Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

[Mummy2TandF]

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

so very very sorry, thinking of you and your family xxx

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't pretend to know what you are feeling, but you are not alone. Many people are here to support you as best we can.

so, so sorry xx

I read this in the morning but didn't post as I thought, well, you don't know me etc etc. BUT I've been thinking about you all day and feel so sorry for your oss. My FIL died very suddenly and quite young (he was out running) so I can slightly appreciate the dreadful shock and the fact that your brain can't take the news in at first.
My thoughts are with you and your lovely dcs.

So sorry to read this, you poor thing. I have read your previous threads (but not posted) so I know you are a wonderful mother and homemaker. Your children are so lucky to have you to help them through this. You must keep posting here for support. Good luck to you all.

oh god what a shock, i'm so sorry this has happened

I am so sorry to read this, and am thinking of you and your DCs.

mummy2tandf, i cant even begin to understand, im so so sorry to hear this, if you need me you know the email address, oh hunny!

im so sorry, how awful. u and yr children in our thoughts and prayers. my only advice, take anybody up on any offer of help so u can concentrate on u and yr children. Take care

so sorry

So sorry for your sudden loss.

my thoughts are with you and your family mummy2TandF.
So very very sorry to hear your sad news.

In time I hope that your happy memories will become stronger than your grief.

Please ask for whatever help you need on here and we will help in any way that we can

oh goodness, how terrible. I am so very sorry.

I am so, so sorry. Wishing you strength.

I am so sorry

When you are ready there are some groups that might be able to help and support you, including dealing with the children. Such as WAY (widowed and young) for example.

So sorry

I am so sorry, if there is anything I can do pl let me know

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I am so sorry to hear of your awful news. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Try to to be gentle to yourself.

xxx

Thanks everyone for your kind messages - they maen a lot to me. I still haven't been able to tell ds He just thought that everybody was here to see hin today .... and his trampoline arrived that dh and I had ordered last week.
I have been to see dh at the mortuary this morning and I am glad ... although they hadn't been able to clean him up or do anything with him until the coroner can do the pm tomorrow morning ... it was good to see him, made it more believable IYSWIM The pm should be done tomorrow morning and I can see him again then if I want, when he is a bit more prsentable. I also went to the lake where it happened and talked to one of the first people there, which helped a bit. It doesn't sound like he suffered at all .... just collapsed and died in an instant. Life is not fair, he was only 36 They think it was most probably a massive heart attack, but we will know more tomorrow

Oh, how awful
My thoughts are with you {{{}}}

My sister is here with me tonight but until I know what actually happened myself I just can't tell ds The police brouht dh's bits home last night including his mobile phone and ds got up this morning and said "oh, silly daddy has left his phone here" ..... What do you say to that?