · 12/02/2015 16:55

What's the story with red's BFP?

LaLaLaaaa · 12/02/2015 17:02

fleur Red was a regular on the JSing threads when I joined and had been for a really long time. She was going through IVF and had had two unsuccessful rounds. She had her third round and got bfp, which we all were so happy about!

She's not really been on since but she has a blog that we have been able to follow her progress on. I just remember her bfp being such an emotional moment because she'd gone through so much heartache!

So I'd like to keep her due date (this saturday!) on there in honour of perseverance and victory!

willywallace · 12/02/2015 17:02

Congratulations Chat. I kind of can't believe you're only halfway stage, I feel like you should be further on.

Brilliant work Lauren. I also hate children's parties. The best ones are when they're just allowed to play, no stress of party games.

MiniWil has lost the plot. Her behaviour has gone off the chart. I know she's just reacting to the new arrival but it's really testing my patience. Anyone with other children, how long does this last?!

Fleurchamp · 12/02/2015 17:38

Thanks la hopefully she updates here/ her blog when baby red arrives!!

Fleurchamp · 12/02/2015 17:39

Re kids parties

We have established a rule. Only one of us is going to go. That way the other gets some peace for a couple of hours and we each only have to go to half as many! we love children really

Cymraes17 · 12/02/2015 17:56

Im still waiting for it to pass wil!
They go through so many phases you just need to go with the flow really. Some days its good and everyone gets along, some days you just have to count to 10 (optimistic number there!) and hope that they listen and settle down.

minimooo · 12/02/2015 18:04

Congrats chat! Lovely news Smile

Haha! Cunning plan. I like it lauren! Grin

laurenamium · 12/02/2015 18:15

Oh yes fleur there's no way we would both go to parties, this is actually DPs first party with DD as I do them all normally, he's back and said it was grim. GrinGrin

Congratulations chat!

LaLaLaaaa · 12/02/2015 18:26

Ooh I missed chats post!!! Hooray chat! Xx

ZylaB · 12/02/2015 18:58

Yay for scan chat :)

Indigoblue2 · 12/02/2015 19:17

Can't wait to hear update from mountain now!

lildottie · 12/02/2015 19:30

ladies I have a problem I need your help with.
my bff knows we have had ivf but dh doesnt want me to tell her I'm pg. she leaves the country in 6-8 weeks and is about 9wks pg herself. I feel unfair ignoring her messages about it (she's outright asked me tonight on WhatsApp) but I don't want to betray dh. do I tell her but let her know she's not supposed to know, or hold off?

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teejayem · 12/02/2015 19:34

Can someone talk to me about nips please? In the last what feels like two days, my usually rosy nips seem to have doubled in diameter and got really dark, almost brown? I also have some red marks around the nip area please don't be stretch marks, please don't be stretch marks plus the occasional stabby pain... anyone else?

It's not even fiery biscuit tits. It's more candle flame cracker norks.

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Indigoblue2 · 12/02/2015 19:51

lil I say tell her for def. If she's a long term best mate, I think it's a bit unfair of your dh to insist you don't tell her. It's not like she's some random you're half friends with. I would be quite upset if I were her and thought you were concealing such an important milestone from me. I think it's important that you as an individual, and not dh, gets to choose who is worthy of giving you support.

gaggiagirl · 12/02/2015 20:01

lil what indigo said

tee have your nips only just got dark? This is normal. The extra red bits on them and big areolas are all to do with getting you ready to become a dairy queen/ a milk machine/ a jersey cow.

Indigoblue2 · 12/02/2015 20:02

Cripes went a bit feminist on his ass there! All I meant is that you're old enough and careful enough (and an uber sensible accountant) to be able to choose your own confidantes wisely Smile

lildottie · 12/02/2015 20:31

thanks indigo and ga. I think I might just reply asking when she's free for coffee and then I can say I was waiting to tell her in person.

laurenamium · 12/02/2015 20:32

tee my nipples are HUGE and dark. I hate them. They went back to normal after a while after I had DD though so I'm hoping they do again this time! Smile

Pisghetti · 12/02/2015 20:34

Lil I agree you should tell her if you trust her to keep it to herself but you should also tell DH that you're telling her and why.

Can't remember what else anyone has said - brain fried! Except La narrows eyes I will not be next until we know Red has had her DD. I got my BFP on the thread she started Smile will pop on the web version soon so I can keep up and be a better viroid. Oh and yes my wagon wheel nipples were a sight to behold! Noticed this morning they're a bit smaller and pinker at the moment....

Finally heading home. It's been a loooong day. Just one more to go GrinGrinGrin

WigglyBraddins · 12/02/2015 20:35

Oooh, a bit of nip talk is enough to make me delurk! Mine seem to have quadrupled in size. They are MASSIVE and poke out. I am in danger of blinding short men in crowds and shutting them in doors. tee I share your pain.

WigglyBraddins · 12/02/2015 20:41

splodge on a more serious and vag-related note, my labour with DS left me with pelvic floor damage and urinary incontinence. I've seen a consultant at the hospital once about this who referred me for gynae physio. I mentioned all of this at my booking appt and the midwife sorted a referral and I was seen yesterday at 21 weeks. This was well worth it because the consultant gave me lots of helpful advice for now and for my birth plan, says I don't need to rule out home birth or midwife-led birth yet and most importantly said I must be scanned again at 32 and 36 weeks by her. This is because if the protoWiggly gets too huge they'll need to come up with a plan B.

So.....if I were you I would DEFINITELY push for an earlier appointment. You may need more scans. I really hope the hospital are helpful. Good luck.

LaLaLaaaa · 12/02/2015 20:50

wiggly that was an excellent reason to resurface!

pis but how will we know...? What if she doesn't update the blog...? ;)

wil what is miniwil doing?

lil - what ga and indigo said! I think that's unfair of dh. Girls have bffs and those bffs have been with us through thick and thin. Of course you want to tell her!