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Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

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Mummy2TandF · 29/08/2007 09:48

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

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Pixiefish · 29/08/2007 17:35

So very very sorry to hear this. Shall ring Yorkiegirl now.

Charlee · 29/08/2007 17:35

OMG I am so sorry, what a terrible shock, i really feel for you and your children. I know you from Nov 06 babies and you seem like a strong lady, you will cope for your children.

If there is anything at all i can do don't hesitate to ask.

leakyR · 29/08/2007 17:41

So sorry for your loss. My love and thoughts are with you and your family.

dustystar · 29/08/2007 17:45

So sorry for your loss

chipmonkey · 29/08/2007 17:53

Oh, that is terrible! So sorry for your loss and for your dc's.

mummydoit · 29/08/2007 18:00

I am so sorry for your loss. What a tragedy.

inzidoodle · 29/08/2007 18:03

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purplemonkeydishwasher · 29/08/2007 18:11

i'm sitting here in tears.
Mummy2 - there are no words. I am so so sorry for your loss. and your dc's loss as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

tribpot · 29/08/2007 18:15

I'm so, so sorry.

AngeG · 29/08/2007 18:55

So sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Yorkiegirl · 29/08/2007 19:00

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filthymindedvixen · 29/08/2007 19:04

oh lord. I didn't see this thread before. I am so sorry Mummy2TandF. Thinking of you and your children

inamuckingfuddle · 29/08/2007 19:16

so sorry to hear this

Califrau · 29/08/2007 19:57

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whoops · 29/08/2007 20:01

So sorry to hear this
Thinking of you and your family

LaDiDaDi · 29/08/2007 20:05

I'm sooo sorry to hear this dreadful news.

.

I really wish that I could think of something helpful to say to you.

I hope that you have support from your rl family and friends. Take comfort in your dc who mean that a piece of their daddy will live on in them.

BBBee · 29/08/2007 20:05

how horribly awful.

I am so sorry.

snowleopard · 29/08/2007 20:06

M2T&F, I just want to join with everyone in sending my condolences and support. MN is here any time you need to talk and get support and there are people here who will truly understand. I'm so sorry for your terrible loss.

TinyGang · 29/08/2007 20:10

This is terrible. I am so so sorry

EllieG · 29/08/2007 20:12

So sorry Mummy2TandF x

notsofarnow · 29/08/2007 20:14

i'm so so sorry. Will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers

elkiedee · 29/08/2007 20:18

Yet another stranger who just wanted to say sorry to hear your news. Hope you can find both practical advice and emotional support here and in real life.

ambercat · 29/08/2007 20:20

i am so sorry to hear such awful news

indiasmum · 29/08/2007 20:21

so so sorry to hear your tragic news mummy2

Beauregard · 29/08/2007 20:21

So sorry to hear this terrible news
Thinking of you and your dc
xxxx

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